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Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by MsZee(f): 9:52am On May 05, 2013 |
Some of us don't know this, but in the traditional African culture, newly married couples MUST present, to the awaiting members of the brides family, a 'proof' of the bride's virginity. How is this proof presented? When a newly married bride arrives @ the husband's house, on the day of the wedding/marriage, with the wedding party; comprising mostly of her family members, the husband takes her into a prepared room and bed covered with white sheet. There and then, they will consumate their marriage and present a proof of the bride's virginity to her family. Thinks about it 1 Like |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by fuckluv(f): 9:56am On May 05, 2013 |
salt 1: Another bizarre one from a person seeking relevance! Just when you think you've heard it all, another supposed apostle of new understanding springs up.That's all. |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by salt1: 10:00am On May 05, 2013 |
olarwarlay: Some people here need to learn the correct interpretation and comprehension of write-ups. The OP never asked anyone to do this, She started by saying "Just curious to know if anyone has done this". Not really! This is how error starts: from suggestion, to instruction, to law, to doctrine! We must guard this faith jealously 1 Like |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by Nobody: 10:09am On May 05, 2013 |
olarwarlay: Some people here need to learn the correct interpretation and comprehension of write-ups. The OP never asked anyone to do this, She started by saying "Just curious to know if anyone has done this". Most people are quick to comment w/o reading to understand. She said she's just curious. Op - I think its a gud idea only if the couple are virgins or never did the do before marriage. |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by Originalsly: 10:17am On May 05, 2013 |
Did the pastor wife practice what she is preaching? Go ask her and find out if the s.ex was about first born or lust. 1 Like |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by PAGAN9JA(m): 10:18am On May 05, 2013 |
holuhsheun: shut up. |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by toskut(m): 10:49am On May 05, 2013 |
Seriously, is this biblical or your Pastor's wife just feels like saying something? |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by zivility: 11:20am On May 05, 2013 |
Ideocracy and phsycophancy - soon they will officially start offering d brides to d pastors (juju men) for d first night for him enta n penetrate n banish n pump b4 d husband for prosperos married life. |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by Nobody: 11:27am On May 05, 2013 |
kambo: how about giving the whole month off as first fruit. I was about to agree with you until I read the bolded. Please don't lead people astray by saying things you know nothing about. Why don't you give verses that support the bolded. God asked the Israelites to remove their jewelries so he could decide what to do with them and the bible never recorded anywhere that God asked them to wear it again. Read also Jer 4:30 Even you pastor Adeboye's wife and daughter don't wear gold and they are not deeper life members. Be careful what you spit out. If you lack wisdom, ask of the Lord. Note: Am not a deeper lifer and have never bn to deeper life |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by Teewills(m): 11:30am On May 05, 2013 |
Whatever. Don't tweak religion to suit ur purpose. Being intimate on the first night of marriage n abstaining from it are aws created by men... and has notting to do with God. God is not human and therefore cannot be bribed. The best thing you can do to receive favor at all times is to pray, keep his commandments and study his word! 2 Likes |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by Reference(m): 11:36am On May 05, 2013 |
salt 1: Exactly. A lot of wierd doctrines and practices found in churches started this way; following after the thoughts and customs of men. That's why Jesus came; to set us free, absolutely free to focus on God not feelings. 1 Like |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by Nobody: 11:44am On May 05, 2013 |
How many times a day do I have to sit down and praise God? What's the actual point of having a church wedding if I can spend the whole night singing and praying? God is not deaf, He heard my prayers in the church, he heard my prayers at the registry, He doesn't need me to pray 24/7 before He hears my prayer. All these Christians and their unnecessary suggestions. 1 Like |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by Abbott(m): 12:39pm On May 05, 2013 |
kambo: how about giving the whole month off as first fruit. Dude, you vex gannn! Calm down. |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by Ishilove: 12:50pm On May 05, 2013 |
Reference:Thanks. will do ![]() |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by COvo(m): 1:01pm On May 05, 2013 |
Not having sex that night won't make you the holiest couples in the world,you guys are married so not having sex is not gonna be any different from having it. |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by Agbele1(m): 1:02pm On May 05, 2013 |
Pls i dnt kno y we 9ja try 2b 2 spirtual,given God ur weddin 9t as 1st fruits is personal,if my wif nd i as d strenght 2 show luv dat so be it,if no strenght we relax,bt d place of thanks 2 God wil nt b ignor daj 9t ;DPls i dnt kno y we 9ja try 2b 2 spirtual,given God ur weddin 9t as 1st fruits is personal,if my wif nd i as d strenght 2 show luv dat so be it,if no strenght we relax,bt d place of thanks 2 God wil nt b ignor daj 9t |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by Agbele1(m): 1:04pm On May 05, 2013 |
Pls i dnt kno y we 9ja try 2b 2 spirtual,given God ur weddin 9t as 1st fruits is personal,if my wif nd i as d strenght 2 show luv dat so be it,if no strenght we relax,bt d place of thanks 2 God wil nt b ignor dat 9t |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by BodyKiss(m): 1:15pm On May 05, 2013 |
Some people just make this our God look like some kind of oracle you worship in a specific way. |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by Nobody: 1:25pm On May 05, 2013 |
striktlymi:Bro/sis no vex, That is how it starts,small time it will become d norm.tell me,all these junks preached in churches did they just sprout out overnight? I lv xtianity very much and I'm passionate about it but these pple r yeyerising it!its only few men of God that dis madness goin on didn't touch and I pray it will not touch them. No wonder others make mockery of us! 1 Like |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by debony(m): 1:31pm On May 05, 2013 |
yellowpawpaw: Bullshit!pple should stop misinterpretin d bible.I wonder if d apostles were to be alive today,dey will be constantly askin what dey did wrong by writin those wonderful scrolls.d bible said abstinence,I did that and one hediot is tellin me to continue as 1st fruit sacrifice! nigerians and adding so much drama into d word of God!as I do after my weddin is not her biz! Period!(Sorry,I forgot she is a woman of God,maybe d Holy spirit told her). I think d writer said it is not mandatory. Y are u cryin foul over it? 1 Like |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by Strongbest(m): 1:34pm On May 05, 2013 |
alfaman2: Me and my wife didn't consummate on our wedding night. But that's alright because we have been having Satanic sex for years previously.Most honest Man I'v eva seen on nailand! I lyk ya sincerity bro. I hate pretenderz alot... |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by j4jj: 1:34pm On May 05, 2013 |
PAGAN 9JA: I would hv called u a fool bt jst because today is Sunday I wouldn't ... ![]() Nothing! I repeat nothing can seperate me from d love of Jesus christ... |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by minute(f): 1:35pm On May 05, 2013 |
Something is very very wrong if you need to ask that question. If you can't get away from that church, please don't raise your children that way. 1 Like |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by kambo(m): 1:45pm On May 05, 2013 |
Kamsy10:anoda traditionalist has come online. Jeremiah 4vs30 "...though thou clothest thyself with crimson, though thou deckest thee with ornaments of gold, though thou rentests thy face with painting, in vain shall thou make thyself fair,...". With ur educated mind this means gold,crimson,make up is evil? . Rev 1 vs 13 - jesus wears " a robe reachg down to his feet and a GOLDEN SASH around his chest"! - so much for not wearg gold. Gold is d asphalt of heaven! Job 42v10: job was given a piece of silver and a GOLD RING - the jews were gold wearg pple. Mark 7 vs 15 "nothing outside a man can make him unclean.....rather it is wat comes out of a man that makes him unclean " vs 21 "for within out of a man's heart, comes ...... Vs 23: all these evils come from INSIDE and make him unclean". Not d gold u are wearg! Did adeboye write the bible? If he choses not to use gold or silver i shd imitate him? Are u to live by ur pastors word or God's word! .. Use wisdom, todays christianity is crippled with so many worthless traditions that counter God's word. God put gold , diamond, silver, rubies 4 his children to enjoy. Not for satan company. Gen2vs11,12: get ur thnkg straight man. |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by supaeagles(m): 3:19pm On May 05, 2013 |
lola.luv:No vex abeg, was just a joke. |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by supaeagles(m): 3:29pm On May 05, 2013 |
Policewoman: We women can do without sex so I don't personally see not consumating my marriage as a sacrifice. How about donating that wedding gift (car, fridge, Home theatre, Jewelry, e.t.c) to God (or to the poor) as 1st fruit of marriage? That makes more sense to me.Fantastic idea - here's my double 'like' for your post. Not only is this spiritually a great deed but a fellow human in need has been helped too. 1 Like |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by swiftycool(m): 4:00pm On May 05, 2013 |
Yvete: Just curious to know if anyone has done this? Oh ok I get it, the fruits of marriage is sex ![]() |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by ajufinz(m): 5:43pm On May 05, 2013 |
alfaman2: Me and my wife didn't consummate on our wedding night. But that's alright because we have been having Satanic sex for years previously. Satan most be so proud of this statement...? |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by joe4christ(m): 5:44pm On May 05, 2013 |
kambo: how about giving the whole month off as first fruit. Now, you sound like lucifer himself. Whose side are u actually on ![]() You sound deluded! |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by Foxie: 6:01pm On May 05, 2013 |
femiero: Why not give your first day ay=t your new job as offering to God by singing praise and worship at work all day long? The first day of marriage is not a fruit!! You pple keep bringing extraneous materials into Christianity!!!!!!lol |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by Nobody: 6:21pm On May 05, 2013 |
As far as the scriptures go,there is no basis for it.This idea is borne out of pure human reasoning-at best,it is false humility. The idea that a couple practices celibacy on the wedding night does not necessarily mean there would be a marriage cultured with a bed of roses. If anything,it is what they do before and after the wedding that is consequential.In other words,wedding is a hyphen between the unmarried state and the married state. Anybody can have a wedding,but marriage is not guaranteed for everyone.For some,it's just a fleeting illusion. Whether a couple has sex or not on the wedding night is not an issue in the dynamics of marriage. |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by Nobody: 6:34pm On May 05, 2013 |
Niqqa what? Nna enh! Scatter the damn thing. Bumble clot rude bwuay cant wait. What bumbo clot fuckery is this?
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