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Are You Married To An Older Lady...? by Tgirl4real(f): 8:14pm On May 06, 2013 |
Are you married to an older lady or a younger guy? Do u know anyone, male or female in such a union? Please share your experience, challenges and thoughts on the issue... |
Re: Are You Married To An Older Lady...? by coogar: 8:46pm On May 06, 2013 |
Tgirl4real: Are you married to an older lady or a younger guy? i would have loved to marry an older woman but ex-boyfriends, ex-husbands, children, ex-step-children, pending divorces, business pressures, financial obligations, and debts can often be part of the package. 2 Likes |
Re: Are You Married To An Older Lady...? by Tgirl4real(f): 8:51pm On May 06, 2013 |
coogar: This can also be d case with a younger lady, just that the chances are slimmer. And we also have older women that haven't been married b4. U are right sha. |
Re: Are You Married To An Older Lady...? by coogar: 8:57pm On May 06, 2013 |
Tgirl4real: older women that haven't been married before must have ex-boyfriends in double digits. you can throw in 3-5 abortions into the equation as well and plenty of other vices. of course, older women have their pros too. they have wealth of experience. they have been there and don't that - plus they cannot be bovvered about the petty nonsense that makes younger women crazy. 2 Likes |
Re: Are You Married To An Older Lady...? by Nobody: 9:01pm On May 06, 2013 |
I would have loved to marry someone older too but I trust my mum she wouldn't agree. I love my mum soo mucch so I won't want to hurt her. 1 Like |
Re: Are You Married To An Older Lady...? by coogar: 9:04pm On May 06, 2013 |
teeo: I would have loved to marry someone older too but I trust my mum she wouldn't agree. I love my mum soo mucch so I won't want to hurt her. if you have reasons to marry one, go for it. as for me, i made the decision not to marry one after analysing the pros and cons. i really think your mum should play no part in your choice of partner. 6 Likes |
Re: Are You Married To An Older Lady...? by Nobody: 9:04pm On May 06, 2013 |
coogar: The fact that petty nonsense don't make them crazy is a Good point but older women get their own issues ooo. |
Re: Are You Married To An Older Lady...? by coogar: 9:09pm On May 06, 2013 |
teeo: of course - their own issues exist. they have enough baggage to sink the titanic, they have the tendency to be controlling and there's always a risk that the moral majority would disapprove such a relationship. |
Re: Are You Married To An Older Lady...? by Nobody: 9:09pm On May 06, 2013 |
coogar: Not when ur mum has been the only one there for u in the past 16years. Anyway it also wouldn't make sense when your older after years in marriage and ur wife begins too look like your mother. Guess u know women age faster. 1 Like |
Re: Are You Married To An Older Lady...? by Tgirl4real(f): 9:15pm On May 06, 2013 |
coogar: Well...True! I was about asking about d advantages but u already answered. What exactly is the problem u have with the ex-boyfriends? ![]() Most young gals now change BFs like they change weave o. Lol Moreover, d older d guy gets, these things might not matter as long as the lady in question is still very ok medically. 3 Likes |
Re: Are You Married To An Older Lady...? by coogar: 9:16pm On May 06, 2013 |
teeo: puzzling......
![]() Tgirl4real: okafor's law!
tell me about it.......
but people's health tend to deteriorate with old age.... 2 Likes |
Re: Are You Married To An Older Lady...? by Tgirl4real(f): 9:18pm On May 06, 2013 |
teeo: I would have loved to marry someone older too but I trust my mum she wouldn't agree. I love my mum soo mucch so I won't want to hurt her. The older u become, the more independent you become in decision making. |
Re: Are You Married To An Older Lady...? by Tgirl4real(f): 9:20pm On May 06, 2013 |
coogar: That last line shouldn't be an issue really. It's not like u gonna go announce to the whole world that you are way younger than her. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Are You Married To An Older Lady...? by Nobody: 9:23pm On May 06, 2013 |
Tgirl4real: the thing would have expanded beyond its elastic limits ![]() But to honest most of these ladies that change guys everytime end up with noone serious at the end of the day. They now turn to churches looking for fresh lads ti poach... 1 Like |
Re: Are You Married To An Older Lady...? by coogar: 9:26pm On May 06, 2013 |
Tgirl4real: people would know - unless the age gap is not too significant. i dated an older woman when i was in the uni and she was 8 years older. the difference was very glaring because she was working for a big insurance firm while i was busy with drawing sheets. teeo: don't get it twisted..... bad babes marry quicker than the saintly chics. they have the trickery to trap oblivious young men into marriage. they are street smart and they usually go for what they want unlike the sheltered girls that wait for good things to come. 10 Likes |
Re: Are You Married To An Older Lady...? by Tgirl4real(f): 9:35pm On May 06, 2013 |
coogar: Well, I know 2 couples like that. D first is just 3years gap between them. U can never know if they don't tell you. They have been married for more than 15 years now and growing strong. The second should have like 5 years between them and it's obvious the wife is older. She is also more matured. The guy tries to cover up for his immaturity/insecurity by shutting her down. They have been married for around 4 years now. I would say they are doing ok sha. It's in this light I would like us to discuss. Is the man always the man in such a relationship? Does the guy go an extra mile to affirm his authority? Are the women always at a disadvantage? And so on... 1 Like |
Re: Are You Married To An Older Lady...? by coogar: 9:44pm On May 06, 2013 |
Tgirl4real: 3 years difference can still fall into the same age group.
hmmmm....
i think it depends on the individual. some men allow such to overwhelm them whilst some see age as a mere number. some women can be of help by not making their older status a big issue.
this where the man's self-confidence must come into play. if i am married to a woman of 3000 years of age i would still be the authority in the relationship. i am the one with the balls not her. ![]()
nature puts women at a disadvantage from the onset. nothing can change that. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Are You Married To An Older Lady...? by biolabee(m): 9:59pm On May 06, 2013 |
coogar: damn i feel this gif! i never had the opportunity to date up. But I guess older women are like seasoned wine,mature and experienced 1 Like |
Re: Are You Married To An Older Lady...? by coogar: 10:01pm On May 06, 2013 |
biolabee: the opportunity abounds...... older women are readily available - no frills, no thrills, no time wasting!
exactly - all they need from you is the attention! |
Re: Are You Married To An Older Lady...? by biolabee(m): 10:02pm On May 06, 2013 |
teeo: who sai Na dem go do goody goody for mother in law make she like them Na dem dey get belle quick to show MIL say nothing spoil They poke well and cook wella So whats the mans problem... carry GOOOO 1 Like |
Re: Are You Married To An Older Lady...? by biolabee(m): 10:02pm On May 06, 2013 |
coogar:er..ermm, no thanks ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Are You Married To An Older Lady...? by Tgirl4real(f): 10:14pm On May 06, 2013 |
biolabee: Lolz U no just get liver. ![]() biolabee: Coogar is just wicked with his gif(s). ![]() |
Re: Are You Married To An Older Lady...? by biolabee(m): 10:28pm On May 06, 2013 |
yes o.. i love my liverless life if the woman come gbadusky you nko and she doesnt let go sabotaging your afesona/fiance/wife because she has the means or is empowered atuu.... i no wan wahala for my small head o... |
Re: Are You Married To An Older Lady...? by coogar: 10:32pm On May 06, 2013 |
biolabee: yes o.. i love my liverless life an older woman is not likely to hold too tight or go psycho on you. she's not like the average teenager. |
Re: Are You Married To An Older Lady...? by biolabee(m): 10:51pm On May 06, 2013 |
coogar: if she sees you as last chance salon before she becomes a lonely cat lady e no go easy to escape oo ![]() |
Re: Are You Married To An Older Lady...? by coogar: 11:04pm On May 06, 2013 |
biolabee: i doubt it....... most of them don't date for marriage - they just want sex and they know such relationships are dead-end relationships. the likelihood of a 40 year-old woman marrying a 22 year-old dude is slim. 2 Likes |
Re: Are You Married To An Older Lady...? by biolabee(m): 11:32pm On May 06, 2013 |
coogar: What of 48 to 30.. Doesn't look so bad anymore ![]() |
Re: Are You Married To An Older Lady...? by Nobody: 11:48pm On May 06, 2013 |
First you say this; (which implies that you don't like to be controlled) coogar: then you come here to say that you will control whoever you are in a relationship with coogar: So why do you want to subject another human being to something you wouldn't want for yourself ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Are You Married To An Older Lady...? by Nobody: 11:50pm On May 06, 2013 |
coogar: nature puts women at a disadvantage from the onset.Please explain this statement. coogar: you just need to scan through all the religions and see where they place women.Apart from religions what other reasons do you have for believing that women are below men? |
Re: Are You Married To An Older Lady...? by coogar: 11:52pm On May 06, 2013 |
fellis: First you say this; (which implies that you don't like to be controlled) i am the man in the relationship.....deal with it! 1 Like |
Re: Are You Married To An Older Lady...? by Nobody: 11:58pm On May 06, 2013 |
coogar:You want to be 'the man' even when being 'the man' implies carrying out actions that hurt other people? I.e controlling them and subjecting them to your will? 1 Like |
Re: Are You Married To An Older Lady...? by coogar: 11:59pm On May 06, 2013 |
fellis: who says being a man hurts other people? are you living in a parallel universe? |
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