is it advisable to stay together in matrimony when love is no more there and your wife claims she is with you because of the issues not because she loves you? what is advisable

i am nt married so i may nt give d best of advice on this topic,At a point in tym in a relationship when love has gone sour,its d kids dat wil remain d bond between d husband and wife

i realy think we need to have something special for our selves as married couples

here we go again, love always turn sour

can't somebody say something rich, all this do not worth the advice i need

@op pls clearify what u mean by she said she is with you because of the issues not because she loves u ? What does it mean .

@OP.. Move this thread to the family section..
That's where you will get quality advice pertaining to your predicament..
Because most people here are not yet married..

Please see either a reputable pastor or a marriage counsellor!

fatjustice: is it advisable to stay together in matrimony when love is no more there and your wife claims she is with you because of the issues not because she loves you? what is advisable

OP, what do you mean by 'claim'? If she actually said that, then why say its a claim? Because from your entire post, I don't think you can disprove that 'claim'. And if she actually said that, then I don't think she's joking. Anyway, I believe in what Dondav said. First, you have to find out what the problem(s) is(are), then work on your marriage.

There is power in the tongue. Communication is a very strong key to a successful union. Sit your wife down and talk WITH her. For your love to have gone sour means that it was sweet at some point. It may be your fault(or hers), but you'll never know if you don't rub minds.

What are those things you did for/with her when things were smooth? Did you both stop because you're now married and/or with kids? To me, your full time love life is meant to start in marriage not before.

Since you want things to work out, its a very great start. Ask yourself these? What are those things that made her fall in love with me and accepted to marry me? Have I stopped doing them and when? Has my attitudes toward her changed? Do I still involve myself in her life like I used to or like I should?

Think, talk with your wife, take her out(on a vacation maybe), you can make a woman fall in love with you afresh, EVERYDAY, thus, making her STAY in love with you. Its all in your hands. You've got the power and you can do it. Divorce, as someone rightly said, is not an option. Good luck!!!!!

#MY OPINION