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How To Make A Good Husband by emiemi(f): 4:54pm On Mar 25, 2008
How to make a good husband
Re: How To Make A Good Husband by SeanT21(f): 8:38pm On Mar 25, 2008
Always listen to your wife and put her first!!
Re: How To Make A Good Husband by ayomifull(f): 8:59pm On Mar 25, 2008
Shower your wife with love, listen to her and protect her, take care of her emotional, financial, social needs as much as is within your reach. Be sincere and try to be faithful (or at least make her believe you are).

To ladies if you want a good husband be good yourself.
Re: How To Make A Good Husband by Dreloaded(f): 9:01pm On Mar 25, 2008
ayomifull:

try to be faithful (or at least make her believe you are),

What does this mean?
Re: How To Make A Good Husband by bawomolo(m): 9:17pm On Mar 25, 2008
What does this mean?

smoke screen, what u don't know can't hurt u grin grin
Re: How To Make A Good Husband by Dreloaded(f): 10:24pm On Mar 25, 2008
I assume wives can do this as well?
Re: How To Make A Good Husband by bawomolo(m): 10:28pm On Mar 25, 2008
women make good cheaters. some men don't realize they are raising a child that isn't theirs
Re: How To Make A Good Husband by ayomifull(f): 12:27pm On Mar 26, 2008
@ d reloaded God knows i have never caught my husband in my 9 years of marriage to him and even before then in unfaithfulness but then believe me i find it hard at times to trust that he is indeed faithful but at least what you dont know dont hurt you. I have seen men, decent men, men of God, caring men whose wives never caught being unfaithful but who are seriously involved in adultry so i find it hard believing that men can be 100% faithful although i am sure there will be very few ones but to be on the happy side let the man make his wife believe he is faithful.

While i was in nigeria my MD love his wife to death and the wife believe he has never seen another woman's pant but i knew not less than 4 of 'them' because i do take message from them and for them and because of my position i read his letters because there are some i had to reply, some of the letters says how very 'faithful' he is. And how do you explain my senior pastor who recently impregnated one of the church members, nobody believe until he confessed himself, my brother inlaw just returned to Nigeria on a 3 weeks holiday with a 'company' and his wife believes and claims her husband is born again, stories abound my dear. So to save yourself the stress let the husband make the wife believe his is faithful.

One of my friends was telling me how hot lagos girls are and that he pity me that my husband works in so so so field and you know what i told her? What you dont look for you dont see.
Re: How To Make A Good Husband by Dreloaded(f): 2:12pm On Mar 26, 2008
Guess the whole denial fiasco is the reason why Aids is raging there
Re: How To Make A Good Husband by TOYOSI20(f): 9:14pm On Mar 26, 2008
SeanT21:

Always listen to your wife and put her first!!

That's Right. cool
Re: How To Make A Good Husband by Nobody: 11:43pm On Mar 26, 2008
This "believe" thing is total crap. I bet you won't believe it when you result HIV positive.

"I can't believe it!" - pathetic people! cheesy
Re: How To Make A Good Husband by Nobody: 11:52pm On Mar 26, 2008
bawomolo:

women make good cheaters. some men don't realize they are raising a child that isn't theirs
men make good cheaters. some women don't even realize they're helping lying cheating, SOB of a man cheat his wife
Re: How To Make A Good Husband by bawomolo(m): 12:35am On Mar 27, 2008
men make good cheaters. some women don't even realize they're helping lying cheating, SOB of a man cheat his wife

don't hate the player, hate the game.

This "believe" thing is total crap. I bet you won't believe it when you result HIV positive.

ha ha that's true.
Re: How To Make A Good Husband by Nobody: 12:56am On Mar 27, 2008
bawomolo:

don't hate the player, hate the game.
hmmm. . .so you admit men are the dominant, lying cheating players in this game? good. you're always so brilliant
Re: How To Make A Good Husband by bawomolo(m): 1:19am On Mar 27, 2008
hmmm. . .so you admit men are the dominant, lying cheating players in this game? good. you're always so brilliant

women play the game too, they just don't brag about it like men. it's not my fault that society allows men to be promiscous.
Re: How To Make A Good Husband by Nobody: 2:06am On Mar 27, 2008
bawomolo:

women play the game too, they just don't brag about it like men. it's not my fault that society allows men to be promiscous.
my gosh, you're sexist. . i've notice that lately
Re: How To Make A Good Husband by bawomolo(m): 3:41am On Mar 27, 2008
my gosh, you're sexist. . i've notice that lately

realist yes, sexist no.
Re: How To Make A Good Husband by Nobody: 3:45am On Mar 27, 2008
bawomolo:

realist yes, sexist no.
*roll eye*
Re: How To Make A Good Husband by bawomolo(m): 4:02am On Mar 27, 2008
*roll eye*

still playing hard to get i see grin grin
Re: How To Make A Good Husband by Nobody: 4:07am On Mar 27, 2008
bawomolo:

still playing hard to get i see grin grin
oh yesssss. . . that is what am doing. . .but. . wait a minute, who is trying to get who here?
Re: How To Make A Good Husband by bawomolo(m): 4:22am On Mar 27, 2008
oh yesssss. . . that is what am doing. . .but. . wait a minute, who is trying to get who here?

hmm are u the hunter or do u want to be hunted wink
Re: How To Make A Good Husband by Nobody: 4:50am On Mar 27, 2008
bawomolo:

hmm are u the hunter or do u want to be hunted wink
you're not serious oh. . . i wan.na play the referee grin
Re: How To Make A Good Husband by emiemi(f): 4:05pm On Oct 28, 2008
@morenike and bawolomo
go on soun grin only be good to each other o grin
Re: How To Make A Good Husband by Angolobabe(f): 6:09pm On Oct 28, 2008
Show your wife ur love
listen to her
show her emotional support
fend for her financial needs
be faithful to her
respect her and her wishes
Re: How To Make A Good Husband by kokoye(m): 6:25pm On Oct 28, 2008
Put her in your shoes.
Re: How To Make A Good Husband by DeepZone: 11:42pm On Oct 28, 2008
How to make a good husband
Listen to your wife

Obey her always

make her happy

Try and understand her mood swings

Don't ever cheat on her or even think about it

Run her bath water everyday

Occasional massage will be appreciated

Don't ever argue with her.

Leave her to make the most important decisions because she is smarter

Keep a damn job

Be well domesticated.

Am i forgetting something?
Re: How To Make A Good Husband by MrCrackles(m): 11:47pm On Oct 28, 2008
DeepZone:

Listen to your wife
Obey her always
make her happy
Try and understand her mood swings
Don't ever cheat on her or even think about it
Run her bath water everyday
Occasional massage will be appreciated
Don't ever argue with her.
Leave her to make the most important decisions because she is smarter
Keep a damn job
Be well domesticated.
Am i forgetting something?

And wash her pant.s!! grin
Re: How To Make A Good Husband by Godalone(m): 7:58am On Oct 29, 2008
DeepZone:

Listen to your wife

Obey her always[/b]make her happy

Try and understand her mood swings

Don't ever cheat on her or even think about it

Run her bath water everyday

Occasional massage will be appreciated

[b]Don't ever argue with her.

Leave her to make the most important decisions because she is smarter

Keep a damn job

Be well domesticated.

Am i forgetting something?


If she offends you prostrate for her
Re: How To Make A Good Husband by chisomquee: 3:44pm On Oct 30, 2008
be disciplined.
have the fear of God.
make friends with those that will add value to your life.
avoid living on debts,don't life a fake life like the bankers do.
love your children and take care of them.
Re: How To Make A Good Husband by Godalone(m): 4:04pm On Oct 30, 2008
chisomquee:

be disciplined.
have the fear of God.
make friends with those that will add value to your life.
avoid living on debts,don't life a fake life like the bankers do.
love your children and take care of them.

Are bankers living a fake life?
Re: How To Make A Good Husband by abujabooks(f): 11:38pm On Oct 31, 2008
Find out what ur wife's love language is and do it.

Don't take 4 granted.
Re: How To Make A Good Husband by chisomquee: 4:57pm On Nov 04, 2008
yes bankers live a fake life.

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