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Re: Things Women Want In A Man by ejyko4aek(m): 5:11pm On Mar 08, 2013
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Re: Things Women Want In A Man by vokalguy(m): 5:17pm On Mar 08, 2013
Psaalmuel: Diz z cwious..pesn dn turn tew mumu filish na..una wickd oh!

Doubt you will ever get a woman using this sort of 'gibberish English'
Re: Things Women Want In A Man by Cashio(m): 5:19pm On Mar 08, 2013
How much does pussy cost in the market so dat i purchase mine because i can't giv a gal all these and get jst a round of hot pussy in reciprocation...4uck da devil
Re: Things Women Want In A Man by dammytex: 5:48pm On Mar 08, 2013
I like your write up. Its very sweet to read. You even smile as you read them..

But then...

They are just theoretical just like we learnt theories in school. The experience out there is completely different. This is not a movie world or a novel world. This is reality and this is Naija. You don't have to do all of these and you can still get the best girl, trust me.

Its very simple, just be a friend and extend it to being her best friend. Show extra care (which of course includes some calculated wise spending) and try to always be a step ahead. You can have all of her.

So, back to your list; maybe I will show my daughter someday but surely, that wasn't how I got her mom..
Re: Things Women Want In A Man by Nobody: 5:57pm On Mar 08, 2013
Relax,mehn,you shouldn't subject yourselves to a subterenean form of woman worship by surrendering your sense of self worth to their judgement....RELAX AND GET YOURself EQUIPPED WITH THE RIGHT INFORMATION and follow your dreams(work your way up in the social pole).and you'd come across your own woman.why bother yourself much about women....
Re: Things Women Want In A Man by totalbaby(f): 6:18pm On Mar 08, 2013
You should add Faithfulness to that list because that is one of the most important things we want in a man

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Re: Things Women Want In A Man by IncomeTutor: 6:18pm On Mar 08, 2013
Hmmmmmmmmmm! But women keep the most secret.
A woman once complained of her man flirting
with women not knowing she has been sleeping
with a neighbour for years.
Re: Things Women Want In A Man by Lexaccord(m): 6:34pm On Mar 08, 2013
Cine: 95% of Nigerian women in my opinion care only about how much you're prepared to give them. You don't have to be a millionaire but you gotta have disposable income.

FIND ME AN INTELLECTUAL NIGERIAN WOMAN. I'm talking about the ones who know what's going on in the world beyond Channel E. The ones who read books other than the bible. Where are all the smart f-ing women. Damn. May have to marry an oyibo.



Bro help me ask them o! Walahi if I see a girl that is rich upstairs I will do all those for her to the power of 3 ! angry
Re: Things Women Want In A Man by dnawah(m): 7:09pm On Mar 08, 2013
I beg no verse o!one thing is missing on d list,sexual satisfaction,this is wat makes ur d man not a man.abi na m no read well(if i lie ask ur mama or aunts)gringrin
Re: Things Women Want In A Man by Nobody: 7:10pm On Mar 08, 2013
Okiki_Oluwa: honesty intelligence, sensitivity, sincerity etc all noted. But women love
dollars & Op, u 4got 2 include good-sexxx.
relationship or marriage is not all about sex. Theres mor 2 it.
Re: Things Women Want In A Man by Mamabugi(f): 7:34pm On Mar 08, 2013
dat waz a 9ice post kip it up.
Re: Things Women Want In A Man by personaldomest(f): 7:43pm On Mar 08, 2013
Even the broke guys will open their mouth to say all girls want is money. If you feel every girl wants ur money please keep your money to your self and stay single. If a girl doesn't love you, she doesn't. One day she will steal all ur money den dump your ass and go to the broke guy she truly loves.
Re: Things Women Want In A Man by j4jj: 7:48pm On Mar 08, 2013
I nu some girls dem a lv dem bad guys...
Re: Things Women Want In A Man by manchiled: 8:06pm On Mar 08, 2013
That is exatly wat a man wants in a woman
Re: Things Women Want In A Man by mrofficial2(m): 8:11pm On Mar 08, 2013
free2ryhme:

what is ur defn of good sex?

Being able to satisfy your woman in bed, not being selfish.
Re: Things Women Want In A Man by kala111: 9:58pm On Mar 08, 2013
If hear angry... When I'm not a LEARNER
Re: Things Women Want In A Man by luckgood(m): 10:04pm On Mar 08, 2013
Make una comot there joor! na everything una dey come up with 'WETIN WOMEN WANT WITH MEN'! Una dey weed?
The last time, na 21 things wey women want with us, another time, 45 things women want men to do, yet another time, 101 things women expect from men...una wan kill us? If we go on industrial strike, who go dey 'help' una do the things?
Abegggggggggggggg!

How can we have all these things at once, we be 'god'? 

Oya, the following are WETIN MEN WANT FROM WOMEN'
-Beauty
brain
brilliance
intelligence
honesty
unselfishnes
ungreediness
deligence
gratefulness
contentness
merciful
lovliness
uncraziness
unlaziness
happiness
'cookiness'
uncrookedness
'unclothedness'
'unnakedness'
unmadness
sexiness
gentleness
unlousiness
attractiveness
smartness
sharpness
coolness
'unbad-belleness'
untalkativenss
unjealousness
peaceable
lovable
amiable
able
capable
formidable
unseparable
'fathomble'
'uninflammable'
immovable
removable
'ballable

oya, give us all that and we go love una die!!!!!
My guy,e be lyk say na you be the real highNESS cheesy

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Re: Things Women Want In A Man by blackbeau1(f): 10:08pm On Mar 08, 2013
13) Has a sizeable bank account
Re: Things Women Want In A Man by moonraker(m): 1:53am On Mar 09, 2013
@ OP

Your list will only be valid if you answer this very simple question wink


What do women bring to the table in a relationship shocked angry
Re: Things Women Want In A Man by vital: 6:52am On Mar 09, 2013
Its not a matter of mentioning all unmentionables but the ladies should also be able to possess a good qualities also,ladies this Days are so stupid,they will go and relax and try to control the man with juju,yeye people
Re: Things Women Want In A Man by nke001: 10:04am On Mar 09, 2013
And the reverse?

Or is it a one-way-traffic?
Re: Things Women Want In A Man by pandorasbox1(m): 10:28am On Mar 09, 2013
[quote
author=crackhaus]And people wonder why I feel most ladies can always be
taken for a ride by a sharp-tongued man. If that's what you women want
in a man, then am sorry to let you know that any man who's got game can
fake most if not all of that sh!t you listed there.[/quote]
u just so so so on point. d op is so shallow minded, an easy prey 4a bad sharp guy
Re: Things Women Want In A Man by KHYLE(m): 10:40am On Mar 09, 2013
i dont tink i can do all these o, itz too much na..
Re: Things Women Want In A Man by checkdate(m): 10:41am On Mar 09, 2013
NOTE: THIS IS #AIRALAND{#igerial} NOT ABROAD.
Re: Things Women Want In A Man by Abdul4success(m): 5:50pm On Mar 09, 2013
nice tips; some of dis thngs to some extent
Re: Things Women Want In A Man by lexib(m): 3:00am On Jul 29, 2013
free2ryhme: You may think that women want someone who is buffed and tanned and looks like a bodybuilder model from GQ. Those things are nice and yes we like to look at those guys, but just like you don't need for us to look like Victoria Secret models we don't require it in our man. OK. The 13 most important qualities that women look for
in a man are:

1. Honesty
2. Intelligence
3. Nice Smile
4. Sense of Humor
5. Manners
6. Sensitivity
7. Sincerity
8. Gainfully employed
9. Has own place
10. Owns a car
11. Affectionate
12. Considerate
13. Thoughtful

OK. First things first. Honesty is the NUMBER ONE trait that women look for in a man. That doesn't mean to be brutally honest and tell her she looks fat. (Never do that) but we want to know that we can trust that what you are telling us is the truth. If you've lied in the past it will be a very cold day in Hell before she trusts you again. And she may want to check your phone messages and read your email and call you 10 times a day to feel secure that you're trustworthy again. You may not like that but if you lie it may be the price you have to pay.

Intelligence: Women want to feel safe and protected and we want our men to be smart. Maybe even smarter than us. Women feel that your brain is your sexiest organ. So dazzle us with your brain and you will be surprised how stimulated we become. Kick her ass at "Jeopardy" and watch what happens.

Smile: We love your smile. We can't get enough of it. It makes us want to touch you and kiss you. So brush and floss and see your dentist and keep your mouth kissably fresh.

Sense of Humor: If you can keep us laughing you are golden. We love to laugh and we love a man who can make us laugh. This goes back to the smart thing as well. You have to be smart to be humorous. We like a man who's humor challenges us. Leave that 3 Stooges stuff for the guys. Women don't appreciate 12 year old juvenile humor.

Manners: Little things like manners are very important. Women don't want their man to drive up and reach over from the driver's seat and open the passenger door or just wait for us to open the door. A little old fashioned chivalry goes a long way. Escort the lady to the car and open the door for her. We love to be treated like queens. It makes us feel like you think we're special. And hopefully you do think she's special. We love a man with manners. We know we can take him home and our parents will love him. We don't want to have to worry about what you might do or say. We want to be with a man not a boy. That means no farting, belching, toe or nose picking, spitting, or smacking your lips when you eat. We want to know we can take you in public and we won't be embarrassed. And don't forget we also like to show you off to our girlfriends and we want them to approve. You want the girlfriends to think you're a "Keeper".

Sensitive: That whole thing about being "Sensitive" and getting in touch with your "Feminine Side" are all very true. A woman is waaaay more attracted to a man who isn't afraid to show his feelings and be gentle and sensitive. We actually think that makes you more manly. A man who clams up and thinks being macho is what we want is very wrong. One of the things that is extremely attractive to a woman is when it's obvious that you are attracted to us. There is nothing hotter than seeing how much we turn you on. Don't be afraid to show that. But of course there are limits and this can easily be overdone. Be careful about showing things like that at work or you might find yourself in a sexual harassment situation. And if you decide to try to tip your hand to a woman and show your interest, remember to keep it subtle. No woman likes a STALKER or a HORNDOG! We love to know that we are getting to you, but not in an obnoxious way. You may have to make some changes in your behavior. But of course, they'll be changes for the better and you will most likely be happier for it.

Sincerity: This is a little like honesty, but what I mean is if you need to change some of your behaviors to be more attractive to women then don't just do it to get the girl. This is something that has to be real. If you think that's not you, then maybe you should think about making a change. You can decide you don't want to change, that you like yourself the way you are, but if that was working for you then you probably wouldn't be reading this article. You were drawn to this piece because you must truly want to know how to be better with women and if you sincerely do then you may need to take an honest look at yourself and decide what you want because it has to be real.

Employed: OK. This is a no-brainer, but truthfully there are some men out there without jobs that think they can get all the women they want. I have no idea what makes them think that, but their egos are on overtime. Women need security and we want a man who can provide for us. That doesn't mean we don't want to work, but it does mean that we want to know that you are a responsible MAN.

Has Own Place: OK. Matthew McConaughey was really cute in Failure to Launch but that was a comedy. Seriously we don't want to have a sleepover at your Mom's house. Having your own place just shows us again that you are a responsible adult. And it does help if your place is decorated nicely. I don't mean you have to hire a decorator, but we're not drawn to frathouse chic. Impress us with your style. Again we want MEN not BOYS!

Has Own Car: This may not be important if you live in New York or in a place where the public transportation makes owning a car unnecessary but in most of the world you need a car to pick up your date and take her out. It is important to mention here that even though we love luxury cars we don't need that in our man. Women love men with all kinds of cars, but FYI keep your car clean (especially the inside). Nothing says SLOB more than a dirty car. Take out the fast food wrappers and keep it neat and smelling nice.

Affectionate: We really do love to touch and be touched. And I am not talking sexually here. But try holding her hand when she's not expecting it or gently rubbing her back. Little touchy things like that mean a lot. Rub her arm when you're reading the paper or do little things like foot and hand massages. Women love that.

Be Considerate: We appreciate the little things like holding a door open or not walking ahead of us. If we're sleeping make sure you turn out the light when you leave. Show her you care by picking up after yourself. When you get some dessert out of the fridge ask if she'd like some or make sure you leave some for her. Just basic consideration is so important to us.

Thoughtfulness: This may sound like consideration, but it goes a little further. Being thoughtful of her needs goes a long way. Maybe give her a call from work just to see how she's doing. While we love that we don't want to be smothered with a bunch of calls all day long. Bring something home for her when you go to the store, like some fresh flowers (I know that's cliché, but that's because it works) or maybe some of her favorite ice cream...just because. This shows us that you are thinking of us and that makes us feel important and special.





http://voices.yahoo.com/top-13-things-women-want-man-659326.html

I chase too many gals at a tym, n I dnt nid dem all to love me... n I cnt pay dat much attention to all of dem... how we go do am now
Re: Things Women Want In A Man by paix(m): 9:13am On Oct 14, 2013
Women are so complex that one would need a manual to keep a relationship afloat.

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