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Could My Dirty Past Be Haunting Me? Please Help Before I Go Crazy by Itulah(m): 2:08pm On Apr 30, 2013 |
Plz guys, A friend need your advice.... Please, I seriously need advice on this issue. It's been haunting me and tearing my conscience apart since I got married 5 years ago. After my university education, I did everything possible to ensure I got posted to Abuja and to National Assembly to be precise. I was a very pretty girl with all the right curves in the right places and I didn't want to waste that. I knew exactly what I wanted to do at the National Assembly I wanted to make money, lots of money and I knew that the quickest and easiest way was to date Senators. So, as a young, sèxy and extremely beautiful 23 year old graduate, I set out on my journey. At first, it was easy, I got to date senators and they spoilt me with a lot of money but before long, many more girls, even university girls were entering into the business and things began to dwindle. I spoke with one of my (co aristo) friends on how she still manages to have so many senators, white men and very rich politicians dating and spoiling her with so much money. She introduced me to a very expensive native doctor in the suburbs of Abuja who gave me a tiny string of beads to tie around my waist after some incantations. At first I didn't believe in it's power and reluctantly paid the N250k that I was charge but on my next outing, I was surprised at how much Baba's jazz seemed to have worked. In 2 years, I had acquired a piece of land in Abuja and developed it. I stayed in a nice rented apartment in Asokoro and drove a Prado Jeep. I had travelled to as many countries as I wanted. Whenever I was in Lagos, I was chauffeured by one of my 'uncles' drivers. In other words, I was a big Abuja girl by all standards and was living very large. Meanwhile, I never spent a kobo from my salary. I had abortions so many times that it became normal for me. I told myself that if it's still in the first trimester, it was just blood clots and nothing to feel bad about. Inshort, I killed my conscience. When I was 28, I met this really nice guy who incidentally was also from my home-town. We dated for a while and he proposed. I happily accepted. One week before my traditional wedding, my mother, who knew how I made so much money without discouraging me, died mysteriously. Before my wedding, I handed over all my aristos to my younger sister who was already 24 at the time and whom I'd introduced to the lucrative business, she had also gone to visit Baba. Now, it's been 5 years since I got married and I've never been pregnant. Instead, those aristos I dated keep visiting me in my dreams and having sèx with me. Sometime, I see the Baba pursuing me and at other times, I see babies laughing at me with money in their mouths. We've visited different hospital several time but the doctors keep saying we're both ok and we should just be patient. We've done so many tests and tried IVF both in Nigeria and in the US but they've never successful. I'm so worried, sometimes, I think I'm going crazy. I feel this has to do with my past which I've never disclosed to my husband who is a good Christian. Sometimes, I wish he'll marry another woman or at least get another woman pregnant. I really don't know what to do, I feel I'm being unfair to him. I really love my husband and will hate to hurt him. Do I disclose my dirty past to him and face his anger and disappointment or do I keep praying for the fruit of womb. Will it ever happen to me? I very much desire to have a child of my own. Please don't judge me, I'm not proud of my past and I know what I did was wrong. I already judge myself. All I want is genuine advice before I go crazy.
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Re: Could My Dirty Past Be Haunting Me? Please Help Before I Go Crazy by toshacer: 2:48pm On Apr 30, 2013 |
If this story has an iota of truth in it, then that your husband is nothing but a mumu, how can you have hidden your loud past from him and he sits there without knowing who he married. Look, you need deliverance, go to one church and go through their deliverance programme, deliverance from spirit husbands and deliverance from your evil past. You have done several abortion, could it be responsible? 1 Like |
Re: Could My Dirty Past Be Haunting Me? Please Help Before I Go Crazy by ujutonia: 2:59pm On Apr 30, 2013 |
if i should go by the gospel of our lord Jesus, he said that no matter how dark our sins are that he is ready to forgive us if only we confess our sin. My dear pray nd talk to ur pastor abt it he may now ask u to confess to ur hubby, though painful i believe he will forgive u nd both of u will join hands together nd agree. There is nothing impossible for lord to do. *peace* 1 Like |
Re: Could My Dirty Past Be Haunting Me? Please Help Before I Go Crazy by slimyem: 3:13pm On Apr 30, 2013 |
This story is a typical "once upon a aristo" one aimed at some moral lesson of some sort.We'd heard,watched and read too many versions of it. If its real however,i'd say open up to your husband,face your sins and live with the consequences thereof.You laid your bed. Next please!! 2 Likes |
Re: Could My Dirty Past Be Haunting Me? Please Help Before I Go Crazy by ednut1(m): 10:40pm On Apr 30, 2013 |
waste of mb,i hate fake stories jare 5 Likes |
Re: Could My Dirty Past Be Haunting Me? Please Help Before I Go Crazy by baby124: 11:54pm On Apr 30, 2013 |
Nollywood, what did we as a country do to deserve this All these funny plots and outrageous stories. Anyhow, God dey for us. As for trying to ritualize Ileke Idi, stop am o. I love those beads, so feminine and beautiful. It is just an adornment and has nothing to do with jazz. So keep away from my beloved Ileke. 2 Likes |
Re: Could My Dirty Past Be Haunting Me? Please Help Before I Go Crazy by Nobody: 6:26am On May 01, 2013 |
tomorrow some one will say girls brought up in the west are wild. poster try adoption or surrogacy |
Re: Could My Dirty Past Be Haunting Me? Please Help Before I Go Crazy by andyanders: 10:06am On May 01, 2013 |
You only needed deliverance. I have seen so many like you get delivered in Synagogue Church of All Nations. We all are sinners and no one should blame you. For now, all you needed is ask for forGiveness from God and not from man and the right place for you is SCOAN. God loves you so much and He will forgive you and also take your sister along.You can get Emmanuel TV installed in your home and your past will be over if you can get deliverance and you will get your own children as God will bless you. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Could My Dirty Past Be Haunting Me? Please Help Before I Go Crazy by passionate88: 8:31am On Sep 15, 2013 |
andyanders: You only needed deliverance. I have seen so many like you get delivered in Synagogue Church of All Nations.This is super storyyyyy, a life of strife and sorrowoooo. 1 Like |
Re: Could My Dirty Past Be Haunting Me? Please Help Before I Go Crazy by Kanwulia: 11:33am On Sep 15, 2013 |
First of all. . . .YOUR PAST HAS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO WITH YOUR PRESENT. You are only paranoid because YOU THINK YOU CANNOT HAVE A CHILD. So, it is the end of your world! Huh! I am sorry for you. You have been blessed with a rich, LUCRATIVE past. . .I WOULD BE PROUD OF IT! Your mother died mysteriously. . .too bad! MOVE ON!!! You must let the past be the past sweerie. . .NOTHING TO CONFESS. . .BUT TO YOUR GOD! If the BABA keeps chasing you in your dreams. . . ASK HIM IF YOU OWE HIM. . .THEN GIVE HIM A DIRTY SLAP! As for those aborted babies. . .if their mouths are opened with money in them. . .SNATCH OUT THE DAMN MONEY FROM THEIR STOOPID MOUTHS FOR IT IS YOURS. . .AND THEY ARE YOUR DEAD BABIES TOO. . .SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, SEND THEM BACK TO WHERE THEY BELONG. . . TO REST IN PIECES IN THE ABORTION PITS OF HEAVEN OR HELL. . . shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiior! Finally. . .if I were you, I WOULD NEVER HAVE MARRIED A CHRISTIAN. . . open your mouth. . .HE WILL JUDGE YOU, THEN NAIL YOUR AZZZE TO THE CROSS. . .EVEN WITH A MORE SORDID PAST THAN YOURS! Before YOU got married, YOU SHOULD HAVE REJECTED CHRISTIANITY IN TOTALITY. . . .BECAUSE, THE ONLY EMOTION YOU CAN EVER FEEL IS THE GUILT OF HYPOCRISY!!! YOU ARE A CHRISTIAN NOW. . .BUT YOU HAVE NO JOY, PEACE OR HAPPINESS. . . WHAT A RIP-OFF! WHY DID YOU EVEN BOTHER? YOU FOR KUKUMA CONTINUE YOUR ARISTO WORK JEJE KE. . . I PREFER YOU AS AN ARISTO BABE. . . YOU WERE MORE FUN. . .THIS CHRISTIAN WIFE SHYTE. . .NOR FIT YOU AT ALL!!!!! SEE ALL THE STRESS WEY YOU DEY GIVE YASELF BECAUSE OF HUSBAND AND PICKIN? SHEEEEEEEEEEEEEEESH!!! You asked not to be judged. . . YOU HAVE ALREADY JUDGED YOURSELF. I only have one question to ask you? WHAT THE PHOCK ARE YOU ASHAMED OF? Are you the first to have 10 abortions? EVEN THOSE WITH 20 PER YEAR. . . MARRIED TO MEN WHO HAVE DRIVEN THEIR EX-GIRL-FRIENDS TO 'ONYE-CHEMISTS' FOR 2000 ABORTIONS PER YEAR. . .OR MARRIED TO YEYE ABORTION DOCTORS WHO PERFORMED 100 PER DAY have become grandmothers and grandfathers. PLEASE, ENJOY YOUR LIFE. . .AND STOP BEING HARD ON YOURSELF. If you decide to 'confess' shyte. . . marry another woman for your husband. . . or allow some 'silly-looking GREMLINS of aborted ARISTO-babies' to torment your life. . . with one YEYE babalawo kpa-kpa. . . . YOUR BIZZNEZZZ. . .I NOR SEND! YEYE DEY BOOM! YOU WAN QUENCH BECAUSE OF 'FRUIT OF THE WOMB'?. . . .ONLY A CHRISTIAN WILL FORGET HIS OR HER BLESSINGS. . . TO CONCENTRATE ON WHAT HE OR SHE DOES NOT HAVE FOR SURE. . .RUBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBISH!!! BTW. . . IF YOU ARE FEELING SO 'BORN-AGAIN-ISH'. . . you berra RECALL YOUR SISTER FROM THE ARISTO BUSINESS. . . SO THAT UNA 'BABA' AND ALL YOUR DEAD BABIES WILL NOT PURSUE BOTH OF YOU WITH MENTAL ILLNESS TO UNTIMELY DEATHS. . . . .OUT OF THIS SWEEEEEET WORLD OF OURS! THAT SAME BABALAWO WEY HELLEP YOU GET ABUJA FLAT, PRADO JEEP AND HUSBAND. . .CAN GET YOU A CHILD TOO! Bottom line. . .BE TRUE TO YOURSELF ALWAYS. . .FOR WHAT IS YOURS IS YOURS. . .AND NO ONE CAN EVER TAKE THAT AWAY FROM YOU!!!! Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew!!!! 12 Likes |
Re: Could My Dirty Past Be Haunting Me? Please Help Before I Go Crazy by RoyalRoy(m): 11:40am On Sep 15, 2013 |
Kanwulia: Haaaaaa.....Kamwulia recommend someone to confess to GOD? Am I dreaming? Abi someone hacked ur account ni? I feel your post though....very funny but some hardcore truth are in there!! Nice One! 1 Like |
Re: Could My Dirty Past Be Haunting Me? Please Help Before I Go Crazy by Kanwulia: 11:47am On Sep 15, 2013 |
Royal Roy: ONLY BECAUSE IT IS HER FAITH. . .nor mine o! Tufiakwa! I can NEVER repent for a past I thoroughly enjoyed. . . . If she thinks her 'so-called' past is HEAVY-DUTY dirty. . .she should wait for the future as AN "AFRICAN, OKIJA-OGBONI, CHRISTIAN WIFE"! Mu ha ha ha ha ha NA WINCHCRAFT she go h-enter next. . .or go phock one pastor to givvam HOLY-GHOST BELLE! Arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrantus Nonsensicus! 6AM already! chai!!!! NA TELEVISION AND COOKING I DO ALL NIGHT. . . . Next thread please! |
Re: Could My Dirty Past Be Haunting Me? Please Help Before I Go Crazy by tpia5: 1:15pm On Sep 15, 2013 |
Eh, what do you want people to say. I did not share in the booty when you were cruising around town with your aristos and rolling in cash. Na your type dey open thread say somebody pikin dey disturb you for bank/train/bus/plane. Since you claim you hooked an allegedly christian husband, then pray. 1 Like |
Re: Could My Dirty Past Be Haunting Me? Please Help Before I Go Crazy by Nobody: 3:32pm On Sep 15, 2013 |
Royal Roy:RR leave kanwulia alone! Most times she always say d truth. Not like we, pretenders. 1 Like |
Re: Could My Dirty Past Be Haunting Me? Please Help Before I Go Crazy by Kanwulia: 6:39pm On Sep 15, 2013 |
yellowpawpaw: Amen!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Could My Dirty Past Be Haunting Me? Please Help Before I Go Crazy by octavian(m): 7:17am On Sep 16, 2013 |
Repent genuinely from your past mistakes, they are gone turn your attention to Jesus Christ and allow him into every area of your life.. He'll give you a new beginning, then go for Deliverance in a bible believing church. |
Re: Could My Dirty Past Be Haunting Me? Please Help Before I Go Crazy by osmosisi: 5:31pm On Sep 16, 2013 |
You can't eat your cake and have it. Infact you need deliverance serious one. |
Re: Could My Dirty Past Be Haunting Me? Please Help Before I Go Crazy by calaharry: 12:54pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
Itulah: Plz guys, A friend need your advice.... If you did all these real live,then you are the only one to start undoing wht you did. You have started well by owning up and even showed your pix if that is really you(you are indeed pretty which explains your very wild past). Next step is to return the charm the baba gave you or seek a strong genuine christian prophet to break the curse and detach your soul from the bondage of that charm you used to tie to your waist. Then, your nightmares will end and other ... |
Re: Could My Dirty Past Be Haunting Me? Please Help Before I Go Crazy by tpia1: 2:50pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
Unsafe sex. |
Re: Could My Dirty Past Be Haunting Me? Please Help Before I Go Crazy by SAMBARRY: 5:56pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
Nollywood tins
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Re: Could My Dirty Past Be Haunting Me? Please Help Before I Go Crazy by SAMBARRY: 6:00pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
Lmao why you dey take the matter personal na na home video tins I don't believe that sh1t Kanwulia: First of all. . . .YOUR PAST HAS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO WITH YOUR PRESENT. You are only paranoid because YOU THINK YOU CANNOT HAVE A CHILD. So, it is the end of your world! Huh! I am sorry for you.
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Re: Could My Dirty Past Be Haunting Me? Please Help Before I Go Crazy by Kanwulia: 1:11am On Aug 07, 2014 |
SAMBARRY: Lmao why you dey take the matter personal na Personal ke? See me see trobu o? Abeg post for ya sef o. Which wan consine moi? Na UNA go drag the old topic come back o. . . ABI NA YOU DEY FEEL 'PERSONAL' ABOUT AM? You know say H-ABORTION QUEENS WITH 'PERFORATED WOMBS-UTERUS-AND AN-US' FULL FOR NL KE! Muchechechechecheche Abi you hia say I go BABALAWO SHRINE GO DRINK OGOGORO TO TERMINATE PREGNANCY BEGIN DEY REPENT FOR NL? Tufiaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaakwa!When BABY FARM FULL ALL OVER NIGERIA? The post had too many holes to poke. . . . just having fun at the usual HYPOCRITICAL-RELIGIOUS-'phock-and-repent'-brigade squad's expense ke. Trust me. . .I were ever in her shoes. . .I would not give any MAN, WOMAN, GOD or Satan the slightest satisfaction of regret! I nor dey for that 'fruit of the womb' krazzzness CATEGORY for LOKITOTOS! Ta! Too bad. . . . 'GOD' WILL PROVIDE! Even if na 'EBOLA MONKEY' to suck breaaaaaaaaazzzts! Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Could My Dirty Past Be Haunting Me? Please Help Before I Go Crazy by Nobody: 1:32am On Aug 07, 2014 |
The ladies in the Op is well phucked and paying the price for stardom . There are best better way than nasty shortcuts , you just have to sacrifice some few days to get there !! She should confide in another spiritual being to absolved her of all the supporters of APC of the Abuja based Baba-alawo and the Pseudo-benefits that comes with it !! Kanwulia ? Confessing to her great christian husband is a big deal but required in getting fully absolved . She cheated an innocent soul unless the husband also had some dirts ..... Then they should all start anew !!! |
Re: Could My Dirty Past Be Haunting Me? Please Help Before I Go Crazy by Kanwulia: 1:39am On Aug 07, 2014 |
donroxy: Why make this a sordid past a big deal? It is her choice and her life. Not mine. If It we I. . . I will not be confessing JACK or JILL. Great CHRISTIAN HUSBAND indeed! I am not a CHRISTIAN. . . so BA BU TURENCHI! NL is not only for CHRISTIANS OR MUSLIMS, so carry your beliefs go one side. . . .I nor dey subscribe to those kinds of JAZZ! Like I stated. . .there are many other children out there that need parents if she can't wait to be blessed with any of hers! Life is too short for all this stress! Gosh! After the children come. . . na DIE-VORCE we go begin judge! Back to square one! Sheeeeeeeeeeeeeesh! Abeg carry the topic go. Tomorrow dem go tok say na 'personal' tory. Shior! The problem with AFRICANS in general is that they HAVE NEVER LEARNED TO LOVE THEMSELVES. But they spend time searching for objects of LOVE!. . . THEN DIE MISERABLY!!!! Pity! 1 Like |
Re: Could My Dirty Past Be Haunting Me? Please Help Before I Go Crazy by Nobody: 2:29am On Aug 07, 2014 |
Kanwulia:Her past was a big deal because it is affecting her present ! If you are the husband , you would be sharing in her fate too ! If u were her and u failed to confess Jack , then the problem aint gonna solve except it is simply anatomical problems which Doctors had disproved and that She is Anatomically and physiologically fit !! Now , her psycology(psyche) is suffering ? I'm not referring to you personally but The Husband in the Op so , think and communicate with me in turenchi abi babu ankali anymore ni Jazz gave her the wealth and now that she deviated from the essence of the Jazz, she is having Nigtmares of Baba chasing her around among other ills ..... So you still not subscribing , this is Africa hmmm not Obodo Oyinbo ! She can surely adopt as you said but One problem solved outa many she's currently battling .... The problems aint about child alone .... U may wanna read again ! The woman is trying to find true love based on truth and simple Honesty regardless of her past and it beats her mind that her past is affecting the only one love of her life whom she would never hurt ... Wether fake or true story , who knows whom google search can direct to this thread while suffering same challenges and searching for solution .... The world is now ONLINE and you never can tell whose problems you have solved and the life you have saved !! Kanwulia , do you ever encourage living on truth and uprightness or your own balance in life is all you cherished even when such impact others negatively ! Pitiful indeed !! ...... Oya come lets solve this riddle , seems u like challenge ! |
Re: Could My Dirty Past Be Haunting Me? Please Help Before I Go Crazy by tpia1: 2:38am On Aug 07, 2014 |
i'm surprised the op is not worried about her exposure and risky behaviour. she can always adopt a child, after all. I had abortions so many times that it became normal for me. if the story is true, why did she refuse to use any form of birth control during her runs? 1 Like |
Re: Could My Dirty Past Be Haunting Me? Please Help Before I Go Crazy by Kanwulia: 2:49am On Aug 07, 2014 |
donroxy: Her past was a big deal because it is affecting her present ! If you are the husband , you would be sharing in her fate too ! Na you get wahala here o! Please, address your concerns to the OP! Not interested. Thanks! *All these pseudo-IDs wey dey sneak in and out of threads to find wahala. . . .pretending to be 'debating' and 'shiiiiiiarrrring' opinions. From cyber bullying to 'ambushes'! Old games never die! Mtchew. Back to my TV jare* 1 Like |
Re: Could My Dirty Past Be Haunting Me? Please Help Before I Go Crazy by armyofone(m): 3:18am On Aug 07, 2014 |
Exactly, or follow the closer route of buying s.perm. They sell sp.erms now. She can buy that and do the needed. tpia1: i'm surprised the op is not worried about her exposure and risky behaviour. |
Re: Could My Dirty Past Be Haunting Me? Please Help Before I Go Crazy by tpia1: 4:07am On Aug 07, 2014 |
yes, seems like she's trying to put people on a guilt trip over the lifestyle she chose for herself personally. she had her fun, was rolling in money in the midst of poverty, and now she's complaining and wants others to feel bad on her behalf? a true runs girls would find solution to that problem, and if there's no solution, she'd just make one. the story is probably fake, one of the usual cook ups on nl. 1 Like |
Re: Could My Dirty Past Be Haunting Me? Please Help Before I Go Crazy by Nobody: 4:20am On Aug 07, 2014 |
Kanwulia:you are wise you know except for the pseudo-IDs .... My ID card is Original , mtcheww !! Fear of the unknown and recoiling saves ! Enjoy ur po'n ... #Bouncing off to look 4 trouble elsewhere , she aint gonna bulge ! |
Re: Could My Dirty Past Be Haunting Me? Please Help Before I Go Crazy by SAMBARRY: 9:10am On Aug 07, 2014 |
I feel you jare Kanwulia:
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Re: Could My Dirty Past Be Haunting Me? Please Help Before I Go Crazy by SAMBARRY: 9:12am On Aug 07, 2014 |
Gbam tpia1: yes, seems like she's trying to put people on a guilt trip over the lifestyle she chose for herself personally. |
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