If a difference in your sex drive is causing problems in ur relationship,workin out ur libido type could b d key 2 findin harmony in d bedroom.Dr Sandra Petrot,a white clinical psychologist and sex therapist says there are ten different types of libido.
1. Sensual Libido: You attach a lot of emotion 2 sex n feel aroused when u tink of ur partner. U luv pleasing ur partner but not afraid 2 ask 4 wat u want in bed. People wit dis kind of libido often worry aboutdier partners valuin sex more dan emotional closeness,however if ur partner shows his/her lov in oda areas,accept dier commitment 2 u.
2. Erotic libido: Dis people love displays of affection from dier partner such as deep kissin,references to sexlife and hand-holdin.They tink sex should be passionate and lov experimentin wit intimacy gadgets n positions. Erotic types bliv dat sex is d crux of a great relationship which is not always true. because u can find sum1 who matches ur high libido bt dnt hav oda qualities u need. If ur partner is erotic try doin wat dey want dat ur comfortable wit bt say no if need be.
3. Dependent libido: These people rily need sex n find it hard 2 go witout regular sex n masturbation. If dey go witout sex,dey bcum grumpy n withdrawn. Dr Petrot says such person shuld hav sex only wen Hot nt jst wen dey feel lonely or unloved. If ur partner is dependent,remind dem of oda ways to show love apart 4rm sex.
4. Reactive libido: u value emotional n sexual side of ur relationship. U will go happily witout ur needs met as long as ur partner is happy. If ur partner is reactive,dey may seem d ideal type but let dem know dat u also have dier interests at heart durin sex.
5. Entitled libido: U r mor focused on ur sexual needs dan ur partners n ur convinced every body is havin lots of sex n so use dat 2 justify ur urge. Thinkin dat sex is ur right may make ur partner go completely off it,so tink of it as sumtin u should earn. If ur partner is entitled,gently confront dem.
6. Addictive libido: You crave d excitement of a new sexual partner to feel desired,ur either single or have flings or in a relationship bt cheat regularly. U must b willin 2 take responsibility for ur actions. Try meetin ppl wiout havin sex wit dem,jst friendship or counsellin myt b ur best option.
7. Stressed libido: You enjoy sex bt tend 2 avoid it cos u doubt ur prowess in bed or sum1 in d past has criticized ur performance or ur recuperatin 4rm a serios illness. Undastand d cause of ur fears n share dem wit ur partner. If medical,seek advice from an expert n do all u can to relieve stress.
8. Disinterested libido: you have totally lost interest in sex n happily neva do it again. U can either ignore d problem n lose ur partner or face it squarely. Seek medical advice n help.
9. Detached libido: U masturbate more dan sex n dats fine wit u.U hav sex rarely jst to “scratch an itch” or jst to satisfy ur partner. U need to decide if ur stil interested in ur relationship or u feel stressed.
10. Compulsive libido: U enjoy sex props lyk porn or fantasies n u hav sexual rituals dat always work for u.Find a way 2 balance ur needs so dat ur relationship can grow.

Culled from www.relate.org.uk