Caracta:
Jeeeeez! Caseless? Like seriously? I'll sooo break your head! What the....? Oh no!

Caracta: @caseless, i'll answer your kwesion at derailers paradise.

bukatyne: Mr Sharp Man, learn to cool down sometimes. I never said a woman should/shouldn't do chores. I was not even talking about women in that post, i was talking about men. If you had read the thread from the beginning, you would have seen my earlier comments to women.

sharp man:

Of course i knew you were not talking about women......you were certainly referring to the men......and you implied that they did not know what marriage was about. You conveniently ignored the original question about women doing chores.

Your post meant that men should stick with their women regardless of what the women do....and not sticking with them meant that they did not know what marriage is about.

My position is that a woman who knows what marriage is about should be ready to sacrifice....in other words do chores.....for the man you want to marry. That you should have also mentioned.

caseless: oh...jingle-pringle! Was she hurt by someone, or som-in....?

Binger, wat did u do to her?

binger: Do i look like her caretaker?

bukatyne: The problem which was reinforced with this thread is that a lot of people don't know what marriage means. Imagine guys saying 'if you don't do A B C, I will replace you with a willing 1000 and 1 girls begging outside' It shows the guy doesn't know what it means and that's why marriage crumbles daily. The moment you feel your partner is replaceable with a click of your fingers, please don't marry her because you will replace her one day. I am not saying girls shouldn't reciprocate the guy's love because they are 'irreplaceable', but men should get to a point they say 'i want to live the rest of my live with YOU and YOU ALONE!'; 'We have the same vision and we would help each other to achieve it'; 'Being with you gives me the strength to carry on daily'; 'With the few times we have spent together, you have added value to my life' etc. How can a man tell me that 'if you leave, another girl would walk in bla bla bla?' He is telling me that I don't add value to his life. He is telling me that I'm not special to him. He's telling me that he doesn't have any drive or desire to be with me for the rest of his life. Why then is he in the relationship? What is motivating him to be with me daily; since I'm not worth it? This is reason enough for me to quit a relationship and look for a man who would value me and feel my presence in his life. When I am referring to a man's love, I'm not talking of BB, Brazillian hair, club and Mr. Biggs; I referring to a man who knows you well enough to know your dreams, desires and support them; a man that loves you enough to merge your visions with his; a man that is a solid support in times of problems; a man you can lean on and cry when sad; a man that is your greatest fan and support; a man whose warm embrace makes you forget all your worries in the world. It's well.

bukatyne: You still didn't read the quote you just posted. That was not my first comment on this thread. I had commented to the issue of chores previously. I posted that comment because some guys were saying 'if she doesn't do chores, a thousand and one women are knocking etc'.
@bolded, i never said a man should stick with his woman whatever she does. If the man doesn't feel comfortable with her after trying his best to make their relationship work, he can call it quits and reflect on why it don't work. It might be he chose the wrong girl, did some things that resulted to the girl's reactions or the girl is plain silly. I have a problem with a man saying 'you are easily replaceable bla bla bla' and that was the center of my post. I also tried to define what I meant by love and what a man should offer a woman in a relationship. Like I said earlier, I am not against doing chores for a guy who is worth it. Read my first 3 posts on pages 11 and 12 this thread where I referred to dammytosh so you would understand my POV better. (I had to go through the threads to check out the pages )

pak:







Have you ever heard of that wonderful invention called 'paragraphs' ?

and please, typing from your phone is not an excuse

bukatyne:
I type as the idea flows.
Thanks for the feedback.
Hope you read the posts?

Caracta:

*rolls eyes to kebbi state*

binger: *slaps her eyeballs*

Caracta:


*reports him to a super moderator*

binger: i will tantalize you if you don't take time.

Caracta:
Don't tantalize me. I'm not hungry

rossybell: Hmmmmmmm, ‎​I̶̲̥̅̊ ve been a passive reader of this thread . ‎​I̶̲̥̅̊ ll like †̥ say here that everyone ȋ̝̊̅§ entitled †̥ his or her own opinion, wat works Fό̲̣̣̣̥я̩ ♍ε̲̣̣̣̥ might Ŋό̲̣̣̣̥t Fό̲̣̣̣̥я̩ Чø̲̣u̶̲̥̅̊ . ‎​I̶̲̥̅̊ just feel ders nofin wrong i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ helping out wit his chores even 7 days a week. It̶̲̥̅̊s all about d heart ,wen U̶̲̥̅̊ truly love a person U̶̲̥̅̊ can't help ßut̶̲̥̅̊ give give give it̶̲̥̅̊ could be i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ kind or cash. As Fό̲̣̣̣̥я̩ ♍ε̲̣̣̣̥ ‎​I̶̲̥̅̊ D̶̲̥̅̊ό̲̣̣̣̥ everything Fό̲̣̣̣̥я̩ him because ‎​I̶̲̥̅̊ love him aΩ̴̩̩̩̥d̶̲̥̅̊ he's worth everybit of it̶̲̥̅̊ . Marriage will come wen due .... Sorry lastly Prayer is D̶̲̥̅̊ key

Maya2pretty: I believe anything u do in a relationship should b because u want to not because its wat d world expects. If u really love d guy den it comes from d hrt, u just want to make him happy and d extent u go is ur bizzz, keepin it real is vital in a relationship

Idowuogbo:
In 2013, y'all still get dis kian mentality? Wots d biggie about sweeping, washing and cooking? I mean for Godsake, dose are d qualities a guy who wants to settle down would probably be on d look out for. All dis shakara dey ruin cv o! U were warned o! Hian! Smh.

bukatyne:
I type as the idea flows.
Thanks for the feedback.
Hope you read the posts?

rossybell: BB Ŋo dey shak me abeg ​Ooº°˚

Oahray: Kai! BB still dey shack people like this? I no fit read wetin you write o, no vex.

ItsModella:
wallahi!! those boxed up symbols...urgh!! they piss me off...write normally BB users, write normally...we know you have a BB, now can you freaking write like a human being? Even when I had a BB, my writings didn't look like a joke.

Jummsy: My best comment here

rossybell: Summary be say follow you heart ,let love lead the way and Pray always for your relationship. Shikenah !

rossybell: I don hear ooooo , sheiii i ​hve modified it. I was hurrying to the church and needed to post my comment. No time for adjustments, Una kpele ​Ooº°˚

Oahray: em... Ok, but did you read the topic first?

Maya2pretty:
Hehehe