The small South African town of KwaDukuza had its ‘First Traditional African Gay Wedding’ over the weekend when a young Zulu couple tied the knot.

According to IOL News, Tshepo Modisane and Thoba Sithole, both 27, walked down the aisle in front of 200 guests at the Stanger Siva Sungam community hall.

Thoba, an IT specialist, and Tshepo, an audit manager, have dated on and off for years. They will adopt each other’s names in the hybrid Sithole-Modisane, as will their future kids; the couple is reportedly planning to have children through a surrogate.

“Family is important to us and that is the number one reason why we want to have children,” said Thoba. “We also want our children to grow up in an environment where they are loved greatly by both parents who appreciate them.”
Tshepo and Thoba enjoyed the support of family and friends in South Africa, where gay marriage is legal.

However, a series of gay murders have plagued the nation recently and, as San Diego Gay and Lesbian News points out, Zulu traditional chiefs attempted to remove sexual orientation as a protected class from the South African constitution.
Thsepo wanted to be so open about his and Thoba’s nuptials in hopes of inspiring “people out there who are still struggling to come to terms with their sexuality”.

“We see no reason to hide in darkness as if there is something to be ashamed about,” he said. “Our marriage is largely symbolic and a sign that black gay men can commit and build a family through a happy and loving marriage


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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1ZLB9Y7lPw8

E don happen, something don happen

E don happen, something don happen.

Your Momma tell you make you no drink too much akamu

You no listen to your mama's advice.

. . . .Rotflmao, I don't know why that was the first thing that came to my mind when I saw the story.

Plz don't tell ♍ε̲̣̣̣̥ its coming into our dear Africa

Apparently your dear Africa has had all this time, it's just been kept on the QT...the down low (every pun intended)

Is Linda Ikeji a Lesbian : For sometime now linda Ijkeji has really been promoting gays and Lesbians on her blog. If she is a lesbians let us know and how come she attends social gathering alone.

Im afraid, because as it has been made opened and legal in S/A now, those gays in Nigeria are already empowered, we will soon hear notice of gay weddings here as well, no more hiding, no more fear of being harrassed/arrested, some pple don front.
Okay, i cross my legs dey look o.

May God help us in Africa.

Thank God this did not happen in Nigeria.

I hate to say this, but its apparently the truth that, lesbianism and gayism are both evil and its one of the signs of the end time.


May God help us all o.

Brand_new: Thank God this did not happen in Nigeria.

and who told you that it wont still happen in Nigeria? Abi no be Nigerians wey good at immitating, abeg, you go soon hear weeeehn.

Let us all parent start to explain this concept to our children and the evil attached to it, in addition to prayers for them, so that, none of our children will go towards that direction, because, i personally see it as evil, be it in secret or openly.
May God help us all.

In the traditional African wedding there should be a white handkerchief to show the bride is a virgin

So How would the Handkerchief play out in this one? Would he use the cloth to wipe His bum and show the guests?

dayokanu: In the traditional African wedding there should be a white handkerchief to show the bride is a virgin

So How would the Handkerchief play out in this one? Would he use the cloth to wipe His bum and show the guests?

Rotflmao. . .you ain't right.

Brand_new: Thank God this did not happen in Nigeria.

Brah it's a mata of time

biolabee:

Brah it's a mata of time

abi o...........no be this naija pple, wey no dey carry last for anything bad.



Chai!battery low!

There's no way this will become openly acceptable in Nigeria. I know our people too well. If it'll ever happen, it will be a matter of decades.

dayokanu: In the traditional African wedding there should be a white handkerchief to show the bride is a virgin

So How would the Handkerchief play out in this one? Would he use the cloth to wipe His bum and show the guests?

Kolo baba

NAIja too like copy copy

Na God go help us make this thing no take over
When baba make nwanyi beautiful so much na man nyansh I go come dey chase
Tufiakwa

Brand_new: There's no way this will become openly acceptable in Nigeria. I know our people too well. If it'll ever happen, it will be a matter of decades.

Brah it will start from your neo western kids
Nowadays it's is better to assault a woman than to use a slur termed homophobic

biolabee:

Kolo baba

NAIja too like copy copy

Na God go help us make this thing no take over
When baba make nwanyi beautiful so much na man nyansh I go come dey chase
Tufiakwa

Maybe that would hasten to rush back to Polygamy for the straight guys

10 guys 10 girls

Men die more than women so 10 girls 9 guys.

1 guy in jail for a long time that means 8 guys 10 girls

If 2 guys are gay that means 6 guys 10 girls

So Polygamy is the answer

dayokanu:

Maybe that would hasten to rush back to Polygamy for the straight guys

10 guys 10 girls

Men die more than women so 10 girls 9 guys.

1 guy in jail for a long time that means 8 guys 10 girls

If 2 guys are gay that means 6 guys 10 girls

So Polygamy is the answer

Bros too late first they stigmatized polygamy then espoused feminism which evolved to ultra feminism and now feminazism
I have said it many times homosexualism and lesbianism coupled with acceptance of single motherhood as a life style are the killers of marriage as we know it not polygamy

hmmmm. .......


Wetin we no go see. O ga o!

But wait, my only confusion is why a man would be gay, but marry a man that acts feminine. That always confuses me. . His man/wife is wor wor sha. . The manly one and zulu warrior aint bad

Lmao! That has always confused me too and what about lesbians who marry butch looking women. . .I mean it's strange.

Speaking of Lesbians, Anyone remember Darlene from Roseanne? Well Sara Gilbert it seems is a lesbian (I know! That cute little girl. . .I mean not there is anything wrong with it).

So her partner proposed to her...Here's how it all went down

Revealing the news on Monday’s “The Talk," Gilbert, 38, described Perry’s romantic proposal during a picnic in the park.
“We go to a park, we have food and we’re eating it, it’s really sweet and there’s this guy sitting playing guitar, like a street musician,” she said. “He starts playing this song that we love … I’m like, ‘Oh, that’s so weird, this is so magical and amazing.’”


Little did Gilbert know that the romance was just beginning.

“So that ends, and she’s like, ‘Oh I’m gonna ask him to play this other song,’ but this other song is really obscure and this guy wouldn’t know it, but magically he knows it,” she continued. “And suddenly the people picnicking next to us pull out string instruments from under the blanket and walk over and they start playing ‘Love Song’ (by the Cure).”

Gilbert was shocked by what was happening with Perry, her girlfriend since last fall.




Perry then displayed four t-shirts with one word each, “Will. You. Marry. Me.” The fifth shirt she presented had a question mark and then she pulled out the ring.

To further add to the romantic gesture Perry told Gilbert to “turn around” and there stood their mothers and a couple of friends.

“So I think that’s it and it’s the most amazing proposal ever and then … this guy walks up and she’s like. ‘This is John Waite.’ And he starts playing ‘Missing You.’”

Who wouldn’t say yes to that?

Say what you will about their sexual orientation but one can't deny that's romantic. . .in the obsessed, I love you die, you are mine forever, tipatipa tesetese kinda way of course. Just kidding

this is depressing......

coogar: this is depressing......

Why so depressed. It means more women for you Coogar. I would think you would be happy

baby_123:
Why so depressed. It means more women for you Coogar. I would think you would be happy

more women? how so?

biolabee:

Brah it will start from your neo western kids
Nowadays it's is better to assault a woman than to use a slur termed homophobic

Not my kids....I believe any child who develops same sex orientation should have his or her parents to blame. No doubt I'm homophobic and no one would cast aspersions at me here in Nigeria. However, gays would have to stay under cover for a while.

SOUTH AFRICA, a country still owned by the West, of course it would be the first African country to have such an abomination occur.

Very Sad.

Hopefully it will be the last.

Brand_new:
Not my kids....I believe any child who develops same sex orientation should have his or her parents to blame. No doubt I'm homophobic and no one would cast aspersions at me here in Nigeria. However, gays would have to stay under cover for a while.

Did not mean your kids literally though

So your parents know everything you are up now
If u post sth stupid here on NL it's your parents fault too aiit?

Parents don suffer
When will people take responsibility for their own actions

So a tribalist must always raise a tribalist right

Yuck.

Baby-diaper sellers are in biz.

tell us true. I can see you sipping more of your pineapple juice and nourishing them.

coogar: this is depressing......

this life is full of wonders.
I still don't know how another guy will allow someone to poke something down the small holed an.us.
They really tried. Trying to get the nature off loader to off load is hard not to think of some hefty bulala going inside.
ummm, it is well.

armyofone: this life is full of wonders.
I still don't know how another guy will allow someone to poke something down the small holed an.us.
They really tried. Trying to get the nature off loader to off load is hard not to think of some hefty bulala going inside.
ummm, it is well.

the military started the trend of which you are one.....