I met my friends husbands cousin through her after her wedding.She introduced him to me and we got talking,and he told me his plans of getting married this year he is in his early 30s,but I'm not taking him serious because:
1. He sounds desperate ,he has a double visa to kenya and plans to start bizness there,so he needs a serious lady that he will marry and also travel there with him and he is going in august.
2. He wants to have premarital sex before marriage and if possible get pregnant bfore marriage
3. He attends a church where the ladies don't wear trousers and jewelries(endtime message)
I told him I can't go to dat type of church,and can't have sex with him or be pregnant and I'm not ready to rush into any relationship. But he seems adamant and I don't have feelings for him @ all.please what else can I do to make him understand my reasons.
Thanks

Young lady,his ways and your ways don't match.Except you are desperate,he doesn't sound like the man for you.Let him go.

I dnt have anything to say. Let me just occupy this 2nd spot.

Will ask u a single question. Are u desperate to do all those thing? If not, then why did u open this thread?

I told him that we are not compatible and I can't abide by his rules,but he keeps disturbing me daily, I have told him I can't date him,I just need ideas on how to put him off completely.I don't think I even like him sef

Your bloodgroup and his blood group are not thesame so ignore him, ignore his calls, stay far awa 4rm him except if u have bn eating his money before. Dnt guy just want to use u and dump u period!

prosper86: I met my friends husbands cousin through her after her wedding.She introduced him to me and we got talking,and he told me his plans of getting married this year he is in his early 30s,but I'm not taking him serious because:
1. He sounds desperate ,he has a double visa to kenya and plans to start bizness there,so he needs a serious lady that he will marry and also travel there with him and he is going in august.
2. He wants to have premarital sex before marriage and if possible get pregnant bfore marriage
3. He attends a church where the ladies don't wear trousers and jewelries (endtime message)
I told him I can't go to dat type of church,and can't have sex with him or be pregnant and I'm not ready to rush into any relationship. But he seems adamant and I don't have feelings for him @ all.please what else can I do to make him understand my reasons.
Thanks

You guys can reason together afterall...
He listen to endtime messages and at the same time lusting after you & pursuing you with premarital s€ x? Well I think that man is ma. d

And to think you're so into jewelries and allergic to lady like dresses (skirts) makes me wonder if you're okay...

Like whatz wrong with ladies? are you not good enough the way you were created?

It is obvious that you too are still strangers, but there is no way we should rule out falling in love over time.
You don't hate him or find him repulsive which is good , you just don't like the rush.
Give him time and nurture the affections or just let him understand that you are not just ready for him

Maybe he wants to use u for rituals. I can't jast fathom his desperation in this 2013 about marriages. Mami,please run.