AAAAAAAAAAAAAA

Boring and long. Better if you completely delete all the chats.

My advice is you leave her and go your way. Are you a learner?

iyobs7: I sincerely cant make a decision about this whole thing but read and advice me plz, I will make it brief plz.

Introduced by a friend
Started dating by August ( while she was in Kaduna doing IT)
She came back OCT (to Benin) and we met for the first time
We pretty loved each other. She was all I desire and
wanted in a girl/lady as the case maybe cos she is very
pretty and understanding,
Never asked for money and even gave when she knew I was broke
For the first month, I had to cope with her "NOT ANSWERING" her
calls when she is with me...
Her reason being that they are toasters and she felt I would be
angry when she answers the calls...
That went by and I totally ignored it wheneva she had a call.
Now, On a particular day, she commented on a guys pix on FB and
I happen to know the guy and knowing that they live in the same
area, I then asked her a questn when we were chatting on FB...
Her: Hey Baby
Me: Mi swiri paw paw hw are u u?
Her: Fine, u?
Me: Gud gud, u commented on my friends pix on FB!
Her: Who?
Me: I called thee guyx name
Her: Do u know him
Me: Yea
Her: Hw close are u guyz?
Me: Very close... (me and d guy dnt even relate sef but I once worked for him and his friend unto internet config)
Her: Ok
Me: Can u meet me in his house on friday plz cos I will be visiting him?
Her: No I cant
Me: Why nw?
Her: Can u call me nw?
Me: I dnt have much airtym
She den logs out and calls my fone
(crying) she said I dont think I can continue with this relationship...
Me: Haba so sudden what have I done?
Her: Nothing
Me: Is it about the guy?
She ends the call and the next morning she doesnt go to work but comes directly to my house
ME just pretended as if nothing was wrong, she went inside, we exchanged greetings and I
was focused on the fight ob Blackbelt Tv on DSTV, then the next thing she started crying
kneeling and begging me not to leave her and that she was really sorry for what she has done
Again I was calm. drew her close and said it was aiit and that was settled...

Around February, I went tru her sms and found out that she contacted same guy again this time
the message ended with "AND KNOW THAT YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MY MAN" I asked her what I then was to her
and she said she did all those to get money from the guy that she needed money pretty desperately
I was like but I am here, what do u need money for and she said I didnt want to bother you cos I love
you so much...
After proper interrogation, I discovered that she has STD of which she refuzd to tell me the name of the
STD so that I can know how to treat and from that time till this moment, I have left her and I have lost complete
interest in the relationship but I am tempted to get her back because of her persistent nature right now.

What will come next is our facebook conversation from feb till date...


February 8
9:02am
ME:

Now u are making me feel bad

I am very proud of you
9:04am
HER:

hmmmmmm
9:05am
ME:
Some girls wey nor fine reach u hi dey form but ...
9:07am
HER:
hmmmmm u re flatterin me jor oo
9:07am
ME:
Flatter ke. Ah pway o
9:08am
HER:
no b only u pray u go fast join am
9:10am
ME:
First of all
9:11am
HER:
go dwn low
9:12am
ME:
Are u learner?
9:13am
HER:
noooo jor

am tired mennn......
9:13am
ME:
Of what?
9:14am
HER:
u no c say na u b d learner
9:15amME:

U ear

Ur ear
February 8
7:56pm
HER:
u no dey try
7:57pm
ME:
Wats dat for?
February 15
8:34pm
HER:
U aren't wort it at all
February 19
9:00pm
HER:
u called me
February 24
6:49am
HER:
hw culd u b dis wicked nd hrtless.... I called u al tru yesterday nd d day b4 yersterday but u didn't pick up ur phone, y? N yet u re online nt even a flash back..... Ah u av d hrt of a stone
7:08am
ME:
I lost my phone since on friday and just logged into my facebook with my sisters blackberry, how can you say am heartless?
March 1
7:52am
HER:

i called u yesterday n u weren't pickin up wit d num u gave a me
7:53am
ME:
Oh d fon wax wit my sis
7:55am
HER:
u knw u re nt tryin , common 2 even use someone elses fone 2 flash or call is very difficult abi

u knw u re nt tryin , common 2 even use someone elses fone 2 flash or call is very difficult abi
7:56am
ME:
My sis and her husband leave early nd cm late and I dnt knw anyone arnd
7:59am
HER:
wich of ur sist is it, d one senior 2 u
7:59am
ME:
Yes
8:01am
HER:
re u still in bni

re u still in bni
8:07am
ME:
Yes
8:08am
HER:
u don't miss me at all
8:10am
ME:
Am I rily that important to u?
8:12am
HER:
u av started again oo

u don't undastand, i am broke...u av always complain, nw am tryin 2 b gud even if nt perfect
8:16am
ME:
Hmmm

Complaind abt wat?!
8:21am
HER:
u knw nw
March 5
7:24pm
HER:
baby
March 14
4:54pm
HER
u not always pickin my cal... Y
4:54pm
ME:
Which numba did u cal?
4:55pm
HER:
am diein.... For every seconds u re always on my mind.....remember hw we started
4:57pm
ME:
What are u talkin abt?
4:58pm
HER:
don't u luv me anymore
4:59pm
ME:
U threw away all we had becaux u wantd to play ur games and I hope u continue playin it well
5:01pm
HER:
am really sorry....i no it really difficult to let go of
5:07pm
HER:
i want 2 c u
5:08pm
ME:
When?
5:08pm
HER:
nw
5:08pm
ME:
Am nt arnd, nxt wk

I traveld cox of my sch stuf i told u abt
5:09pm
HER:
when next week
5:10pm
ME:
Friday
5:10pm
HER:

it ok then
March 24
9:17pm
HER:

i still luv u
9:17pm
ME:

Plz dnt bring tears to my eyes:-(
9:22pm
HER:

y re doin dis to me.... Dis whole seneario is realy weighin me down n even affectin my wrk
9:23pm
ME:

I knw dat u are very ok.
9:25pm
HER:

av nt being to wrk for somedays
9:25pm
ME:

Why nw?
9:26pm
HER

dat al u knw... U can pple around who knws
9:26pm
ME:

Hw is ur mum?
9:27pm
HER

cus av being seriously ill

can u com on 2go
9:28pm
ME:

Oh sori, I guex u are beta nw

Am on 2go
March 29
12:24pm
HER:

wat is wrong wit u for cryin out loud, u arean't pickin up ur calls
12:25pm
ME:[/b]

Why that?
12:27pm
HER[b]

d contact u gave me isn't workin out
12:27pm
ME:[/b]

Its inside a modem

Thot I told u
12:27pm
HER[b]

n u arean't pickin dat very number cal

ok ooooo, wich numb do u use nw
12:30pm
ME:[/b]

My airtel is available nw
12:31pm
HER[b]

realy..... It ok

e clear sha........... D hand writtin on d wall


March 30
6:32am
HER[b][/b]

i still luv u very much my man.... Y do treat me wit so much hatered pls, remember i once carried ur child in my womb. Also hw we started, we can't just let little tin tear us apart my husband. If u knw u don't want me anymore just let me know........i stt
Monday
8:59pm
HER[b][/b]

sometimes u annoy me honestly.... Anyway luv u to d fullest
Today
10:10am
HER

each time i think about d past of our relationship.... It pretty hurt n hurt so bad....sometimes don't u think about wat happen to our lovin relationship....it not really easy startin up another if u think so. All i know is dat i still want u back, if u think it too late let me knw so i gradually put myself together n move on
10:22am
HER

i stil luv u very much

Now I am so confused and I dont know what to do! Is it for real?

...bro do u no how to summary?

^^^And you had to go and quote the ENTIRE post?? See how long the thread is with just the OP's post and yours.

OP, please edit and shorten your post. In particular, kindly summarize that facebook chat ish in a sentence or two; pasting it here word for word doesn't make sense. I'll hold my comments till you do so.

Mr..Cork:




...bro do u no how to summary?

So na because of this small statement you come quote the whole thing?

and to.think u promised to make it short..... e clear sha, d handwriting on d wall. una 2 be learner

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