I and my girlfriend had little problem, and at that moment she found another man, and later came to beg for 4giveness, and I forgave her. but she wont stop telling me she going to see the other man, what should I do in this case? Is it that she doesn't love me again? And this man is a lecturer in my school.

Abeg make una advce me before i buy wahala for maself oh

ask her to make a choice, you or the other man ! is a free world so everybody ve a freedom to choose.

Hmmm. . .So after you accepted her back she is still seeing the other man or she is threatening to resume contact w/ the other man? Please tell me which it is b/c it can change the situation.

Also what was the natural of the initial problem that lead her to see this other man? Perhaps, she thinks you are seeing someone else.

As of now, listen to glodave. Ask the lady to make her choice. Tell her that you can't have half her attn but all of it. If she leaves, do not accept her back.

All things considered, I think she still loves you.

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Hmm. I smell something fishy.

@Cyberboy

I and my girlfriend had little problem, and at that moment she found another man, and later came to beg for 4giveness, and I forgave her. but she wont stop telling me she going to see the other man, what should I do in this case? Is it that she doesn't love me again? And this man is a lecturer in my school.

Abeg make una advce me before i buy wahala for maself oh

There is a missing link somewhere in your story.
1) is the problem between you andyour girl over? are you reconciled or playing make-believe?
2)if everything is fine between you, she cant just blurt out "Im going to see the other man", abi
so what happened between #1 and #2

kimba:

@CyberboyThere is a missing link somewhere in your story.
1) is the problem between you andyour girl over? are you reconciled or playing make-believe?
2)if everything is fine between you, she can't just blurt out "I'm going to see the other man", abi
so what happened between #1 and #2

@cyberboy xplain/ans please

@ cyberboy, if the girl really loves u, she wont go back to that man to the extend of telling you that she is going to see the man that is nonsense arrant-nonsense




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@ Poster
Now, i think there's a misunderstanding somewhere, cos i don't see why she would tell you when she's going to see the guy, normally, she won't tell you when she's going to see the other guy,she'll go see him and you won't know she did! So, i believe there's a motive behind her telling you and that you can only find out by talking to her. I don't THINK offering her a choice without understanding the issue is the right thing to do. So in my opinion, it all boils down to talking to her then after talking with her,you can make a decision.