baby_123: \

You dont need to. We know you are very busy on NL.

sanb: @Op, First and foremost, I see no reason and I repeat; no reason why any man/woman should stay in an abusive relationship. If that should ever occur, run cos there’s fire on the mountain and don’t look back. In all, it causes a lot of damage in once well-being.

There’re various reasons women give to make them stay with abusive partners; Low self-esteem is still the most common …cos of that, some women go as far as saying she’ll never find anyone better; in that instance I’ll say wake up gurl; you’ll definitely find someone much better who wouldn’t lay a finger on you.

Then there’s the fear of can I survive financially on my own, the fear of being alone...some would go as far as saying she can stay and help him get better; well she might be right as well as wrong.

Some woman would go as far as saying well it’s not that bad after all I caused it for him to hit me...oh dear; is it until they are beating to pulp or even killed before they realise that it’s not an acceptable behaviour for her man to hit her?

The most horrible excuse given is; Oh I love him, and he’s usually not abusive when he reciprocates his love; yea right....run out of that relationship even faster than Usian Bolt.

Some women might feel ashamed, embarrassed when/if they tell anyone that their partner hits them and for that reason they carry on enduring the abuse....which is sad.

One thing i'll point out though is for women to learn to tam their tongue; cos a man would be better off in a house with a licking roof then being around his nagging partner.

sanb: @Op, First and foremost, I see no reason and I repeat; no reason why any man/woman should stay in an abusive relationship. If that should ever occur, run cos there’s fire on the mountain and don’t look back. In all, it causes a lot of damage in once well-being.

There’re various reasons women give to make them stay with abusive partners; Low self-esteem is still the most common …cos of that, some women go as far as saying she’ll never find anyone better; in that instance I’ll say wake up gurl; you’ll definitely find someone much better who wouldn’t lay a finger on you.

Then there’s the fear of can I survive financially on my own, the fear of being alone...some would go as far as saying she can stay and help him get better; well she might be right as well as wrong.

Some woman would go as far as saying well it’s not that bad after all I caused it for him to hit me...oh dear; is it until they are beating to pulp or even killed before they realise that it’s not an acceptable behaviour for her man to hit her?

The most horrible excuse given is; Oh I love him, and he’s usually not abusive when he reciprocates his love; yea right....run out of that relationship even faster than Usian Bolt.

Some women might feel ashamed, embarrassed when/if they tell anyone that their partner hits them and for that reason they carry on enduring the abuse....which is sad.

One thing i'll point out though is for women to learn to tam their tongue; cos a man would be better off in a house with a licking roof then being around his nagging partner.

Caracta: ^^^
Scarce ke? Wetin do all the guys on earth? Where did they go? Hehehehe. Fifteen men can be after just one woman. Una no scarce jor

navygrl: Many reasons. They have been psychological abused to the point of being brain washed into thinking they deserve it. They have been told he will kill her if she attempts to leave or get help. He has cut her off from finances and family/friends and she has no way or where to leave. Brainwashed that her family doesn't want her. Even times where the family sides with the man unbelieving he could do those things. When kids get involved it becomes even worse

Caracta: ^^^
Scarce ke? Wetin do all the guys on earth? Where did they go? Hehehehe. Fifteen men can be after just one woman. Una no scarce jor

hopefullman:
u nailed it.

shymexx:

Word on the street is that you're also in an abusive relationship..

Idowuogbo:
Lmaooo! Correct! Her name na Oluwasubmissive she?

Mynd44:

Reminds me of one man for this village. His wife came home late from work and cos he was hungry, he took it out on her and started beating her. When people were separating them, the husband hit one of the men and the guy started fighting the husband....

Guess what the wife said?
"wetin concern una? He is my husband and he has the right to correct me when I dey wrong"

na since then I don dey buy pop-corn keep for my appartment.

True story oooo

BlaQWolf:
How do you do? I have noticed ,seems you have been here for a long time now...but more like a ghost

Caracta:


What's your other moniker or real handle?

BlaQWolf:


Tamedwolf90...Familiar?
I was just going through your diary...I think the first one with the lesbian story..#Cool

Caracta:


Yes. Familiar.

The lesbian story is an old one. Very old. You try. Lol.

BlaQWolf:


Fine morning... Hope you are good... You know you should have been a Mod counting how long you contributed here...I'm Mark,what's the name? Can I send a PM?

Caracta:


Mod? Of what? Hian. Is it by e-age? I jump and pass biko. I don't work for free.

Yes you can.

BlaQWolf:


Lol, I thought they are been paid
How is your Monday winding up?