as 4 me am a very principled person like my friends would say but i think the guy should give me a break on our first day and help me settle and get more comfortable with him.sometimes i might like him enough to want to but i'll still respect one who'll cut me some slack the first time though some people might say go with the flow but a good girl doesnt rush things.or what do u feel guys??

maybe, maybe not, depends on how much im attrated to the guy

no i wont,i gotta know him good frist

Depends.

On: Who he is, how I feel and if the timings right.

let's see would i <YES>
b4 y'all kill me on my innocent,
first he's gotta cute to ask me out,
2nd i would kiss him as a goodbye or what else?

Naaah!

just to find out how he kisses, might be a determinant on whether I would like to see him again or not

naughty naughty thelma

HELL TO THA NO! you have to make the guy wait to know is he is really worth it.

@ thelma
i support you on that

yeap! i would!

this topic has already been created!

All of you females who say you would kiss the guy on your first date, are the kind of girls who cant stick to one man and keep embarrasing other girls. How desperate could you possibily be??

bumbaby:

All of you females who say you would kiss the guy on your first date, are the kind of girls who can't stick to one man and keep embarrasing other girls. How desperate could you possibily be??

bumbaby,
noone asked for ur views on other females, so kissing now makes a girl desperate, pls step out of the stone age baby, jus cause u wanna wait till u r old and wrinkly and when ur juices down there turn to peak powder doesnt mean everygirl shud do the same.

bluenubian, why are you so on the defensive, my statement was referring to girls with no self-control or class, kissing does not make you classless but since you are so bitter about it, you might be one.

why am i so defensive?
hmm i guess u forgot ur post, maybe think next time b4 u direct ur comment to jus NOONE, i guess u where too chicken to mention names, yes i took it personally. u never said "to all the girls with no selfcontrol" , u said "to all u females who would kiss a guy on the first date", and im one of them, thank u. since u r not standing by what u said maybe u need to rephrase ur previous comment

kissing guys on the first date is a clear sign of "LACK OF SELF-CONTROL". Obviously you seem not to be able to control your hormones on the first date, i dont even want to know what you'd do by the second date. Gurl!!!! its called virtue, more like showing your womans worth, and as far as i am concerned, you ooze with lack of self-esteem. Maybe you think there wont be a second date if you dont drool over his lips, One Advice sweetie, "Build your self control, respect and definately self esteem"

u don't need to advice me, i bet u prolly 14 or something, don't worry girl, if u want to save yourself for that dream husband, thats u girl aint nothing wrong with that, hate to argue with u, u can call me a girl with no virtue, or call me whatever u want ,surly i know what i think of maself, i wont say what i think of u cause u prolly still a baby, don't want to make you run home and cry to daddy, ok girlie girl.

PS: its jus a kiss, if u think a guy will think of u less because u kissed him then that guy doesnt need to be with u, you're prolly one of those that thinks kissing will prolly give u AIDS, chei

You keep Contradicting yourself, "we r talking about a kiss, not sex', Its left to individuals to decide whether or not to "as u said", "keep themselves for their dream man", That isnt the issue at hand, the issue at hand is helping folks like u realise that "appearing cheap aint the way to go", after a solid foundation has been formed, u can explore ur fantasies with the guy that will then b reffered to as "Your man", before then, I consider ur act of kissing dudes up and down d place a sure smothering of not just ur image, but also the image of those who identify with you. Clearly, from the mails we've sent back and forth, i'm pretty sure everyone in here can detect who is the child amongst us. If u let me, i cud teach u a thing or two about handling guys, 4 now, u r a novice and u need some tutoring, "Stop kissing boys up and down oh!!!!"

u don't even have the least clue of what you're talking about, i can't even believe im doing this with u, who said anythin about kissing dudes up and down, when u grow up, then come and talk to me, i feel like a 4th grader is trying to teach me how to live my life, go to your room and stay there and reflect on everything u've said. you're a nobody to me, jus a lil kid that needs attention.
we talking about kissing a guy on the first date, u talking about, selfcontrol, hormones, kissing boys up and down, like u gaonna die if u kiss a guy,  hmm  girly girl, grow up, u the one that believe your brothers when they tell u they are virgins, and he's supposed to be a doctor yeah right, you're sooooo naive. if they are really virgins._{then i think your bro might jus be gay, hmm jus a thot}.

Hey do u know that everytime u kiss u exchange a minimum of 3000 colonies of bacteria.If the partner has poor dental hygeine it can be 1000 colonies.Just a thought

Tell her blue. This ain't no nursery for little girls.

Ok first of all my brothers are not gay, they just respect the girls they are with and you probably do not know anything about guys respecting girls because of you LOW self-esteem. All am saying is every girl deserves to be respected so you have to chill with kissing every guy that comes your way if not they wont respect you.

aight miss piggy, go back to the sty u jus crawled out off, cause noone is ready for ur cock and bull, this na old tori

if i'm feeling him then y not ?? kissing isn't fxckin. and i no i wont go further than a kiss because omogenaija has self control aka sexual control

of course you wont go further than a kiss but sincerely would you kiss a guy on the first date? Doesnt that say something bad about people who do such things. The guy might just think you are desperate? or dont you want to wait to see if he is really worth it? And bluenabian or watever you call yourself if you cant have a mature argument pls dont post any reply.

@bum bum

who da heck put my name in your mouth, take my name out of your godforsaking mouth

u ever wonder why u never kissed a guy is because no one wants to kiss you because of how ugly the thing sittin on your neck looks like

bumbaby:

of course you wont go further than a kiss but sincerely would you kiss a guy on the first date? Doesnt that say something bad about people who do such things. The guy might just think you are desperate? or don't you want to wait to see if he is really worth it? And bluenabian or watever you call yourself if you can't have a mature argument please don't post any reply.

i dont think it says anything bad about people who kiss on the first date. and if the guy feels i'm desparate good 4 him . all he has to do is tell me and i wont ever see him again. it wont be like he hurt my feelings by him thinking i'm desparate. anyways actually i really dont care how it makes me look in others eyes as long as i'm happy with myself its all good.

@omoge
girl u said it right, why shud you care what people think about you, jus have fun, do good, live life to the fullest ,

bluenubian:

@bum bum

who da heck put my name in your mouth, take my name out of your godforsaking mouth

u ever wonder why u never kissed a guy is because no one wants to kiss you because of how ugly the thing sittin on your neck looks like

LMAO damn , i'm gonna have to steal that line aunty blue. wat u just said is a classic

bluenubian:

@bum bum

u ever wonder why u never kissed a guy is because no one wants to kiss you because of how ugly the thing sittin on your neck looks like

ok, dats d best punch line from a girl ever.

@bum bum

u must be really into the stone age thingy. oops, u gotta come out girl dont wait till d archeologists find u before u opt out. why u dissing other girls because of their views. its what dey wanna do and dey dont give 2 fu*ks what u think so just keep your thoughts to yourself will ya. peace.

lol. bluenabian you are one very funny person. OK first of all stick to the topic you only do that because you know am right and yet you call me a child. Well i know the guys seem to be supporting you now but when the time to get married comes, you are the kind they would runaway from because every guy needs a girl with class and good upbring girl you lack both.

u really need to put a sock in it. what r u a saint or a nun. u talk like u so perfect. if you're so perfect what d hell are u doing online. go preach or something. damn