As long as i can wait,it may be years days months whenever

men has no control over sex?

Talking from experience. . . . .

By Anduai,
You have to be careful. Guys have needs, they really do. Some guys want sex once a week while some will not need it till thy kingdom come. we are made differently. Must unmarried guys in their early 2oties need sex often. if u don't want to loose this guy why not ask him what his needs are. Good luck

Needlelady:

Yep and most women I know. Women derive a special joy from watching great men on their knees begging for kitten.

Urhhhh!. . . .I will never in ma life. . . .beg for sex
What for? . . . . .besides, there are many fishes in the ocean. . . .(Ti omo dudu ba ko mi . . .Ma ya fi pupa ropo) Means if i get dumped by a black chick. . . .I'm sure u can finish the rest. . as omo ijesha). . . .its as simple as that.

uspry1:

That is why most men walk away look for matured experienced woman who understand male perspective without criticizing or judging them. NO DRAMA, NO MATERISTIC, NO GOLD DIGGERS!

Needlelady:


Wouldn't it be better to ask her why she did that instead of walking away? That means that you view her as your sex object and not your better half.

Pennywise:

I agree with you here Uspry. But matured and experienced woman often times have too many issues.

That is why most men walk away look for matured experienced woman who understand male perspective without criticizing or judging them. NO DRAMA, NO MATERISTIC, NO GOLD DIGGERS!

There are MANY PROVERBS 31 MEN out there humbly to seek for wives!

Celibacy Is The Way! It's Working For Me!

Don't ever trust them men even your husband.

Needlelady:

I disagree,  most Nigerian men are not interested in your perspective, they are only interested in how fresh your body is and how they can insert their winnie  in your  slot machine , that's why they waste their years chasing college girls when their dutiful wife is at home putting their lives together. They only think of perspective when thy need a wife(whome they'll eventually abandon sexless at home while chasing honey bunnies in the universities and high schools) pathetic!

Needlelady:


Do your thing girl, that's the safest way to live now. Don't ever trust them men even your husband.

Needlelady:

Can you get a handful even in this nairaland? No. Men will be men.

ibkaye:

Celibacy Is The Way! It's Working For Me!

uspry1:

Hell no. . . not in this Nairaland to find PROVERBS 31 men- - -NO WAY!.

Needlelady:

I disagree,  most Nigerian men are not interested in your perspective, they are only interested in how fresh your body is and how they can insert their winnie  in your  slot machine , that's why they waste their years chasing college girls when their dutiful wife is at home putting their lives together. They only think of perspective when thy need a wife(whome they'll eventually abandon sexless at home while chasing honey bunnies in the universities and high schools) pathetic!

oziomatv:

  I think their abandoned sexless wives applied this God's great law law of SEX EVERY 2 YEARS?  

who's changing my post that not what I wrote.

I honestly have never met "these nigerian men" you talk about. Those i know are faithful committed men willing to make sacrifices for their wives.
Men will look outside not because they can't get enough sex but because the woman inside is failing in her duty to keep the marriage well oiled.\

Just to reiterate, marriage is more than sex. Very important - if the girl doesnt stimulate you sexually then no point dating her, but you're still willing to wait as long as she wants before you broach the issue of sex.  

I think needlelady has serious problems with relationships.

ibkaye:

Celibacy Is The Way! It's Working For Me!

If you don't run back to your corner and do your homework now!! Celibacy ko celebrate ni! wetin you know sef

Na wa o. Madam Funmi don start early this Sunday morning!! well, not early sha!!

wetin you know sef

@Needlelady

I disagreed with you like as @4Him has said it all! You picked WRONG NIGERIAN GUYS who are SEX-MANIC and moochers!!! Sad for you not know THE DIFFERENCE!