am kinda confused on what 2 do. am in a relationship of about a yr and half @ the onset my gf told me she was raped wen she was abt age 5 & that her mum is aware just of recent she said she had had sex with about 2 other guys 4 money and her mum doesnt know abt the rape. gradually my love 4 her is fading but i dont want 2 hurt her. what do i do?

am kind of confused on what 2 do. am in a relationship of about a yr and half @ the onset my girlfriend told me she was raped when she was about age 5 & that her mum is aware just of recent she said she had had sex with about 2 other guys 4 money and her mum doesnt know about the rape. gradually my love 4 her is fading but i don't want 2 hurt her. what do i do?

@poster
i dont get u,is ur love for her fading because she lied about her mum been aware of d rape,or because she cheated on u with two guys?let me ask U; for her to sleep wt these guys because of money,e be like say u no dey settle her wt cash EGO ? DIS UR CASE DEY COMPLICATED

someone help me out here

You might just have to end ur relationship because not only are u losing ur love 4 her, u also do not trust her anymore.lack of trust leads to jealousy and jealously leads to all kinda crazy things.do urself the favour and spare urself from the pain.
Also I think its a good thing ur gf is honest with u, but I don't think u can handle it.

the 2 guys she slept with was b4 she met me bt eva since weve been dating shes been truthful. my loves fading because i cant imagine her having slept with people 4 money

@akin

atleast she's been truthful wt u,i admire her courage, some people have done worst,but they wont talk,but dis one told u everything, well its left for u to decide wat u want

@poster
Did you say raped at age 5. Your girlfriend should be charged in court for being a liar. Then she should find those two boys and return their money to them.

she slept with two guys

before she met you

and you are here trying to rupture a vessel

sorry bros are you a virgin? cos the only reason you have to be

negatively affected by the fact that she has had sex with people before you

is cos you plan to be mutually dis-virgined with your wife ,


my advice get a grip.

@ age 5yrs

she was probably sexually molested

and not raped

akinjosh:

am kind of confused on what 2 do. am in a relationship of about a yr and half @ the onset my girlfriend told me she was raped when she was about age 5 & that her mum is aware just of recent she said she had had sex with about 2 other guys 4 money and her mum doesnt know about the rape. gradually my love 4 her is fading but i don't want 2 hurt her. what do i do?

Trying to see the relationship between the pieces of information given here.  I think it is better to take a quick exit!


This one no gum eba at allllllllllllll!

This na pepper soup joint topic!

when a babe tell you 2 guys don shag her my bros,
she fit mean 200 guys o
are you sure she no be ochovu/ akunnakunna/ aproko?

My guy, atleast from the pieces of advice given to you, you should be able to deduce your way cos there is an adage that says' a word is enough for a wise'. So make the good choice.