Hello nairalanders, there i've a girlfriend which we've been dating for the past four years buh we broke up last year's march we got back together this January .

Although i was the cause of the break up because i neither cared about our relationship nor her so to say, i don't call her buh she was always calling she tried her best possible but i was not forthcoming so she called it quit with me through a text and i never even bothered to call her back....

To cut the story short she later called to apologise buh i didn't listen to her , some months after the break up i started missing her so i found a way to ask her back into a relqtionship this year January

So the problem i have now is, She doesn't call as she used to , i now do all the calling most times though, buh when we were in the relationship before the break up i might no call for weeks buh she'll be the only one calling...

So do you guys think i lost her already as in she's over me , should i stop or should i continue to try make it work with her and i love her more now......wettin i go do?

It is your fault . Once bitten twice shy. D babe don get sense not to fall too deep in love with Jokers like you again ...she's gone for good..

shol: So do you guys think i lost her already

something like that.
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Last Bullet: You don't know the value of what you have until you lose it.

You've lost her.. Give it up..

I cnt blieve dat she even got bk wit u! Sweet revenge would hav bin d best! Rubish! If na me sef I won't call @ all,she broke up wit u wit a text n u didn't call bk! I blieve u've lost her bt jst 2 b sure I suggest u talk 2 her, nxt tym if u lyk remove ur brain put it in ur anus n sit on it instead of using it 2 tink

I dnt even think u care abt her at all. 'U were missing her so u found a way to get her back?' truth is u were nt missing her. You were either bored or u were just missing the attention she used to give u cos nw nobody sends you like she used to. That's why you r bothered abt her nt calling you.

If you rily want her back, call her and enjoy it. Stop complaining.

U dont appreciate what u have until u lose it!

Okiki_Oluwa: something like that.
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Last Bullet: You don't know the value of what you have until you lose it.

thank you. so u just do d calling n see how it feel like for love to b one sided. u need to prove to her dat u re 4 real

on a second tot, u might only b using her to get attention. if u dnt love d babe, free her for sbdy dat will apreciative wat it means to love n b loved

You think you can eat your cake and have it.

Now you know what it feels like. Talk to her about it, but if she doesn't change ...then it's a lost cause.

For
me, once i loose interest on a relationship, it takes d grace of God to
bring bk d luv. I've had a similar experience as urs. D best tin we
could do was to breakup completely and just remain friends. Who knows,
she might be my kind of person

butta: It is your fault . Once bitten twice shy. D babe don get sense not to fall too deep in love with Jokers like you again ...she's gone for good..

The problem i had then was that i had a lot of girls at my disposal , there was a time she even met a girl at my place buh she wasn't annoyed( well maybe she was buh he didn't say), but i'm not like that anymore i now respect people's feeling plus she's the only one i'm dating now i've really changed i'm afraid i'm loosing her because i'm madly in love with her now.

Darlene babe: on a second tot, u might only b using her to get attention. if u dnt love d babe, free her for sbdy dat will apreciative wat it means to love n b loved

i'm in love with her now oooo.

butta: It is your fault . Once bitten twice shy. D babe don get sense not to fall too deep in love with Jokers like you again ...she's gone for good..

hmm that's true she said something about not wanting to be nailed in a coffin she's already in... but i wan't her more than ever before .

lipsyliscious: I cnt blieve dat she even got bk wit u! Sweet revenge would hav bin d best! Rubish! If na me sef I won't call @ all,she broke up wit u wit a text n u didn't call bk! I blieve u've lost her bt jst 2 b sure I suggest u talk 2 her, nxt tym if u lyk remove ur brain put it in ur anus n sit on it instead of using it 2 tink

I believe as human there are some mistake's we've made in the past, as human i've learnt from my past mistakes i really want her now...

Wake up! Aboki is shagging her!!

dreamybubu: I dnt even think u care abt her at all. 'U were missing her so u found a way to get her back?' truth is u were nt missing her. You were either bored or u were just missing the attention she used to give u cos nw nobody sends you like she used to. That's why you r bothered abt her nt calling you.

If you rily want her back, call her and enjoy it. Stop complaining.

yeah no girl "sends" and care about me like she used to , it's because i do not want to give them the chance i want her and only her now...FYI i'm not bad i'm sure you'll like me when u see me....

deal_ordea: Wake up! Aboki is shagging her!!

She can't do that......

If she's still giving you the kondo then why worry

You don't know what you have,till you loose it. Tell her that you are now serious,and show it through action,and words. Show some commitments,and get serious with her. Treat her,and make her feel like a woman.

She's studying you,once bitten,thrice shy.

shol:
FYI i'm not bad i'm sure you'll like me when u see me....

You are here to get advice on how to win back your gal yet you are already flirting with someone u've never seen. You don't have much self control and you have not changed I believe you deserve a woman like yourself.

andromida:

You are here to get advice on how to win back your gal yet you are already flirting with someone u've never seen. You don't have much self control and you have not changed I believe you deserve a woman like yourself.

No, i'm only telling her because she thinks i'm one unsecured guy, i've girls chasing me buh i don't have all those time for girls now, i just want her so we can build something together and i mean it i've changed....

shol:

No, i'm only telling her because she thinks i'm one unsecured guy, i've girls chasing me buh i don't have all those time for girls now, i just want her so we can build something together and i mean it i've changed....

Ok if you say so. You keep emphasizing on girls chasing you but it has been my experience that if a girl chases you and you let her know you are not available she will be gone. So for girls to be chasing you,most likely you are giving all of them green light and hope that you are available. This is the first thing you should work on its being weak. I know many a good looking successful men that don't have girls chasing them, yes girls attempt it but they let them know one way or the other they cannot engage because they have defined themselves and what they want in their life. You should do that too.

Women chasing you is not a mark of success or that you are all that it just shows that you are available for any woman and that you don't value the one you have sadly they may not be able to fill her shoes and sometimes women can smell a man's weakness. I hope you don't derive self esteem from women chasing you. You may need to work on your esteem issues.

Keep calling your GF i think if you can proof to her that you have changed you may be able to win her back besides why are you angry that you are the only one calling her now? after all she did it for a long time so just return the favor and be patient with her.

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andromida:

Ok if you say so. You keep emphasizing on girls chasing you but it has been my experience that if a girl chases you and you let her know you are not available she will be gone. So for girls to be chasing you,most likely you are giving all of them green light and hope that you are available. This is the first thing you should work on its being weak. I know many a good looking successful men that don't have girls chasing them, yes girls attempt it but they let them know one way or the other they cannot engage because they have defined themselves and what they want in their life. You should do that too.

Women chasing you is not a mark of success or that you are all that it just shows that you are available for any woman and that you don't value the one you have sadly they may not be able to fill her shoes and sometimes women can smell a man's weakness. I hope you don't derive self esteem from women chasing you. You may need to work on your esteem issues.

Keep calling your GF i think if you can proof to her that you have changed you may be able to win her back besides why are you angry that you are the only one calling her now? after all she did it for a long time so just return the favor and be patient with her.

That's very true i always give them green light , thanks i'll work on all you've said....