All my life i dated older girls, perhaps cos they are very mature and direct, or perhaps cos i'm very mature and direct too, Either way, its always been really electric, the attraction from older girls
But to be perfectly honest with anyone, i wouldn't wanna marry an older girl, maybe that also explains why i always manage to end it before it gets out of hand

if i were a boy i would never in a million years date an older girl

Thank God ur not a guy

well i'm presently dating a girl thats 7 years older than me,

more grease to your elbows , i guess

ha ha
thank you, bros i really need the grease.

@ nightrider i think she is ur sugar mummy

If its dating and not marry, then i would. She's older means she's more xperienced

Of course that is totally absurd,we may be friends but not to the extent of dating or romance.
No sane mind could engage in such stupid business if i may say.if not,what is the dif bw that and sugar mumi?
myself i prefer younger girls to the older ones because the later are old school.
Any objection?

i would say yes cos is better to date older girl dat are reach to marry than small chicks, older girl would take good care of you and she would never want to loose you.

.hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm I will think about this

Would I date an older lady?

Nope, because it won't work. I need children and the fact that she is older might stick to my brain and I will probably find a younger chick on the side. Just a fact,

Personally, I love older women. The're more mature, more patient and trust me, they can teach you a few things you don't know about sex. They aren't always on your case for things and they sometimes baby you up a bit (which is really nice). Unfortunately, they are usually married or after you for things that would just shatter your whole existence. It's difficult to meet one with no strings attached. Sugar mummies (abeg, run from those ones o).

I'm dating someone 5 years older and i just want us to enjoy is as long as it lasts. It might never come to anything, but i hope we will always be friends

if shes not married why not? what makes her different from younger babes is marriage, if thats not there I will, also I want to correct the impression that an older person is more experienced its not always true, from my experience very many youger people are also experienced I meant Life experiences, in a relationship you learn from eachother, and all babes including older ones like a very intelligent person, good listener, caring and attentive.

Women mature faster than men;I wil date an older girl if she is sexy and appealing without considering marriage. I prefer to marry a young girl cos am goin to nuture her to grow and bcom the kind of woman i want, she becomes compatibly mine 4eva.

no

kennyuche: I prefer to marry a young girl because am goin to nuture her to grow and bcom the kind of woman i want, she becomes compatibly mine 4eva.

What if a woman would say "I prefer to marry a young boy because am goin to nuture him to grow and bcom the kind of man i want, he becomes compatibly mine 4eva"?

I come to understand from your postings that you donot date older women, NO, NO SORRY, that you donot consider marriage cause you want to shape a younger woman to be yours forever? that is serious! I have 3 friends who are married to women 4years, 2yrs and 1year younger than the guys and their marriages look like a match that was made in heaven, age can never be a barrier to me if I wanna get married and I think the way the world is today that is something very practical.

Love is no respecter of age, If you love an older lady and if she is ready to live with it then she'll respect u for being the head and not the other way round.

why not if she's my type

have done it before

sure why not. Nothing wrong so far there is understanding between you two.

no

What if a woman would say "I prefer to marry a young boy because am goin to nuture him to grow and bcom the kind of man i want, he becomes compatibly mine 4eva"?

Somegirl, I wish you the best of luck o. Which young Naija boy you wan nurture to becomes yours 4eva. Maybe another nigeria dey that i don't know of sha

as long as she respects me,y not!!! age is jus a number

i sure as hell wouldnt

Whats wrong with dating or getting married to an older woman? Absolutely nothing. They have got the same fire in their blood like the younger ones. Most guys that come my way a ususally younger or much much older than i am. I Cannot date the older ones cuz they are mostly married. That leaves me with the BOYZ. At first i used to feel insulted, but later i changed. Some of them are very mature you know you would not know the difference. MUTUAL RESPECT THATS THE KEY TO SUCH RELATIONSHIPS. The guy has to be a very CONFIDENT PERSON to start with. I do have a friend like that till date. I met him in school while i was doing my masters and him, his first degree. He is about 2yrs younger. That did not put him off. Though we never went out but we are best of pals till date. The others that came around were intimidated.

As for society, Who cares?? Nobody will be in the house with you and your wife, it would be the two of you. If you are happy, good for you if not its nobody's problem you know. So do not listen to them but rather follow your HEART. I know at least 7 married couples today and they are happy. the truth is you would not know who is older. REMEMBER OLDER WINE TASTE BETTER

not bad,i prefer much much older ladies than the young ones,cos they are more experienced than the younger ones.if you know what i mean.

yeah I can and why not

Any guy who admits he can date or marry an older girl in Nigeria is a thief because you're only after her money.

ABI You FIT DATE BABE WEY NO GET MONEY N IS OLDER THAN You?

ALL OF UNA B THIEF.

b real n realise dating an older gal is a sign of bn irresponsible n foolish.

Any guy who admits he can date or marry an older girl in Nigeria is a thief coz u r only after her money.

ABI U FIT DATE BABE WEY NO GET MONEY N IS OLDER THAN U?

ALL OF UNA B THIEF.

b real n realise dating an older gal is a sign of bn irresponsible n foolish.

My boyfriend is 32yrs old and I am 34. How am I supposed to feel? Should I feel guilty or how am I supposed to feel, can someone genuinely talk to me. we love each other, we respect each other, but the norms or the expectations of society is what is getting in my way. What should I do?