Hello,
I have stood by in the last couple of days to see this
drama about Stella Damasus and Daniel Ademinokan
unfold. I have read countless blogs, reviews and
comments from all over the world and I have come to the
conclusion that people have no clue what they are talking
about.
I LIVED WITH DANIEL AND DORIS FOR ABOUT 4 YEARS SO
I CAN TELL YOU FACTS! Not hear say or assumptions. I
will even mention names that can be verified.
Let us not be distracted by this stunt that uncle Daniel
just pulled with the party and the gift. Let us focus on the
root of this matter. When we know the foundation, we
will know how to direct our anger and "insults".
I lived with Daniel & Doris because my sister was close
friends with aunty Doris and at that time I needed
accommodation in Lagos because my parents were based
in the south south part of Nigeria. I lived with them when
they were still on Salami Street in Mende, Maryland,
Lagos and even when they moved to their Idowu Akindele
Crescent residence in Magodo GRA, Lagos.
Daniel was a good man and the perfect husband to Doris
and he made her feel special in every way. He always
spoke to her nicely and was quick to defend her in many
ways. He supported her career and was determined to
make Doris rise to the top above her colleagues. He used
to say that a lot and felt she deserved to be at the top.
He would always say, "Dem Toyin, Funke, Dayo and co no
fine pass you. Dem nor act pass you. I have to position
you at the top". He did everything in his power to put her
her there. Daniel cannot come and boast to people,
especially me that he single handedly financed all of Doris'
films. HE CAN'T. He was responsible for getting the
finances but it was not HIS money entirely that did films
like ONITEMI and OMO IYA KAN. The marketer named
EPSALUM financed these films. I know that Daniel may
have added about 10%-20% of his cash at some point but
it was almost insignificant. The only film he did with his
money for her 100% was the film ASIRI. So if he ever
claims he did those films for her....quote me or ask
EPSALUM.
Doris was a good wife in her own right. She supported her
husband's passion to change the industry. She encouraged
him into making Yoruba films which he really didn't want
to get into. She enjoyed the fact that out of most of her
colleagues, she was the one that had a STEADY home
with a young and successful guy...ambitious man too. She
was the minister of finance. That's what Daniel used to
call her in the house because he always gave her all the
money to handle. He would bring money home an hand it
ALL over to her because she was efficient in money
management, unlike him who was a free giver and really
had no respect or regard for money! Whether he had
enough or not, he never did care so much about cash.
NEVER!
For the 4 years that I lived with them, not for ONE day did
I ever hear them raise their voices at each other in
arguments or quarrels. You would see them come out of
their bedroom sometimes with weird expressions and we
would all know they just fought but you would NEVER
hear Daniel raise his voice. NEVER!
One thing that the world never know was how much both
families NEVER wanted them to get married. Doris'
parents didn't like Daniel and Daniel's mother (in
particular) never liked Doris. She was against the
relationship from the beginning. She is known to be a
heavy prayer warrior and she said God was against the
marriage from scratch but Daniel never listened to his
mother.
Now, the HORRIBLE thing about Daniel is his stubbornness
and hard headed nature. He never listens to people and if
he believes in something, it would take a manifestation of
the 10 plagues in Egypt to change his mind. He is an
extremely stubborn and very determined person. Which
was one thing I hated about him. Yes he is nice, loving to
his family and friends but do not think for a minute that
you can convince him easily to change his mind when he
has already formed an opinion or decided on what he
wants to do.
He went on with the marriage. His family believed that
Doris trapped him with the baby but that is a big lie. I
have always disagreed with his mother on that note: I
respect the woman but Doris DID NOT trap Daniel with a
baby. They were already living together for 3 years before
David was born. So the woman should get her facts
straight. Her son (I believe) wanted the child as much as
Doris did.
I think along the line Uncle Daniel started to realize that in
many ways he and Aunty Doris were different. Much
different than he had thought. I believe Doris started to
relax on several things because she felt she had her
husband and he was going nowhere. He was always very
expressive about his love, she was the opposite. He would
run around the house and want to play love games with
her but she thought that was a waste of time and energy.
I personally experienced that with them on several
occasions. I guess Doris was more concerned about how
people perceived the relationship on the outside and not
how sweet it really was on the inside. She always wanted
pictures of them out there. Daniel was more concerned
about making his marrige very "Oyinbo-ish" because that's
who he has always been.
At some point I started to feel that Daniel started getting
tired of her excuses about being expressive with her
feelings even in the house. I think it suddenly dawned on
him that they were from two different worlds. Their
command of English was too far apart, their ideologies
were different, approach to situations, educational
background, family, upbringing, etc. I believe she just
stopped being his wife and turned herself into a MAMA in
the house. I remember him buying her all sorts of short
clothes and sexy outfits from the US. I thought they were
too daring but he didn't mind.
The marriage meltdown goes as far back as 2009. I know
that I heard them talking in hush tones a few times about
how sex was a problem in the marriage. I know for a fact
that Daniel used to joke about it around the house but
you could see he was serious in those jokes. He was
always clowning about how he had to fill forms like an
embassy to have sex with his wife. I know at some point
it was so bad that for almost 6 months they didn't do
anything. One thing I can tell you for a fact is that in the
course of their marriage, Daniel never cheated on Doris.
This was a known fact and EVERYONE knew how crazy he
was about his wife but really....is lack of sex enough to
ruin a marriage?
Some people Daniel confided in where his bosom friend
ALEX EFFIONG who was there when Daniel and Doris
hooked up originally. I know I overheard Daniel and Alex
talking about it in the editing studio at the BQ in Magodo.
Two other people I know for a fact that Daniel confided in
when he was in America where his friends BUKKY EBUN of
Nollywood View and 'LAMIDE DAVIES TALABI. You can ask
them because they are on Facebook. These two people
will tell you the whole story and how they tried to step in
to advice. Even Bukky came to the house in Magodo at
some point when she visited Nigeria. She came with KAHA
the singer. That's how I found out. He was desperate to
save his marriage that's why he took drastic steps to talk
to people.
I blame Doris in some ways because she just relaxed,
trusted that everything was OK and that her marriage
was going to last forever. In marriage, you gotta keep
working to make it good.
What annoyed Daniel the most was when he found out his
wife had a shop that he didn't even know about. He found
out from outsiders and when he confronted her, she said
she was trying to surprise him. That really pissed him off!
He was enraged! This was when he grabbed his son and
left! Daniel was a very, very patient man but I hate the
way he did it. He just left!
While everyone was celebrating the happy lives these
people shared, the marriage was already over!! They
were just patching things up! They kept holding on
because of "What people would say".
Doris also messed up in certain ways because she could
not fight to keep her man. She was too comfortable and
never imagined that Daniel would get frustrated and
leave. Not in this lifetime. I could see it in his eyes
everyday that he was just tired of struggling to make it
all work.
Look for people like ALIU SHORINMADE who was his
personal assistant for 5 years. These were the people who
knew Daniel very well and how he avoided women like a
plague. Let them tell you facts. Let them tell you truths.
Stella Damasus did not break up Doris Simeon's home.
That home was scattered long before Stella came into the
picture. I believe Daniel got the attention that he craved
so much at home in someone he considered a friend and
sparks flew.
When i read that Daniel moved to Abuja and was being
taken care of by a woman, I laughed because the people
saying this have no idea who Daniel is. He is so arrogant
in certain ways that he would rather die of hunger than
take a dime from any woman. HE IS THAT KIND OF MAN!
He will be too embarrassed to take a dime from any
woman. The dude is a workaholic....I give that to him.
Films, Fashion, Documentaries, Writing, Photography,
Music, Publishing, Visual Effects, name it! He is a master
at them all.
There is so much I know and if all these names I
mentioned here deny anything...they are lying! I can open
a big can of worms!
Look for ALIU and ask him to tell you about the girl
BLESSING that DORIS brought into their house that stayed
for almost 3 years. Daniel sent her away from the house
over 4 times and Doris kept bringing her back. Why?
Nobody knows! Can never be explained! He NEVER
WANTED THE GIRL IN THE HOUSE but she kept bringing
her back. We know that at some point Daniel discovered
that this girl was sexually abusing Daniel's son DAVID!
WHAT DID DORIS DO ABOUT IT
If all the parties involved think I am lying, let them
confront me! Let them deny it! Daniel cannot deny it!
Doris cannot Deny it! Aliu cannot deny it! They know the
truth!! There is a girl called SUNMISOLA that used to visit
the house some weekends then. She was close to
Doris...find out and ASK HER TOO!
All I can say is that Daniel and Doris deceived EVERYONE
for a long time about how good the marriage was even
when everything was BITTER and SOUR! So those hating
on Stella are really wasting their time because STELLA
DAMASUS DID NOT RUIN DORIS' MARRIAGE. Daniel and
Doris know what scattered them that led to their divorce
in 2011. If any of them claim I'm lying, let them challenge
me.
I am ... JMK.

Ehn.. ehn...are you serious? This is super story, a life of strife and sorrow....

What a world we live in! Link please...

:oWoow....dis is so unbelievable

Hmmmmm
Its a lesson to women, don't relax because u re now married to him!
I wish both parties the best in life