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Save That Marriage, Beware Of Evils Of Social Networking by marowolo: 2:41pm On May 13, 2013 |
ADVICE TO YOUNG COUPLES ..SAVE THAT MARRIAGE, BEWARE OF EVILS OF SOCIAL NETWORKING.. Dating & Relationships Facts Cheating doesn't mean you have to kiss, meet or Be Intimate with a third party. Once you find yourself deleting texts and e-mails so your partner wont see them, you are already there. Its like a cancer it develops slowly but you will surely feel the pain when its fully grown . The funny thing is most of the times, people try to find what they already have because they don't just appreciate what they have. Remember the grass may look green on the other side but what if you could just invest time and energy by watering the one that you have. Wouldn't the world be a better place to be today? Can you imagine how strong your relationship would be if you would not waste your energy, resources and time on things that have no future . Secret, small, hidden relationships are like ticks they suck all the good things out of your marriage or relationship and makes it unstable. it will take you more effort to repair what you would have damaged and the sad thing is sometimes those wounds might never heal. Now with these so called social networks (Facebook, Skype, Whatsapp, Gtalk, iChat and many other platforms)- so many marriages and relationships are being damaged behind the scenes. Have you ever calculated the time that you invest in these social networks? What if that time can be used to promote those areas that you are struggling? Evaluate what the gain and losses that you have at the end of the day because in every conversation its either you are gaining or you are losing? Stop sexting and flirting with those people- Yes you know them. Imagine your partner (Husband /wife) reading the messages that you receive, would he/she reply with a free heart on your behalf ? If the answer is NO, then that is an unhealthy chat / talk that you are having Stop it before its too late. Some mistakes will cost you for a life time yet you could have just avoid them by just ignoring that chick / dude who now loves you because you have been turned into a better 'asset' by your current partner. Where were they when you were struggling? Please may you all get rid of all the parasitic relationships that will always be a treat to your relationships' healthy. Fight for what is right and never give up on the one you Love. Yes l said health because you have to know and take care of it just like your body. Love it as you love your body, maintain it as you maintain your skin, teeth, hair and nails. True love means hard-work. Do not apply if you are not prepared to take the risks. Stay out for a relationship if you still want to fool around (but that has its own price) because a relationship calls for great deal of commitment. Most of the young people think that they will start being faithful when they get married- Word of Advise (You can never teach an old dog new tricks) That is why they are so many broken familes because people think they still have time to adjust. Start practicing being true to yourself when no one is watching because that's who you really are. Besides its by nature that what goes around comes around - Problems will come, but learn how to deal with them and dont run away or look for alternatives. Do you think the person that you got out of a secret affair will stop just because you are now with her/ him. Beware of evils of Net working.. God Bless. What do you do if you caught your wife or husband dating His or Her Ex on Facebook ? |
Re: Save That Marriage, Beware Of Evils Of Social Networking by dmcdad: 3:59pm On May 13, 2013 |
This is a nice piece. More power to your elbow. |
Re: Save That Marriage, Beware Of Evils Of Social Networking by WorldwarIII: 7:56pm On May 13, 2013 |
Op, thanks for the words of caution.. I think it's high time I deleted these time consuming, blood draining and money wasting leeches from my fb contacts and completely unsubscribe from other sites ! Imagine, the other time I was caught btw buying my sweetheart a befitting birthday gift and buying brazillian hair for a chick! ...now, I'm done... Im sorry Sweetheart, I'm turning a new leaf. |
Re: Save That Marriage, Beware Of Evils Of Social Networking by Nobody: 8:43pm On May 13, 2013 |
This is a wonderful write-up. In fact, more relationships and marriages will fail in ten years from now as a result of social network websites, and more couples would cheat on their partners via social network engagement...everyone needs to tread carefully cos this social thing seem to have more demerits than the merits we are witnessing presently. Kudos @OP, voted up and will share it |
Re: Save That Marriage, Beware Of Evils Of Social Networking by Nobody: 9:26pm On May 13, 2013 |
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Re: Save That Marriage, Beware Of Evils Of Social Networking by Myself2(m): 2:01pm On May 17, 2013 |
@OP Why didnt you put the source you copied this good piece from,beware of plagiarism |
Re: Save That Marriage, Beware Of Evils Of Social Networking by Nobody: 2:15pm On May 17, 2013 |
More reasons why couples should desist from pass wording. if you know your spouse might read your alerts before you, there are things you can never be caught doing. |
Re: Save That Marriage, Beware Of Evils Of Social Networking by Youngpo413: 3:00pm On May 17, 2013 |
Good one |
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