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Re: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Mindependent(f): 12:59am On Apr 12, 2013 |
Fabiens: There is nothing wrong with you. I understand her perfectly well Thank you soooo much, at least I don't feel like a weirdo as these people are trying to make me feel, I do tend to like high adrenaline events especially sky diving ![]() |
Re: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by gabinogem(m): 6:10am On Apr 12, 2013 |
naijaobi: @op..nawa for u o.. Just put it in prayers.. But if u dnt knw hw to pray, then u r finishedhmmm! Religious sentiment. |
Re: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by FameMonsta(m): 6:34am On Apr 12, 2013 |
Nigerians are just naturally obsessed with keeping a stereotypical conventional way of life, I don't think there is anything wrong with her, we all have our preferences, I guess that's what makes life fun, if we all think and act alike I don't think the earth would go round the sun anymore.. You're just into slave & master (S&M) where one party is active and the other is passive.. It isn't considered a sexual disorder until it moves to the stage of sadomasochism, but trust Nigerians to jump into conclusion... You're perfectly normal, is just that such preference in this part of the world is somewhat exotic, your consulting a psychiatrist won't change a thing! |
Re: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Nobody: 7:52am On Apr 12, 2013 |
Mindependent: I am very attracted to guys that are very er...dominant and in a way, bad. Say, abusive, treat you like a posession, jealous, aggressive- IN and OUT the bedroom. Confirms what many of us Aggressive Guys always Knew....... |
Re: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Nobody: 7:53am On Apr 12, 2013 |
...Same Lady. Interesting. |
Re: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Mindependent(f): 7:55am On Apr 12, 2013 |
Boricua:Negro:Which is? |
Re: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Nobody: 7:57am On Apr 12, 2013 |
Mindependent: I am very attracted to guys that are very er...dominant and in a way, bad. Say, abusive, treat you like a posession, jealous, aggressive- IN and OUT the bedroom. |
Re: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Nobody: 7:59am On Apr 12, 2013 |
I also think you like to be verbally abused as well..humiliated, degraded, maybe even spat on. Chocked and Spit On..... You Like It Rough.. Un Huh...I know your type... I know your type very well... ![]() Nothing wrong with it. Long as It Stimulates You...Enjoy Life. |
Re: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Mindependent(f): 7:59am On Apr 12, 2013 |
[quote author=Boricua:Negro][/quote] You do realise I'm talking about myself only and not the entire female population |
Re: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Nobody: 8:00am On Apr 12, 2013 |
Mindependent: Yes |
Re: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Nobody: 8:02am On Apr 12, 2013 |
You seek dominance....you seek Testosterone and Ruthless Aggression... Also like to be Humiliated I Bet. You are probably the type who likes a man to cheat on you...but act as if you hate him soon as he come shom 3:41 am boxers smelling like the crotch of another woman's vajine.... You start a fight with him...hoping he gets physical and violent with you.. All just so he starts chocking the shitt out of you, while making love to you..... And You Dig your nails in his Back and Love every minute of it. |
Re: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Mindependent(f): 8:05am On Apr 12, 2013 |
Boricua:Negro:I do! I do! I do! Are you that sort of man? ![]() |
Re: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Nobody: 8:07am On Apr 12, 2013 |
Mindependent: Now would i admit something so heinous publicly young lady?..... ![]() I think you need to close your goddamn mouth before a problem ensues. A Reaction just as the one seen above definitely would deserve a Smack! in person... Luckily we aren't in Person..... |
Re: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Mindependent(f): 8:09am On Apr 12, 2013 |
Boricua:Negro:If only we were ![]() ![]() |
Re: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Nobody: 8:13am On Apr 12, 2013 |
Mindependent: Lady, you are gonna sully my reputation and get me in Trouble. Having these folks think i am some abusive psychotic of some sort..... I'm Going to Sleep. You Have a Good Night Young Lady. |
Re: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Mindependent(f): 8:16am On Apr 12, 2013 |
Boricua:Negro:Don't worry your secret is safe with me ![]() ![]() |
Re: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Mindependent(f): 9:07am On Apr 12, 2013 |
asholly baby: i think u need cranial surgeryInstead of u to talk brain surgery you wan do like say na u Sabi English pass. Comot! |
Re: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Mindependent(f): 9:09am On Apr 12, 2013 |
Sweetlemon: I feel like throwing up!And you're announcing that here because?!? |
Re: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Mindependent(f): 9:09am On Apr 12, 2013 |
laylow001: Hey girl can i be your p i m p?You can be much more ![]() |
Re: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by mikeell: 9:16am On Apr 12, 2013 |
Mindependent: I am very attracted to guys that are very er...dominant and in a way, bad. Say, abusive, treat you like a posession, jealous, aggressive- IN and OUT the bedroom. ok lady here is your help you can email me if this helps you at awinikimichael@yahoo.com if you are attracted to dominant men its normal i mean for ladies they always want to be lead but abusive that really weird so here what you can do to help yourself quit your present relationship and stay alone for a while but in that while visit a church for prayers and the try to meet new guys who are dominant alpha male but not abusive. please you wont find them in club houses and might not find them in the church either so check commercial areas like mall. |
Re: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Mindependent(f): 9:20am On Apr 12, 2013 |
mike ell:Thanks for your advice but I can't just quit a relationship just like that na? |
Re: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Toboski: 9:23am On Apr 12, 2013 |
@Poster, there's nothing wrong with you if what you have said does not include condoning violence, as there are quite a number of women who do not like weak men and cannot stand them, this gives them a sense of security and creates some kind of leadership for them by their men. However, it could also have a psychological side to it, that brings me to this question: do you enjoy it when such men get violent and inflict some pain on you ![]() |
Re: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Nobody: 9:24am On Apr 12, 2013 |
@Op. You're condition is very NORMAL. All the same science describes your type as a "Masochist". Don't let anyone deceive you. Go for what you want, but be very careful. You can read a book on MASOCHISM. It should enlighten you. |
Re: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Mindependent(f): 9:31am On Apr 12, 2013 |
Toboski: @Poster, there's nothing wrong with you if what you have said does not include condoning violence, as there are quite a number of women who do not like weak men and cannot stand them, this gives them a sense of security and creates some kind of leadership for them by their men. However, it could also have a psychological side to it, that brings me to this question: do you enjoy it when such men get violent and inflict some pain on youI enjoy pain sadly.i was never absused or know anyone who was but I used to watch quite violent movies. Thanks so much, some people just don't understand ![]() |
Re: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Mindependent(f): 9:32am On Apr 12, 2013 |
udifrancis: @Op. You're condition is very NORMAL. All the same science describes your type as a "Masochist". Don't let anyone deceive you. Go for what you want, but be very careful. You can read a book on MASOCHISM. It should enlighten you.Thank you ![]() ![]() |
Re: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Kelvin677(m): 9:44am On Apr 12, 2013 |
boron10: See a Psychiatristur in d spirit sh nids a serious deliverance |
Re: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Mindependent(f): 9:47am On Apr 12, 2013 |
Kelvin677: ur in d spirit sh nids a serious deliveranceNa u wan deliver me? |
Re: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by star4(f): 10:49am On Apr 12, 2013 |
Mindependent: You're in a relationship You're a virgin You are trying to pick up guys online Have you told your 'councillor' that you're doing this? You haven't been abused but the thought of it turns you on? I think it's normal for a woman to want to be dominated. But if you're into pain and being threatened I would keep it to role play with a loving partner. Picking up guys online telling them you enjoy the thought of being abused seems like you're either having a laugh or are seriously immature sexually and lack life experience. Just be careful lady! You could end up a statistic. |
Re: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by graphicsplay: 11:36am On Apr 12, 2013 |
Flee from an abusive man now to avoid regrets tomorrow. Consider a session with a psychiatrist today! |
Re: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by Nobody: 11:40am On Apr 12, 2013 |
mike ell: [size=15pt]WHAT THE HELL!?!!??![/size] ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by ibiso1986: 2:30pm On Apr 12, 2013 |
victorD3:hmmm.. Bad guy. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do I Seek Dominating & Abusive Men? Is It Normal? by scortez: 2:31pm On Apr 12, 2013 |
I prolly Tink U are'nt Tellimg The Whole Story.The Main Question I wanna ask Is "Were You Abused At A Young Age?".This Might Be One Of The Major Reasons Why You Are So Fragmented.Abuse At An Early Age Can Cause A person To ShutDown Completely.In Other Words The Person In Question Condones Abusive Relationships.First Of All,I'll Advise You See A counsellor Who'll Lead You Through The Process Of Self Renewal.You Suffer From Low Self Esteem.Once You've Gotten Ur Self Esteem Back,It'll Lead You To Demand Respect From your Spouse.Take What I say Seriously And Please Work your Way Back To Redemtion! |
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