@ Poster, I thought it actually happened to you sef.. Mttcccheeewww.

@ All, check it out..

http://paradisepleasures.org/dating-a-27-year-old-virgin-is-frustrating/?fb_source=pubv1#sthash.WbMx2VqH.dpbs

smartg :

you mean she's still a virgin at 27, and you want to quit?, that is very hard to find these days, pls give me her contact before you leave her.

Dont mind him jare!! If he truly had a 27yrs old gf, he wouldve been on his honeymoon now rather than making unreasonable noise here in nairaland

Shollypopz:
LoL, I agree but there are advantages that comes with marrying a virgin if she's a true one.

Amazing self control.
You can be sure she doesn't bend easily to peer pressure.
She is a determined woman.
You have the opportunity to shape and define what sex means and is to her. If she associates sexx just to you, then you can be sure she'll remain faithful. (I might HV to elaborate on this)


In fact, pls leave her. Give way for a man that knows her worth to find her.

123likes?

See virgins for NL....nawa oooo.

scobaba:

123likes?

See virgins for NL....nawa oooo.

Virgins ke Make no mistake bruv. Many of dem likers apart from †ђξ born agains, are rejuvenated siners, those who are/have been heartbroken before and now feel †ђξ best solution is to keep 'it' closed. Most of †ђξ protagonists of virginity are just pretenders cos most have them commit †ђξ sex act in many other ways than practical. Abi d gal wey u quote tell u say she neva Bleep b4?...nansence!!!!

Dere I: @ Poster, I thought it actually happened to you sef.. Mttcccheeewww.

@ All, check it out..

http://paradisepleasures.org/dating-a-27-year-old-virgin-is-frustrating/?fb_source=pubv1#sthash.WbMx2VqH.dpbs

Dont mind him jare!! If he truly had a 27yrs old gf, he wouldve been on his honeymoon now rather than making unreasonable noise here in nairaland

You are not very intelligent, no ofeinse

BTW, why would a girl go into a relationship since she doesn't want sex or wants to keep her virginity. Like seriously I don't gerrit. Stay †ђξ hell outta any r/ship if u don( wanna be intimate. Yes don't even get involved in d first place, kapish?

shizzle11: BTW, why would a girl go into a relationship since she doesn't want sex or wants to keep her virginity. Like seriously I don't gerrit. Stay †ђξ hell outta any r/ship if u don( wanna be intimate. Yes don't even get involved in d first place, kapish?

Listen to what you've just said. Does this sound like a reasonable comment? How do people reason these days? So,you must be ready to have s-ex before going into a relationship? And it's now a crime to be in a relationship without having s-ex? Smh......

@poster I feel ur pain man its really fruestating and annoying.
You say u wunt start the romance cos she can't finish it na war cos she will say you doin it outside
You say kk let's get down on it slowly she say she is not ready till she gets married
You talk with other gurls says you ruin her world.
@poster, man I bear ur pain too. Sent u a Mail please get back at me

shizzle11: BTW, why would a girl go into a relationship since she doesn't want sex or wants to keep her virginity. Like seriously I don't gerrit. Stay †ђξ hell outta any r/ship if u don( wanna be intimate. Yes don't even get involved in d first place, kapish?

God bless you joor!!!! You get the gist! A woman who wants to keep herself will not get involved in relationships like this! She never told the OP she wants to wait till she marries. She's just indecisive as to if she should give in or not and that's my problem. The guy told her what he wants from the onset. Why should she accept?!!!!! The very first time he asked for s*x, and she knew she doesn't want to give in, why didn't she leave?? I no understand this kind relationship sef.

I don't have any issues with the guy 'cos no one is perfect. But to the lady: if the guy you're dating is not helping you uphold your morals, why not leave Ah!

I don't even understand the topic. All the same, I blame GEJ for this predicament.

For a girl to still be a virgin at 27?and she didnt escaped from a convent,two things are involved,.She is either lying or she has a big problem! daz all!.

cyrexx: While a woman who keeps her chastity should be commended. It's worthy to note that some women are virgins for some other not-so-good reasons and their virginity is actually an anomaly.

Some of those reasons are:

1. She is not attractive to the opposite sex and boys do not approach her.
2. She doesn't have opportunity to express her sexuality. She's secluded and raised in a rigid home. Those women tends to be frigid even when married.
3. Her religion taught her that sex is evil. She grows up to hate the idea of sex.
4. She has no desire for men. Probably lesbian by nature, but can't express her lesbianism in a Nigerian society.


A woman who has good character is always better than one with bad character, virginity notwithstanding. Personally I would choose a woman who has a healthy sexuality and good character. Not the one who believe her most precious asset is her virginity, instead of other more important things that builds a happy home.

very true

Nonsense!!! So, you all now see a virgin as a wrongdoer? Are you now saying that promiscuity is preferable to chastity? What a shameless generation. That lady should rather be praised and celebrated than what you guys are doing to her. Op, you honestly don't deserve that lady. I guess you need a slut, and I bet you know where they are. Leave that lady alone and go for sluts who will give you all you need plus HIV/AIDS.

Harvard-Grad:
Shollypopz dating a virgin who can't seem to make up her mind is one hell of a job. You can't have it, yet you are not allowed to get it somewhere else.

I understand the point you are trying to make, but she just doesnt seem to be able to make up her mind on whether she wants to keep it or not, yet she no go leave person alone. That is the frustrating part

Harvard-Grad:
Shollypopz dating a virgin who can't seem to make up her mind is one hell of a job. You can't have it, yet you are not allowed to get it somewhere else.

I understand the point you are trying to make, but she just doesnt seem to be able to make up her mind on whether she wants to keep it or not, yet she no go leave person alone. That is the frustrating part

GoodSamaritan: Nonsense!!! So, you all now see a virgin as a wrongdoer? Are you now saying that promiscuity is preferable to chastity? What a shameless generation. That lady should rather be praised and celebrated than what you guys are doing to her. Op, you honestly don't deserve that lady. I guess you need a slut, and I bet you know where they are. Leave that lady alone and go for sluts who will give you all you need plus HIV/AIDS.

And as the guy, knowing he can't hold himself, has suggested to the babe that he wants to leave and she refused, what then should he do? The girl doesn't want to leave the relationship and she doesn't want to give in to his demands. Who is fooling who? Na by force say make the guy marry her?

Being a virgin till marriage is the perfect thing any woman can do concerning her sexuality, but not in this way. She can't be tying people down that way. Whether the guy wants to carry a prostitute or nun is no one's biz, the point is, she shouldn't give in now, so let her leave the guy alone to live his life joor. (But OP, repent o)

Harvard-Grad:
I think its better when the cherry is popped early, babysitting a 27 year old virgin is extremely frustrating. I wan resign abeg.

. Cock blockers!!!!!

Shollypopz:
Wetin?

Nvm... Sealed lips...

ThiefOfHearts:

Are you sure you dont have a penus?

Cant believe a girl is uttering such BS.

I go on sabbaticals from this lame site and everytime I come back to more nonsense. Every year, yall continue to regress in rationale :/

If d site is so lame... What da heck U doin here... Sum peeps r jst tryna b sum sanctimonious ****.....

I love virgins, but i only date in the 17-23 range. At 27 that would be a major red flag....

ThiefOfHearts:

Are you sure you dont have a penus?

Cant believe a girl is uttering such BS.

I go on sabbaticals from this lame site and everytime I come back to more nonsense. Every year, yall continue to regress in rationale :/

... its not her fault your a slut.

Its funny how much skanky girls love to hate on virginity

Let me meet this girl. She should be a good role model. Does she stay in the U.S too? I want to meet her

vigins are lovely.
i married one.
so faithful, so disciplined.
pls cherish them. they are rare

I.Joan:
Let me meet this girl. She should be a good role model. Does she stay in the U.S too? I want to meet her

you want lesbian sex abi?

pleep: ... its not her fault your a slut.

Its funny how much skanky girls love to hate on virginity

You're right. Na your mama fault. She taught me well. darling

Tell her I said Hi

and no one is hating. Quite being daft/ Just say you didnt understand my post. omoale.

phineboy1pimple:

If d site is so lame... What da heck U doin here... Sum peeps r jst tryna b sum sanctimonious ****.....

cos Seun and co ask of me. Im a legend,newbie.

fratochi: I wonder where this our generation is heading with this celebration of immorality and iniquity! For goodness sakes where's is our sense of decency and chastity? Have we deteriorated to the point that we abhor cherished virtues of our society and even our faith? Instead of us to celebrate a woman of strong virtues and principles, a lady that against a million odds kept her virginity for a record 27 years , we are here trying to crucify her because of one mans evil inclined selfishness and uncontrolled lust. we really need to go back to our creator, because at the end of the day be you christian, muslim or pagan there's still respect for good morals. To the op, I wonder what that girl is still doing with you, cos its obvious you guys are not operating on the same frequency, leave her alone before you corrupt her , her specie is rare ! God help us!

@Fratochi
God bless you 1billion times..Atleast someone still reasons normal...Remain blessed wth wisdom

kenjudy: Pls can someone put this girl's name on "guiness book of most virteous woman" of our time? Guy u be yeye fowl for even posting dis here. U need to really leave her alone for d man that God made for her so she'll be cherished all her life. I once had such relationship, we both cherished it so much that I see her like a "god" and d fact dat I cherished her dat much and promised to help her keep it. And I bet u, I can't imagine d blessings I've received for doing dat.

did u also preserve yours for her?

Our generation is evil and corrupt,all u want from her is sex,pls leave her alone,it's obvious u don't love her,let her b nd find. Man dt will love her,look for 1 dt will b ready to v sex wt u,eat ur balls and chop ur penis all in d aim to ejaculate nd derive mins pleasure

eeew,, i'l never marry a virgin! After d weddin i dont hav time to tel her 2 endure pain! ;Deeew,, i'l never marry a virgin! After d weddin i dont hav time to tel her 2 endure pain!

pleep: you want lesbian sex abi?

Richfella:

My brother, in the distant past, I would have agreed with everything you said.

Look at it this way. For a girl to keep her virginity until 27, she is now super invested in it. A massive portion of her self-concept and self-esteem is strongly tied to her status as a virgin.

At her age, to her, disvirgining her and bouncing will probably be higher up on the scale than rape. You will be hurting, no...HARMING that girl on a very deep level. Like blinding someone's remaining eye - just because you could.

You can eventually fvck her if you just do one or two things...BUT, there's also a higher-calling. I mean this virginity shít means so much to HER. Just let her keep it...you da boss!

There are plenty other girls you could have if you wanted. If you like her, keep her as a friend and bang other chics.

Just see her as your daughter or little sister who is in a dilemma. She doesn't want to lose you and she also doesn't want to lose her virginity too.

You da man.

Your orientation bros is so tight. Ur logical frequency is beyond description. I doff my hat!