hi guys,
what do u do when your gal is always remembering his/her ex.perhaps secretly comparing you two?

You are not her ex and u can never be. So stop wasting ur time and hers. You ditch her and life continues.

dump that girl and move on son. most women are guilty of this.

Dump that girl/boy who carry TOO MUCH BAGGAGE, thinking ex constantly, or comparing two men/women! It calls INSECURE!!! It can leads to jealousy/possessive/clingy!!!

Move on finding someone else who loves who you are from the bottom of his/her heart!!!

bro,search yourself.u might just be doing something she does not like nd she is trying to tel u that the other guy does not do same.while on the other hand she might just be a fool and not know what she is doing is wrong.if u love her then correct her.

Dem plenty like that.
Shes probably using u as a spare tyre.
4get about her nooooooow

why is it that alot of pple on NL can't get past their exes??

move on, ur ex is ur past . . .face the present.

if the she and the "ex" relationship was so perfect and right, how come he is now an ex?

(bro,search yourself.u might just be doing something she does not like nd she is trying to tel u that the other guy does not do same.while on the other hand she might just be a fool and not know what she is doing is wrong.if u love her then correct her)

i believe it bt if u really love her, call her to order and if she's unrepentant, look else where.

I think most of us are guilty of that! Guys and babes, but the difference is how tactical you are about it. We are humans, so we tend to compare but it isnt right. Ex is ex and should forever remain ex, or dont you mind returning back to your waste?

Elia:

I think most of us are guilty of that! Guys and babes, but the difference is how tactical you are about it. We are humans, so we tend to compare but it isnt right. Ex is ex and should forever remain ex, or don't you mind returning back to your waste?

u see? you're type will keep playing tactical games till you run ur clock down

thanks guys,
i share in your views,just wanted to know if im in check

Sometimes when the guy is real good to her - then she does tend to compare.
Its not a good thing sha - but people are guilty of it.

If he was maybe even bad to her - she has to compare now and see if the same traits are found in the new one.

It usually isnt a good thing cause it only leads to wahala.

All i can say is comparison is the number one killer of relationship, sometimes we can't help it but it always doesnt go well.