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My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by comfy4eva(f): 10:02am On Apr 21, 2008 |
Mine is different, he does not like people cooking for him neither does he eat when he come visiting at my place. i keep asking y but he keeps giving excuses that it wudnt be as nice as he wants!( or maybe something else is involved, what do you think?) ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by SENATORJD(m): 11:20am On Apr 21, 2008 |
food posion concious ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by Nobody: 11:38am On Apr 21, 2008 |
how long have u 2 been together? |
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by realdemi(f): 11:48am On Apr 21, 2008 |
OMO IBO: You took the words right out of my mouth. Pro'lly a week! |
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by oghogho4: 11:50am On Apr 21, 2008 |
gud question. how long hav u guys been goin out? der seems 2 b smthin fishin smwhere. |
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by savesoul(m): 11:58am On Apr 21, 2008 |
The poor Guy is Scared, so u wont put Love portion ![]() Chie!! African Mentality! ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by oYaTo(m): 12:01pm On Apr 21, 2008 |
How long have you known each otha? It's hard to gobble sumthin' up unless you're absolutely sure you can trust the source ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by Adaugo01(f): 12:05pm On Apr 21, 2008 |
savesoul: i second u! real african mentality |
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by kalmebad(f): 12:08pm On Apr 21, 2008 |
@ Poster Just like someone has asked, how long have u known this guy? The reason i know could be fear of love portion, though not so sure if people still go that extra mile Secondly, your guy is yet to build enough trust in you, am sure once he conquers that fear of insecurity, things might turn out better. Let him open up more. |
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by savesoul(m): 12:18pm On Apr 21, 2008 |
oYaTo: It took 6 months b4 i allowed my girlfriend cook for me, not that i am scared, but i don't want her to get the impression that she is dating a food athirst |
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by amaechijay: 12:43pm On Apr 21, 2008 |
The guy is simply being meticulous. He wants to fall in love with his heart not his head. Do u blame him? Just chill ! I guess he is still getting to now u so, give him some time to come around Otherwise, he wants to keep u on ur toes in other to keep u trying to win him completely, lol! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by menix(m): 12:44pm On Apr 21, 2008 |
Hmmmmm, Everybody saying same, @poster, The guy in question might just be like a friend. He hardly eat wat someone else cooks cous he has a sensitive stomach, he prefers eating wat he prepared with his own hand. May be dat could be his reason. |
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by dee02(m): 12:50pm On Apr 21, 2008 |
your cooking may be atrocious or maybe hez scared u might poison him! |
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by Nobody: 12:52pm On Apr 21, 2008 |
love portion, lol |
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by Caradona(f): 1:04pm On Apr 21, 2008 |
I Never cook for my Boyfriend whenever he comes to my place cause I know he comes to have Sex with me and nothing else, full stop. |
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by Riskie(f): 1:08pm On Apr 21, 2008 |
Wow you're brutally honest. ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by pappilo(m): 1:15pm On Apr 21, 2008 |
It is either your food no sweet or the guy dey fear say you go don wash obrima water put inside vegetable for am |
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by princeonx: 1:17pm On Apr 21, 2008 |
Come to think of it, Is love portion an African mentality or fact that happen in Africa? I see alot of sh**t like that in naija movies! If you guys just started dating eachother, I won't blame the guy. |
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by SENATORJD(m): 1:37pm On Apr 21, 2008 |
it aint just in africa and aint an african tingy dude ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by Busta(f): 1:43pm On Apr 21, 2008 |
Caradona: lol . . . not time for food. just straight to the main deal! |
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by bawomolo(m): 2:03pm On Apr 21, 2008 |
I Never cook for my Boyfriend whenever he comes to my place you are not really a girlfriend, Americans refer to u as a bootycall, jumpoff, cumbucket etc. |
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by kayzee(m): 2:05pm On Apr 21, 2008 |
@ Caradona I Never cook for my Boyfriend whenever he comes to my place cause I know he comes to have Sex with me and nothing else, full stop. I dig ur style o, I wouldn't mind a pretty friend of urs with ur kind of "orientation", Me too now dey chop any how o, you have to fear the gals of today they are capable of doing what you cant imagine an educated person with western mentality |
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by amaechijay: 2:14pm On Apr 21, 2008 |
l guess it was way to early to get to that level. U shd have allowed him to long for a meal prepared by u before making that move. l allow guys to even get close crying for it before venturing to prepare a meal for them. lt doesn't come easy with me o. |
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by dreamnaira(m): 2:16pm On Apr 21, 2008 |
If the guy in question is my type of person, baby don't border yourself, when he understands you well he will surely eat. Sometimes it's how your been brought up. I doesn't like eating outside, even eating hotels, but that is not to say im afraid of anytime. It shouldn't border you unless there is something else you have in mind |
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by oluwdashmi(f): 2:21pm On Apr 21, 2008 |
I Never cook for my Boyfriend whenever he comes to my place If all he comes for is sex and you give him always, it defines the agreement between the 2 of u. A relationship that is defined 4 marriage purpose will not be like that because he would like 2 know more of what you can do as a wife (not only on bed). Although you were very blunt but not interesting. |
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by bobbteeth: 2:49pm On Apr 21, 2008 |
I guess, the guy is just trying to be conscious of food poison but then if you are very sure that, the food is poison free. good!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I think, the guy is like me. I don't like gal that doesn't know how to prepare delicious food. |
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by nossycheek(f): 2:52pm On Apr 21, 2008 |
If he doesn't want to eat your food, pls allow him to cook for you then. It works both ways since he is afraid of love portion and you are not scared of falling in love, eat what he presents to you! |
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by tngtech(m): 2:56pm On Apr 21, 2008 |
emmeno: correct. and besides how long have u been together? |
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by dee02(m): 3:18pm On Apr 21, 2008 |
Caradona: Wow NASTY! U just open up and let him plough into you just like that?! Well at least he cooks u up under so u don't need to worry about cooking for him And after cooking u up under, he fills ur bucket up to the brim so u can keep going till he comes around to lay his GALA inside u again! |
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by SENATORJD(m): 3:48pm On Apr 21, 2008 |
dee02:wetin this guy just yarn ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by opokonwa(m): 4:30pm On Apr 21, 2008 |
Well, I have another perspective from all yours. If your boyfriend was afraid of eating love portion, he wouldn't bother dating you in the 1st place. He would probably just be having sex with you, your meetings will simply be ocassional and you will just be one of his flings. But in this scenario, you paint the picture that you both are dating; so love portion to me is out of the picture. You are his girlfriend; abi no be so? There are certain occult male groups that do not eat food cooked by women; because it either violates their oath or deceases their powers. Spiritual things are deep my friend. I wouldn't know whether your boyfriend belongs to one but if he does, he will probably never eat your food no matter how good a cook you are. Shine your eye girl! ![]() ![]() ![]() And don't ever confront him on this. |
Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by Chookym(m): 4:44pm On Apr 21, 2008 |
Dont worry. He is just being cautious . Be patient with him . Dont hurry things up , With time he will build enough trust to eat without blinking an eye. Wetin enter belle no dey cure easily ooo. ![]() 1 Like |
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