Am not married for now but intends to later in the futures the way married people are going against"Divorce" is surprising,as they are in my opinion making it look and sound"Sacred".

I know that marriage takes a lot of patience,tolerance,maturity,love,understanding,suubmission etc,etc.But if after applying all this and more and its still not working or doesn't look like it will work anytime soonest,are they saying that I kill myself just because am in an institution called"Marriage"?

Why should and must give myself heart attack and high blood pressure over someone who needs her head examined?

Life is too short and precious to be wasted on other people who are hell bent on ensuring that you die off early

Married people in house over to you.

You're not married yet and you already think this way? You've embraced divorce, accepted defeat and already given up on the fight to make your marriage work, Even as you're yet to enter into the institution? Hmmmm, as a man thinketh bro, so it shall be for him o, better think right

I just wanna answer your topic question straight not minding what the body of your post is. Divorce is never an option because what God has joined together, NO MAN should put asunder. And by 'man', you and your partner are inclusive.

#disregard this if you're an atheist.

@ Chika,thanks for your time and input on this post.

For the record,I have not concede to divorce already but simply just thinking out aloud.My point is,what is the essence of staying in a marriage when"both parties"are not happy?

I think the"married people"are simply exagerating the word"divorce".I know its for better or for worse,it shouldn't be at the expense of the"other party's"life.

My stand is"if after you have done all you can to make your marriage work and is still not working,please ask for a divorce"E O D.

My two cents!

You are not to divorce God hates it, however you can only do it if the other spouse indulged in adultery and you were faithful otherwise, you are messing up your salvation and you are not allowed to marry again.

@op it simple if it does not work and is not working get the hell out of the marriage, if you die of high blood pressure , hypertension , stroke and heart attack in the marriage the woman will just move over and marry somone else or look for someone else , life is too short to be worrying about what is not working .. Marriage is not a do or die affair as some people has made it to , life is for the living and not for the dead. Enjoy your life while you can .. Despite what the bible says if for better for worse is not working out beg God for forgiveness and move on ..

Yes divorce is an option, I am unmarried and I believe it is an option depending on the situation.if your spouse cheats or is a hitter please divorce, life is too short to have regrets. But if its a situation such as a partener not finding the other attractive due to weight, work it out, go to the gym. Or maybe the sex or cooking is bad, learn or teach your partner.

Because most of the time there are kids involved and most likely the ones to suffer from it.
If the family structure is ruined, the society at large bears the brunt.
Research upon research have proven children from broken homes are more than likely to be delinquents!
I honestly believe government need to pose stricter laws on people who give birth for the fun of it either in marriage or out of wedlock.

Marriage is sacred. Both parties MUST take their vows seriously. Enough of all these silly, stupid, disgusting, vomit inducing and unstable marriages!

We need to have a marriage police. People that can't get along MUST pay a fine! Cheaters must pay a fine to the government. Naggers and troublesome people too must forfeit an inconsiderable part of their salary. You can't be sh*tting bad children into the society without penalties.