I met my friend sleeping with my girl.what shouid i do?help nairalanderss.

Your girl as in your daugher? If yes, then you really have a score to settle with your friend but as in 'girlfriend' please spare yourself all the worries and concentrate on moving your life forward because it's the girl who knows who she really belong to. I'm even more surprised you're surprised at this common scenario.

Your "friend" was sleeping with your girlfriend?  How did you determine this to be so? Did you catch them "in the act?" Are you taking the word of others? Did your friend or girlfriend admit it to you?

Well, given that it does take "two to tango," clearly neither is to blame.  Rather, both are to blame.  This means that you will wish to consider several things.

1.  Do you wish to forgive your girlfriend and attempt to mend the relationship?

2.  Do you wish to forgive your friend and attempt to mend the friendship?

3.  If you answered "yes" to either of the above, can you maintain the trust it will take to do that?

Consider this:  We all make mistakes.  However, a leopard does not change its spots.

then join the action , no pain no gain

i agree wt u new guy

Do same to your guy naa !

Ask for AK 47

hahhahahha.new guy na a 4 u

why are u worried when probably she does not care about how u feel.

is she begging you to forgive her?

then you have got a chance to treat her like a slut that she is

Well, while she might not be a "slut," she certainly didn't exercise the best judgement in this case.

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh which kind life are we in, u suppose kill am (lol)
u dont have to call him ur friend again plzzzz

surprise surprise!!!!

Hey dude!!!! did u just say u "met" ur frnd sleeping with u gurl, Men those memories wud never leave ur mind, i'll just advice u dont go thinking how best to go on with the relationship, just ascept ur fate and move on.



about a year and a half ago,a gurlfrnd of mine, back then in Calabar told me she told her guy she wont be spending the weekend with him as he'd planned, only for her to show up from Uyo to Calabar, she hung out in a frnd's crib till about 9pm and decided to suprise her Gee, only for her to be the suprised one. she was shocked to arrive at the compound and she cud here her man banging another lady, she cudnt believe it, she was quite smart, she brought out the cell fone, recorded the audio to their escapade,and wet back to her frnd's crib, she cudnt sleep that night, the next morning she called me very early, and i met her with 3 other of her gurl frnds, she tuk us to his crib, and there was drama, the babe happened to be the same person who introduced her to her man, the dude denied ever sleeping with the babe, the night before, until his gurl played the audio, until this moment, she's not gotten over that shock, they broke up of course, but she's refused to date another dude,but the twist is that her ex-man aint dating the b**ch. but sources say he's seeing a new gurl now,


So i'd advice u move on, without the loser