Fabiens: There is nothing wrong with you. I understand her perfectly well . I had a girl like that. We made a good team . Main reasons for such behaviour is usually molestation while you were young, abusive father or high sex drive or all 3. You might also like adrenaline-filled events if I get your type. Car racing? Bungee jumping? You derive joy from the risky things in life, probably why a dominating bad guy would get your juices flowing. Its just individual preference. Some people are wild and do crazy sh1t. As most have advised, most important thing is not to get physically abused.

And no need to insult her. She is being open, be constructive.

naijaobi: @op..nawa for u o.. Just put it in prayers.. But if u dnt knw hw to pray, then u r finished

Mindependent: I am very attracted to guys that are very er...dominant and in a way, bad. Say, abusive, treat you like a posession, jealous, aggressive- IN and OUT the bedroom.

I have been in an abusive relationship and even though I know its wrong and dangerous, It used to excite me when I was threatened or attacked.

I know its really bad, but its the only thing that seems to excite me, like if a guy i like just grabs my wrists or pulls/pushes me against something or tells me what to do it really turns me on (outside the bedroom).

I also have dreams where Im my partners posession and he has full control of my life.

I get really bored of 'normal' guys if they dont seem to have this controlling/possessive streak. I dont know how to break the cycle and its hard to seek out these sorts of guys as its not really something you admit is it.

Is this normal?

Ive also always had a fear of men since I was very young (though im not sure why) but i used to be terrified of older men.

Boricua:Negro:



Confirms what many of us Aggressive Guys always Knew.......

Mindependent: I am very attracted to guys that are very er...dominant and in a way, bad. Say, abusive, treat you like a posession, jealous, aggressive- IN and OUT the bedroom.

I have been in an abusive relationship and even though I know its wrong and dangerous, It used to excite me when I was threatened or attacked.

I know its really bad, but its the only thing that seems to excite me, like if a guy i like just grabs my wrists or pulls/pushes me against something or tells me what to do it really turns me on (outside the bedroom).

I also have dreams where Im my partners posession and he has full control of my life.

I get really bored of 'normal' guys if they dont seem to have this controlling/possessive streak. I dont know how to break the cycle and its hard to seek out these sorts of guys as its not really something you admit is it.

Mindependent:
You do realise I'm talking about myself only and not the entire female population

Boricua:Negro:
You seek dominance....you seek Testosterone and Ruthless Aggression...

Also like to be Humiliated I Bet.

You are probably the type who likes a man to cheat on you...but act as if you hate him soon as he come shom 3:41 am boxers smelling like the crotch of another woman's vajine....

You start a fight with him...hoping he gets physical and violent with you..

All just to so he starts chocking the shitt out of you, while making love to you.....

And You Dig your nails in his Back and Love every minute of it.

Mindependent:
I do! I do! I do! Are you that sort of man?

Now would i admit something so heinous publicly young lady?.....

I think you need to close your goddamn mouth before a problem ensues.

A Reaction just as the one seen above definitely would deserve a Smack! in person...

Luckily we aren't in Person.....

Boricua:Negro:


Now would i admit something so heinous publicly young lady?.....

I think you need to close your goddamn mouth before a problem ensues.

A Reaction just as the one seen above definitely would deserve a Smack! in person...

Luckily we aren't in Person.....

Mindependent:
If only we were I would love to be smacked

Boricua:Negro:


Lady, you are gonna sully my reputation and get me in Trouble.

Having these folks think i am some abusive psychotic of some sort.....

I'm Going to Sleep. You Have a Good Night Young Lady.

asholly baby: i think u need cranial surgery

Sweetlemon: I feel like throwing up!

laylow001: Hey girl can i be your p i m p?

Mindependent: I am very attracted to guys that are very er...dominant and in a way, bad. Say, abusive, treat you like a posession, jealous, aggressive- IN and OUT the bedroom.

I have been in an abusive relationship and even though I know its wrong and dangerous, It used to excite me when I was threatened or attacked.

I know its really bad, but its the only thing that seems to excite me, like if a guy i like just grabs my wrists or pulls/pushes me against something or tells me what to do it really turns me on (outside the bedroom).

I also have dreams where Im my partners posession and he has full control of my life.

I get really bored of 'normal' guys if they dont seem to have this controlling/possessive streak. I dont know how to break the cycle and its hard to seek out these sorts of guys as its not really something you admit is it.

Is this normal?

Ive also always had a fear of men since I was very young (though im not sure why) but i used to be terrified of older men.

mike ell:


ok lady here is your help you can email me if this helps you at awinikimichael@yahoo.com

if you are attracted to dominant men its normal i mean for ladies they always want to be lead but abusive that really weird so here what you can do to help yourself quit your present relationship and stay alone for a while but in that while visit a church for prayers and the try to meet new guys who are dominant alpha male but not abusive. please you wont find them in club houses and might not find them in the church either so check commercial areas like mall.

Toboski: @Poster, there's nothing wrong with you if what you have said does not include condoning violence, as there are quite a number of women who do not like weak men and cannot stand them, this gives them a sense of security and creates some kind of leadership for them by their men. However, it could also have a psychological side to it, that brings me to this question: do you enjoy it when such men get violent and inflict some pain on you if yes, where you violated or abused as a child or did you live with someone who was abused while you were a child? all dis questions will be helpful in determining whether you will require psychological help or not. Finally, for those of you who find it very easy to abuse or insult people in need of genuine advice, you are worst than such people whom you criticize and you are plain hypocrites, i believe dat silence is golden... if you cannot be part of a solution, why add to the problem?

udifrancis: @Op. You're condition is very NORMAL. All the same science describes your type as a "Masochist". Don't let anyone deceive you. Go for what you want, but be very careful. You can read a book on MASOCHISM. It should enlighten you.

boron10: See a Psychiatrist

Kelvin677: ur in d spirit sh nids a serious deliverance

Mindependent:
Thanks for your advice but I can't just quit a relationship just like that na?

mike ell:

if you are attracted to dominant men its normal i mean for ladies they always want to be lead but abusive that really weird so here what you can do to help yourself quit your present relationship and stay alone for a while but in that while visit a church for prayers and the try to meet new guys who are dominant alpha male but not abusive. please you wont find them in club houses and might not find them in the church either so check commercial areas like mall.

victorD3:



There is nothing wrong with you. Everybody has different tastes just like some girls love it hard on bed while others will feel you are too rough. That's my pin 2389AFD1 we can talk more about this.