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How Do Women Differentiate Between Friendships And Romance by neowelsh(m): 8:18pm On Mar 31, 2008 |
For women, friendships and romantic relationships are two separate things. They are NOT the same. One can lead to another, but it's RARE when it happens. Remember that. One CAN lead to another, but it's RARE. "Romantic" relationships are very different from "friend" relationships. While most men would sleep with most of their female "friends" if the woman "came on" to them, most women would NOT sleep with most men that they consider "just friends". But why is this? How do women differentiate between "just friends" and "I'll be intimate with you"? And why is it so hard to become "more than friends" with a woman you've been "just friends" with for a long time? The answer to this riddle is very interesting to me. I believe that the answer comes down to understanding HOW women "know" when they want to "be intimate" with a man, and, even MORE importantly, understanding how women "know" when they DON'T want to "be intimate" with a man, The thing that tells a woman whether the guy she's with is "friend" material or "lover" material is how she FEELS. It's a combination of EMOTIONAL feelings and PHYSICAL feelings. It is NOT logic. She might USE logic to "rationalize" her decision, or she might USE logic to SOUND like she has a good reason for either "being with" or "not being with" a particular guy. But don't let that distract you. Logic isn't important AT ALL in this context. So let me say this another way. A woman FEELS something emotionally and/or physically, then she uses those FEELINGS as the basis for her "decisions" and actions with a particular guy. If she feels that "Ewwww Yuck!" feeling, then her "logical" conclusion will probably not be that she wants to date the guy in question. If she feels that "It's Gettin' Hot In Here" feeling, then her "logical" conclusion will probably be that this guy is interesting and attractive, and a good "choice" to date. At this point she'll take ACTION on her feelings and thoughts, to be continue, lots of hugs |
Re: How Do Women Differentiate Between Friendships And Romance by opokonwa(m): 4:17pm On Apr 01, 2008 |
Another 'copy and paste' post |
Re: How Do Women Differentiate Between Friendships And Romance by neowelsh(m): 6:30pm On Apr 01, 2008 |
really |
Re: How Do Women Differentiate Between Friendships And Romance by jaymes(m): 7:24pm On Apr 01, 2008 |
enough dust in da house! my guy get a life! u sound like u need to get laid pleasssssssssssssssse, come up with something dats tight! not this crap! |
Re: How Do Women Differentiate Between Friendships And Romance by TheSly: 7:28pm On Apr 01, 2008 |
b.s. |
Re: How Do Women Differentiate Between Friendships And Romance by iice(f): 1:03pm On Apr 06, 2008 |
To a certain degree true. . . |
Re: How Do Women Differentiate Between Friendships And Romance by uspry1(f): 1:12pm On Apr 06, 2008 |
Yes, it is fact that lot of women do not tell the difference between Platonic Friendship and Romance relationship. Both are different meaning! The same principle about everyone on both gender still cannot tell the difference between LOVE vs. LUST! |
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