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Re: -- by nonjebose(m): 7:22pm On May 13, 2013 |
My partner tried a few of this with until I read the riot act! She tried putting me down severally,hardly appreciative |
Re: -- by Nobody: 7:30pm On May 13, 2013 |
Some Folks who're not Assertive enough would resort to Physical assault Just to make a Point, that doesnt mean they intend Abusing their partner emotionally. We're humans with diverging traits and temperaments, some actions could Just, I repeat, Could just not be what u felt it was directed for. |
Re: -- by DaMayor1: 7:54pm On May 13, 2013 |
Dear Op, your assessment is slightly skewed. It is obvious you have not considered some social characteristics of human nature; emotions and the concept of love. Your assessment is a straight jacket scientific suit that doesn't fit into most of human society where emotions and other things play a part. Much as you may disagree, love which is a strong emotion, constrains you to make sacrifices. Therefore what you may considers as abuse is seen as sacrifice by another. It is no news that most women in love are more emotional and more likely to make these type of sacrifices. Now i in no way condone any form of abuse, but fear is an integral part of love and respect in any society. This is visible in the family, school, military, society and even religion. So Op, good as your post is (and i strongly encourage people to ask themselves your questions), it is not applicable in all cases that where one or more of these arise, an outright case of abuse exists. Cheers :-) |
Re: -- by nonjebose(m): 7:57pm On May 13, 2013 |
Emotional abuse applies to both male and female.Guys may add physical abuse,but ladies are leaders of the act itself. |
Re: -- by Pelummy(f): 8:18pm On May 13, 2013 |
yuzedo:plate or bottle? OLODO |
Re: -- by jaytime(m): 8:49pm On May 13, 2013 |
To me o, there is nothing like 21 signs. There is only 1 sign: if you are emotionally abused, you are emotionally abused; period. 1 Like |
Re: -- by Ifecoded(m): 10:10pm On May 13, 2013 |
kulyie: gbaaagauuunnndont u undastand wen sum1 z joking? U lukin bookish ![]() |
Re: -- by Ifecoded(m): 10:15pm On May 13, 2013 |
Da Mayor: Dear Op, your assessment is slightly skewed. It is obvious you have not considered some social characteristics of human nature; emotions and the concept of love. Your assessment is a straight jacket scientific suit that doesn't fit into most of human society where emotions and other things play a part. Much as you may disagree, love which is a strong emotion, constrains you to make sacrifices. Therefore what you may considers as abuse is seen as sacrifice by another.Ciaman, u no kum geh any like eeyah ![]() 1 Like |
Re: -- by Ifecoded(m): 10:15pm On May 13, 2013 |
Da Mayor: Dear Op, your assessment is slightly skewed. It is obvious you have not considered some social characteristics of human nature; emotions and the concept of love. Your assessment is a straight jacket scientific suit that doesn't fit into most of human society where emotions and other things play a part. Much as you may disagree, love which is a strong emotion, constrains you to make sacrifices. Therefore what you may considers as abuse is seen as sacrifice by another.Ciaman, u no kum geh any like eeyah ![]() |
Re: -- by alphaconde(m): 11:53pm On May 13, 2013 |
Am guilty of some, but I sweAr am not abusive When people argue or quarell with me I walk away or keep quiet, how does that make someone emotionally abusive. Fork ur 21 normal things people in relationship do |
Re: -- by optimax(m): 11:57pm On May 13, 2013 |
noted |
Re: -- by optimax(m): 11:58pm On May 13, 2013 |
duly noted |
Re: -- by Nobody: 12:47am On May 14, 2013 |
nonjebose: My partner tried a few of this with until I read the riot act! She tried putting me down severally,hardly appreciative Are you still with this person? |
Re: -- by kumulus(m): 1:31am On May 14, 2013 |
BabaAlabi: Loolz..You call it emotional abuse some girls call it LOVE. Emotional Violation Of Liberty.... |
Re: -- by Nobody: 5:48am On May 14, 2013 |
israel007: classic signs. the entire list is on point but the above esp. stood out to me. what they show is that the emotional abuser has extreme levels of insecurity and self esteem issues. |
Re: -- by Nobody: 5:50am On May 14, 2013 |
El Guapo: Some Folks who're not Assertive enough would resort to Physical assault Just to make a Point, that doesnt mean they intend Abusing their partner emotionally. ![]() ![]() you really believe that? ![]() |
Re: -- by yajoe(m): 7:04am On May 14, 2013 |
nbright: what if it's not the entire 21 commandments?.Even 1 is enuf 2 mak u feel abused emotionally ![]() |
Re: -- by brownyjeez: 7:41am On May 14, 2013 |
So true |
Re: -- by clintwine(m): 10:17am On May 14, 2013 |
I guess if this Is what women term emotionally abusive, then I guess we all have been abused and are continuously abused. |
Re: -- by blackbeau1(f): 10:39am On May 14, 2013 |
nice post. |
Re: -- by maxisfield(f): 11:16am On May 14, 2013 |
All ds signs no dey finish sef ![]() ![]() |
Re: -- by Cipriani(m): 7:58pm On May 14, 2013 |
OP, You wasted a hell lot of my time reading this garbage. We all have been emotionally abused and it is not with spouses and partners alone. Even a girl you try to toast(woo) may emotional abuse you and emotionally beat you senseless. At work, I have been emotionally abused, so it is a way of life. To hell with that 21 rubbish point |
Re: -- by clintwine(m): 1:12pm On May 15, 2013 |
Cipriani: OP, Abeg tell them o, it seems in this modern age of everybody claiming ITK, they are just causing more harm than good. In life activities, most things are based on emotions, how else do you think advertisers appeal to you to buy products you don't use, do you sue them for abuse, since they took advantage of your emotions? Or the girl who gets into a fight with you when you say : am not buying you a blackberry? Or the wife that compares you to all her friends bf and husbands It is highly unfortunate , that there are many gullible people who would read this and take it to heart hence raising dust where there should not be one. In life, you win some and loose some, you compromise for peace to reign, and sacrifice if you love someone , cos no one is perfect And always try to treat someone the way you expect to be treated |
Re: -- by israel007: 11:59am On May 19, 2013 |
Cipriani: OP, The fact that it's become a way of life for YOU doesn't mean it's acceptable. Good luck being abused |
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