Hello Nairalanders,

If your elder sister's ex-lover is asking for your hand in marriage and knowing fully well that he dated your sister, can you accept the proposal?
I need your views on this.

Nope, i won't even have a relationship with him let alone marry.

I will be glad to have the man having enquired from my elder sister how good the man is both inside and outside, more especially if the man can perform his duty(ies) very well.

Depends on the circumstances of their breakup and my sisters opinion of the relationship,,,
I think this question cannot be answered generally, as every situation is diff.
I do know someone who married a guy she met while he was dating her sister,,, it was complicated but they worked things out

maybe yes maybe no ! common dont u eva ask questions before u date? and wen u see its starting dont u talk to your sisters? am like were is d love?

Of all the men in the world?

that is very much impossible,let's be sincere with ourselves.for my sister to have been his lover in the first place there must have been a connection,feeling btw them whatever might have happened that must have been responsible for their breakup,believe me she wouldnt be happy seeing the two of u together and i tell u the feelings they once had could push them into something unforgivable if they find themselves in private.like i once heard a saying"once there,always there".

Hello Nairalanders,

If your elder sister's ex-lover is asking for your hand in marriage and knowing fully well that he dated your sister, can you accept the proposal?
I need your views on this.

A SLAP ON THE CHEEK,A BLOW ON THE JAW,AND A KICK ON D ASS WILL BE MY REPLY TO THE GUY

chinda3:


A SLAP ON THE CHEEK,A BLOW ON THE JAW,AND A KICK ON D ASS WILL BE MY REPLY TO THE GUY

neva said beta!!!!!!!!


@topic

ewww ewwwww ewwwww!!!!!!!!! wat nonsense!!!!!  Are men really that scarce? _shudders

@Naja
the good ones are scarce. . .no be so?

@Poster
yes, if hes the man for you, go for him. No let anybody tell u nonsence o(LOL!)

tkb417:

@Naja
the good ones are scarce. . .no be so?

@Poster
yes, if hes the man for you, go for him. No let anybody tell u nonsence o(LOL!)

so what is your point? You will Marry the chick your elder brother has discarded?

You are willing to settle down with a a woman who you know her EX very very well. He used to slam her and probably told you some of thier escapades?

TK ,. . . . . . . . Talk tru oooooooooo?

No.

Men arent that scarce.

yuk.

Dealing with some ones' enemy makes you an enemy.

Nope. though i got no elder sister, but i can't even do it to someone i consider/see as an elder sister.

not to an elder sister(i have none) not to a younger sister and not even to a friend.
there are just some no goes in life.
in fact it will not even get that far that he will get round to asking

You shld never say never,
some situations are like the stuff soap operas are made of but they do happen and u'll be suprised to know how often they do (until they happen to u)
Life is very unpredictable and u have to learn to me more open minded

To those who say nothing is impossible, while not get married to your mum's ex? They all amount ot same.

totally not the same thing

HR.hotness:

totally not the same thing

Why
Similarities
Both are your females relatives
Both are older than you and
Both Digg the same thing you are about digging

So why not the same

hr.hotness i quite agree wit u.at times this thing called love can put you in a difficult suituation.its very funny how life works sometimes.some girls in your sis shoes will be mad over this while a few will not care bt one thin is sure if he is urs ,dating your sis before u will nt stop fate frm havin its way.nairalanders lets think on this issue like intellectuals nd not jst jump to a conclusion.sometins in life are not fair,they just happen.so dearie search your heart if u love him.then start by askin your sis why she broke up nd frm dere seek a consellor's advice or those that ve xperienced such tins.smtimes we learn well when we r taught by victims or ex victims

I probably wouldnt have agreed with it
but seeing it happen to someone else made me realise it really depends on the situation.
the cirmustances of the breakup will play a key role and the kind of relationship they had.
if all parties are matured about it, they can come to an understanding