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How A Guy Should Be Treated. by Nobody: 8:35pm On Apr 29, 2013
After reading about how to treat a lady earlier today, i deemed it fair to also let the ladies know how to treat a man. A man could date several ladies if you dont meet his needs. So below are ways i believe a guy would want to be treated.
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HOW A GUY SHOULD BE TREATED
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1. Give him his due!: If you are honest, you will
admit that you would never
stand being neglected or
unappreciated in any way! In
the same way, you should
know that your man needs to be given his due. All you need
to do is praise him and
appreciate him when he
deserves it! He will love you
for it.
2. A little bit of respect will
go a long way: A woman who does not
respect her man is a woman
who destroys her relationship
with her own two hands! He
needs to be shown respect. He
will hate the fact that you think so little of him if you
ignore him and treat him as
though he means nothing to
you. Don't belittle him and use
harsh words towards him.
Learn to respect and honor your man and you will be
respected back!
3. Don't judge him too much :No body will be able to stand
being criticized and judged for
every action. Not only does it
prove that you don't really
love and trust him, but if you
are being judgmental it will make him feel like he is
worthless. Besides, he does
not deserve to be judged all
the time. It just makes you
seem to be a person who
believes she knows everything and is always
right.
4. Don't expect too much
from him: If you do not expect too
much from him, then you will
help him to relax and be
himself. If he feels that he is
constantly being asked for
too much and that he has to perform in a particular way to
please you, he will end up
being under constant stress
and tension. Don't set yourself
up for disappointment by
expecting too much!
5. Be loyal to him: There is nothing so
heartwarming than knowing
that your woman is ready to
stand by you because she
believes in you. Loyalty to
your man will make him confident in himself. He will be
able to prove himself more
just knowing that you are
faithful and loyal to him
6. Give him the first place in
your life: A man can end up feeling
pretty neglected if his woman
is more attentive to other
people and things in her life.
Don't ignore your man's
needs.
7. Give him the first place in your life and he will feel
loved and cherished: He will
make sure that he keeps you
as happy in return.
8. Respect his space: If you understand his need for
space and "freedom" you will
be treating him right! He does
not want to feel tied down to
your apron strings. He wants
to be able to go out and enjoy himself with his buddies once
in a while without wondering
if you are going to pull a long
face about it!
9. Feed his ego: Men are raised by society to have
big egos, since they are
expected to do everything
for the people around
them, so feed their ego.
Tell your guy that he's the man and that you don't
know where you'd be
without him. Tell him how
amazing he is. Tell him he's
in control.
10. If you are sexually
active, don't hold him
up for it, if he wants to
hit it let him hit it : Let him love you mentally and
physically. Most guys (as
well as women) crave sex
at some point in their
relationships and if your
already having sex with him then continue.
*Surprise him sometimes.
Call him up or show up to
his house unexpectedly
and give it to him. (though i believe this point is for married folks. Just my opinion).
11. Trust him: A relationship is all about trust, so if he
hasn't ever cheated on you
before then don't keep
thinking he will now
because chances are that if
you do then he'll think "well she already thinks
I'm doing it now so i
might as well do it
anyway."
12. Appreciate all the
things he does for you: It doesn't matter whether
those things are big or
small, they are worth, at
the least, a thank you.
Re: How A Guy Should Be Treated. by Nobody: 8:36pm On Apr 29, 2013
Re: How A Guy Should Be Treated. by Nobody: 9:18pm On Apr 29, 2013
Ok!!!
Re: How A Guy Should Be Treated. by Nobody: 10:12pm On Apr 29, 2013
@mods, i hope this hits the front page. Thanks
Re: How A Guy Should Be Treated. by Scarpon(m): 10:38pm On Apr 29, 2013
it takes two things to treat me right :
good food
good sex
then will can work other stuffs out
Re: How A Guy Should Be Treated. by Nobody: 11:11pm On Apr 29, 2013
Scarpon: it takes two things to treat me right :
good food
good sex
then will can work other stuffs out
what about her support?
Re: How A Guy Should Be Treated. by Scarpon(m): 10:20am On Apr 30, 2013
idnoble135:
what about her support?
we can still work that one out

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