i met this girl one time and she really likes me. she is decent and very romantic. wat drew me closer was the fact that she told me she was a virgin. one day she came to my crib , one thing led to another (she has always bin coming to my crib, not the first time) and i found out that my kini was on the freeway no traffic in her jombo!

i finished the POLONGO(body no be wood) and confronted her on why she lied to me. She said her uncle tried raping her when she was younger(15YRS OLD) by fingering her but he didnot succeed. i am really confused. i love this girl but i cannot tell if she is lying or even has something in her closet.

NAIRALANDERS!!!!!!!!!!! ABEG HELP ME OHHHHHHHHH! wat should i do?

You don't love her. You only liked the fact that she was a virgin and you'd be first to have sex with like it is a competition. I am happy you were disappointed but I feel bad for her because of what her uncle did and allowing you even touch her.

you cant get into her heart to see if she is lying or not bt since you say you love her,4get whether she lied or not.carry on wit her bt tk time to see if she is the lying type den frm there u might be able to draw ur conclusion.virginity does not prove a girl is responsible.she might not be a virgin bt have wat sm virgins dont have.wat matters is discipline

if you love her, what has her being a virgin got to do with it.

virgin, virgin, virgin. i am begining to get tired of this shit.

well my guy many more girls will come into ur life and use your head if you dont widen what u desire in women.

make her ur woman if you have feelings for her. forget about the funny stories she is telling you, because you are pushing her to lie to you. the truth will definitely come out when the time comes

uncle nee, unkle kooo, she just wanted your sympathy. i am sure she got it.

if u love her continue wt her,but i doubt dat story about uncle fingering her,the thing sef dey d girl body,she has willingly tasted d fruit b4

if you love her, what has her being a virgin got to do with it.

That's not the point, the girl lied. Why should he even trust the rape story?

Sometimes, the hymen could be broken without having a penetration (either sex or with fingers). This happens is ladies who are very active physically eg sportwoman or of such sort. So this ma explain the reason she told you she was a virgin. On the other hand, she may have deceived you as ladies could do anything to get a cool husband material. But after al said, you could still know if the hymen had been broken but never had sex because she would feel a slight disconfort the first time having sex. Do not be ruled by your emotions for virgins. As you were not a virgin when you met her so why bother,

watever, sounds childish

o boy fucc that girl again then send her packing. she lied about being a virgin. hich kind rubbish be that?

@kayemjay

What I figured out here is that you're FUND of her, And due to her status in the first place it makes you more desirable. you're a guy, you need to slow your tempo and le things work out on your side. I mean be what you wanna be at the right time and be nobody nor imitate any.

deola1:

watever, sounds childish

i concur

Another virginity thread!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Did they use hymens to swear for you people?  
A man who has been round the block and back has the gall to look forward to and expect virginity ?
I'm really tired of this whole virginity thing. It has been over thrashed. I hereby close this meaningless thread. I have been tortured enough abeg.  


Thread closed.

Are you disappointed that she lied or that she wasn't a virgin??

Rebellious:

You don't love her. You only liked the fact that she was a virgin and you'd be first to have sex with like it is a competition. I am happy you were disappointed but I feel bad for her because of what her uncle did and allowing you even touch her.

I agree.

Rebellious:

You don't love her. You only liked the fact that she was a virgin and you'd be first to have sex with like it is a competition. I am happy you were disappointed but I feel bad for her because of what her uncle did and allowing you even touch her.

Spot on.

looks like the ladies are getting all worked up on this thread! fashi joooo1 guys please tell me something reasonable. OMO IBO thanks. but should i really?
jenna kadry i appreciaate ur gist.

all of una wey dey yarn okpas . . _{. WAAAAAAAAAAKKKAAAAAAAAA!!!!!}

kayemjay:

looks like the ladies are getting all worked up on this thread! fashi joooo1 guys please tell me something reasonable. OMO IBO thanks. but should i really?
jenna kadry i appreciaate your gist.

all of una wey dey yarn okpas . . _{. WAAAAAAAAAAKKKAAAAAAAAA!!!!!}

if u wanted to mean, then do it.
i no understand why these girls dey lie about their virginity

jenna kadry i appreciaate your gist.

my pleasure

as for me i hate babes dat lie o! i ll ja. that is a lie. if she is really in love with u she go don tell u. i know babes dat tell guys dat they are not virgins and dey are virgins. why she no fit yan say she no be virgin. afterall she no be virgin cos she has lost it no matter the condition. a girl that lies ones will keep on lieing.

In all my years I’ve never met a Naija girl who had sex for the first time willingly. They were all raped. Na so?