Hi All,
I am in need of advice, i have a good friend who lives in the US, he left Nigeria 10 years ago, before he left he had two kids with his girlfriend(Not Legally married.He had some issue with his papers and was almost deported but a white American woman he was his girlfriend agreed to marry him,after a while a got his Green card, had two kids with the American,he got a good job,but along the line he had some misunderstanding with his Nigerian Girlfriend(the mother of his two oldest kids) notwithstanding he took his eldest child to the US..leaving one behind with the Nigerian Girlfriend.Because of the eldest child that he took to the US meaning he has to communicate with his mum on a frequent basis due to the behaviour of their child. Another thing is that She's no longer in good terms with my friends family,blaming them they're the reason my friend refused to marry her.Not knowing that my friends family has been asking my friend to forgive her no matter what has transpired between them.Now this where the question comes in,just today my friend called saying he wants to get back with her,if only She agrees to be his second wife because there's no way he'll leave the American who did everything for him when needed and does appreciates him unlike the Nigerian Girlfriend who's all about Money and complaining...He has asked me what do i think if his decision is good or bad?She has told my friend to give him few days to think about everything.Should they get together or my friend should just leave things the way they are?

That's exactly what i told him but he's still insisting,talking about his future might be in Nigeria

My advice to singles out there is this.
If you are dating a guy/girl and you guys are yet to marry, pls dont trust him/her when he/she travels abroad especially a guy. The moment a white lady helps him to get a green card, the reward is marriage.

Is not just the guys, it applies to both gender. Most girls travel out and never thought about the Man they were with,same with the guys.

You're spot on, marrying out of pity is not the best.The same white woman helped him to bring his son to the US and She's already filling papers to bring the other child.Am not sure our Nigerian women will do such a thing.

On top of that She's like 12 years younger than my friend,still young and fresh and the Girlfriend in Nigeria is like 5 years younger than my friend,that can't be wrong,can it?

sexkillz: That woman is rare.

Very!

If is a Nigerian Woman no way She'll let in kids from another relationship

You never know,like they no one knows what's going on,things don't happen empty handed,do they?

Your friend seems like he wants much complications in his life else he wouldn't even think about marrying the Nigerian babe sef.

Hahahahaha

sexkillz: Leave story. Some people carry stupidity from belle come out.

Those people full Nairaland

He no easy ohhhhh

Dondav: Welcome Back Nairaland Romance Section... These are the kind of stories we want! Not Virginity crap, Birthday, and "How to" crap...

Antelope!

Well,you spot on we have to talk about things that will make an impact to our life's not some jargons

Idowuogbo:
Antelope!

Seconded

Dondav:
Hmmm! A stalker and a Hater... Now I see why u seek too many advices on Nairaland.

I am neither a stalker nor a hater. I just concured to the obvious

Dondav: How [b]
[b]How about you step the f•u•c•k back and let me do my thing!
And tell that old biatch to stop stalking me
I'm not ready for another useless Ban!

Hang urself.

Dondav: How [b]
[b]How about you step the f•u•c•k back and let me do my thing!
And tell that old biatch to stop stalking me
I'm not ready for another useless Ban!

I see a ban walking round your doorstep nigga. You should learn how to talk to your elders bro.

Dondav: Aight! I'm done..
So, Mr Xynerise, How are u though?
And @Idowuogbo, When are we getting married?

Thats more like it kid. Am good and bubbling

Dondav:
You've got 20 seconds to convince me that you are 30 years old, or I'm gonna E-kick your a$$.. Not kidding bro

20 seconds is too small. I am older than your eldest brother. I hope you are convinced?