ifihearam: as for me I don't think my wife or gf has any right whatsoever to pick my calls and vice versa. So let's hear your opinion.

Ode! Stay there don't pick her call and let her play you like football.

Queeniekruuz: same 2 men in advance.nonsense talk.

shuuuu,wetin?

johnny handsom:


Ode! Stay there don't pick her call and let her play you like football.

Mumu na about phone calls u go take monitor her ? orwe

tpia@:


why wont you pick it and save me the stress of listening to yet another automated sales pitch?

lol @salespitch. I wont pick the call because the person calling wont be expecting to speak to me.

ifihearam:

Mumu na about phone calls u go take monitor her ? orwe

I'm sorry for you, your type are the ones that will come up here and write trash like:
1. My wife got pregnant from another man, what do I do?
2. I think I have been infected with std by my wife.
Nip it in the bud before it gets out of hands. If your wife starts now to hide things from you, I wonder what she will turn you into in the future.

I will not!
Personally, i see the mobile phn as a private item,just like a diary. I also remember fela kuti's song - *trouble dey sleep,yanga go wake am*.

Nt rily a big deal if u answer d call on his/her permission, and also if u can behave ursef n be matured wen u hear d callers mind. #jst my thoughts#

You should be locked up nd toroly beaten, wife beater

jhydebaba: I always warn my girlfriends against such and I also live by example. The first time one of them suspected me of cheating and dared picked up my call ogbelegbele oh I gave her the beating of her life.
Well, when I'm married, I'll inform my wife to desist against such act with an exemption to extreme cases

jhydebaba: I always warn my girlfriends against such and I also live by example. The first time one of them suspected me of cheating and dared picked up my call ogbelegbele oh I gave her the beating of her life.
Well, when I'm married, I'll inform my wife to desist against such act with an exemption to extreme cases

Good luck to whoever marries you. Woman beater!

my girl still plays FBI agent with my fone, i have learnt to be an undercover CIA agent,

The Motive is wot matters

Get the Vault apps if you have anything to hide. No unnecessary calls for anybody to pick up.

If both partners trust each other explicitly, then picking each others phones should not be a problem. Imagine your girlfriends number calls you and on picking, you hear a mans voice and on her part, she hears a womans voice, or your wife/husband doesnt want to see any number belonging to the opposite sex on your phone.

gboss4sure:

lol @salespitch. I wont pick the call because the person calling wont be expecting to speak to me.

sometimes someone can ask you to answer their phone- say your friend for instance.

jaxxy: The Motive is wot matters

i guess if the situation is a spy oriented one, where "they" sent both of you to spy out each other's secrets, might not be advisable to let the other person see your phone.

ifihearam:

Marriage does not mean there is no more privacy oo,so why do most couples have separate room?

; they are not married but cohabiting...if my wife can't pick my calls and read my text then there's no need getting married in the first place.

[quote author=Donna Jocasta]Its absolutely wrong 2 pick ur partners calls except ur being told 2,,,,,its called a hand set and not a public phone,,,,,,it does not make sense jor,,,,,,except u want 2 die of hypertension; you call him a partner that's because he's your lover or boyfriend and not your husband,when there's a marriage btw 2person they become one soul,spirit and what is privacy when you share the same soul and spirit with such? Except you've allowed urself to be brainwashed with the rhetorics of our adulterous generation.

This is not something u shld be proud about.....u shld not even brag abt it.....u beat up ur GF just because she picked up ur call.....u really need to change....if they are now campaigning about abuse against women u wld be the first person to talk.....SMH for u

jhydebaba: I always warn my girlfriends against such and I also live by example. The first time one of them suspected me of cheating and dared picked up my call ogbelegbele oh I gave her the beating of her life.
Well, when I'm married, I'll inform my wife to desist against such act with an exemption to extreme cases

Well,curtesy demands that we treat personal effects as personal.A cell phone is a private property. However, if you don't have anything to hide,then it won't be a problem but when you are keeping certain infos from your partner you will always want to cover your tracks and this is where there is katakata. As for me,it's no big deal

No, not without permission. The caller wants to speak to your partner, not to you. Period.

Yes.
My woman picks my calls when I am not nearby.
I have nothing to hide from her.
I even leave my mobile phone with her when I am not using it.
She is my confidant.

elitejosef :
I for 1 won't pick her calls. But I am not really ready to start hearing stuffs or asking questions dt will kill me b4 my time. Its better I don't no, but I always believe deres a day of judgement for all cheaters

Don't wait for judgement to fall on your partner cos it might consume you and all the labour of your years.

It is good and proper to check on your partner's phone from time to time (don't get paranoid about it) to ensure your relationship isn't misaligning. It is called responsibility and its your duty. It may not be a case of unfaithfulness. You may spot signs of financial stress or worse discover physical threats to him or her in these kidnapping/assasination climes we live.

However one should not answer another's phone calls. If anything is suspected, the matter should be raised immediately and dealt with maturely.

Orikinla: Yes.
My woman picks my calls when I am not nearby.
I have nothing to hide from her.
I even leave my mobile phone with her when I am not using it.
She is my confidant.

Well different strokes. 95% of my calls are business related calls. If I call your line and your wife answers how can I possibly take you seriously. Even if she is your business partner.

Phone is a private prpty.it solely belong to d owner.if d person on d oda line want to speak to u,den d person will call u.period.pple will still cheat if dey want to cheat and why give urself unnecesry hbp? U wanna show say una b one,abeg do it in oda ways.its just dat our pple don't no wen to give space in a r/ship in oda 2 be fully accomodated

phone, the new extension of self.

you rate your self worth by your phone.

I dont pick your calls, dont pick mine. It is as simple as that. wetin wan bring that nonesense sef, is my phone your phone, abi you dey craze?

I don't pick hers, and she doesn't pick mine. Sometimes, when my phone is ringing and I purposely ignore it cos its someone I don't wanto talk to, she'll ask why am I not picking up, I'll tell her I'm not in the mood to talk to that person. If she's having a doubt, I'll just give her the phone to answer.

But some girls/women are very stubborn. A friend or colleague might get u upset at work and when u get home (knowing fully well that person would call to apologize and u might not be in the right mood to answer his or her call) u ask ur wife not to pick any call that comes in, and u head straight to the bathroom for shower and have a rest. When the person calls the 1st n 2nd time and nobody picks it, some women might be wondering and pondering to know why the calls are not being answered. And if eventually the person calls for the 3rd time, they'll pick up to know who is calling and what exactly is the problem. Such women will surely get what they called for.

@ op

you should rephrase your question as "Should i be angry when i call someone and their partner or somebody else picks their calls" or "Should i beat up my partner for picking my calls"

all these amebo topics are so annoying.

too much pent up frustration in most of you, looking for any outlet to offload the chips on your shoulder.



random generalizations can be s.tupid and are often a sign of low intelligence- you do what works for you and let others find their own niche.

if you dont want your partner answering your phone, then tell him or her not to, or lock it. One cant be too careful these days, since everybody has various agendas and its hard to trust people even if you're sleeping with them. Some [or most] are spies and gossips.

If, however, you dont mind someone else answering your phone, then others should butt out and mtob.

these time wasting topics are too many here.

jhydebaba: I always warn my girlfriends against such and I also live by example. The first time one of them suspected me of cheating and dared picked up my call ogbelegbele oh I gave her the beating of her life.
Well, when I'm married, I'll inform my wife to desist against such act with an exemption to extreme cases

u beat up a girl/lady (defenceless for that matter), and u're here to brag about it? Some men are really sick. If na my sis u beat up like dt, i swear u go hear am o. Arrant nonsense.

Picks ma hubby's call for what i dont do such even if he's not there i will call him if his phone rings but i do ask him to pick mine often.

Just remembering those days when the phone used to stay on top of the telly and anyone who z around answers when it rings. Today everyone has skeletons in their cupboard (privacy my foot)

Just remembering those days when the phone used to stay on top of the telly and anyone who z around answers when it rings.

thank you.

nowadays, phone has become an extension of self.