Over-possessive mothers virtually determines the paths of the child over which they assert this `love` not minding the age of the child. This expresses itself in the choice of career, schools, church denominations, friends to keep, when to go out and where to go, what to eat, dresses to put on etc. Not minding that you are above 18years and above yet she keeps behaving this way, what will you do?

having an over possesive mom can be too bad


all i can tell you is that one of the best things to do is to put your foot down in some decisions you'll make and stand by it...no matter how she reacts and screams...after all the rage, she will have to come to terms that you aint a kid anymore and has no other choice than to comply

but the key is not to over do it but to know when to do it and most importantly, DO IT WITH RESPECT..she's your mom and deserves your respect

Over dependance on the child's side and also lead to over possessiveness on the parent's side.Solution: start being a man of ur own be reducing dependance on the parents.

promisengr: Over dependance on the child's side and also lead to over possessiveness on the parent's side.Solution: start being a man of ur own be reducing dependance on the parents.

very good advice

There re sm mother who ll still be over possesive and over protective even when u re de one catering for then so it's not the case of depending too much on them..
I think dats hw sm mother exhibit their love.they still see their children as babies and so its their right to shield them from anything they see as "bad".

promisengr: Over dependance on the child's side and also lead to over possessiveness on the parent's side.Solution: start being a man of ur own be reducing dependance on the parents.