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What Should I Do In This Situation? by Omonjoe(m): 6:42pm On May 13, 2013
Meeting a girl and telling her your intention she said she has a boyfriend but when asked if they are serious she said she doesn't know if the guy į̸̸̨§ serious but she can't tell M̶̲̥̅Ƹ to waite. I actually love this girl and want to be serious with her. What should I do? И̲̮̣̥̅̊ό̲̣̣̣̥ insult please!

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Re: What Should I Do In This Situation? by Nobody: 6:56pm On May 13, 2013
The way the lady spoke, and the way you also spoke, it seems both of u are kids. Grow up and get a mature lady. I believe both of you are still in SS3.

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Re: What Should I Do In This Situation? by Monicasque(f): 6:59pm On May 13, 2013
DUDE the answer if in your question. sometimes i even wonder if some people think. she said you must wait ddn't she? so you wait nigga. good things are worth waiting for and if you can not wait it means you were actually not that serous. patience is a virtue
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation? by Monicasque(f): 7:00pm On May 13, 2013
Yomii: The way the lady spoke, and the way you also spoke, it seems both of u are kids. Grow up and get a mature lady. I believe both of you are still in SS3.


Which kids fool? and what are you? are you an old man? mxm

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Re: What Should I Do In This Situation? by 25omega(m): 7:11pm On May 13, 2013
omonjoe

when someone tells you they are in a relationship you should walk away. If she says she has a boyfriend but she is not sure he is serious, she is letting you know there is a chance for you.

What you want to think about is if and when you get with her, would she talk to other boys the way she is talking to you? or would she tell them to get lost because she agreed to date you.

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Re: What Should I Do In This Situation? by Cashio(m): 7:52pm On May 13, 2013
Persistence....
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation? by Omonjoe(m): 8:37pm On May 13, 2013
Thanks dude....d thing į̸̸̨§ dat she į̸̸̨§ not telling M̶̲̥̅Ƹ to waite but she gives M̶̲̥̅Ƹ attention.
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation? by Adufaye(m): 8:53pm On May 13, 2013
U gat do undo.......
Bside y nt leave her alone.....hw wil u feel if sum1 is doin wt u doin 2 ur gf.....d way u doin 2 her!
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation? by SLIDEwaxie(m): 11:17pm On May 13, 2013
Monicasque: DUDE the answer if in your question. sometimes i even wonder if some people think. she said you must wait ddn't she? so you wait nigga. good things are worth waiting for and if you can not wait it means you were actually not that serous. patience is a virtue
MUMU!! And after he don wait finish, and they start dating, another guy go approach her and se go say 'wait' for dt one too until she frustrate him out again!
Wait nigga ko, wait dude ni!
MUMU version 2.0
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation? by Mynd44: 7:26am On May 14, 2013
Monicasque: DUDE the answer if in your question. sometimes i even wonder if some people think. she said you must wait ddn't she? so you wait nigga. good things are worth waiting for and if you can not wait it means you were actually not that serous. patience is a virtue
Wait? For how long. Note she did not say they have issues ooo. She just said she is not sure the guy is serious with her.

Are you sure the girl is not simply using him as a spare and might even have other spares? How is he sure if he waits she will come around? And even if she comes around, what's the assurance she won't do the same to him?
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation? by dmcdad: 8:48am On May 14, 2013
Guy, lock up! Must u wait to be relegated to the dreaded friend zone for ages before u realise that delay is dangerous?

If you notice she just wanna fool you with that, I would say hit her hard and she would give in but if not, check the next girl on your list.

Remember! waiting is never an option.
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation? by Mynd44: 10:46am On May 14, 2013
^^
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation? by Monicasque(f): 12:35pm On May 14, 2013
Mynd_44:
Wait? For how long. Note she did not say they have issues ooo. She just said she is not sure the guy is serious with her.

Are you sure the girl is not simply using him as a spare and might even have other spares? How is he sure if he waits she will come around? And even if she comes around, what's the assurance she won't do the same to him?

most ladies normally ask guys to wait because they need to understand their lives first. and half of the time she will eventually choose the patient one
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation? by Mynd44: 12:46pm On May 14, 2013
Monicasque:

most ladies normally ask guys to wait because they need to understand their lives first. and half of the time she will eventually choose the patient one
Half the time, ladies need to sort out their lives and not wait until they want to make a decisiom to sort it out.

If your life is complicated, make it easy. E hard?
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation? by Monicasque(f): 12:51pm On May 14, 2013
Mynd_44:
Half the time, ladies need to sort out their lives and not wait until they want to make a decisiom to sort it out.

If your life is complicated, make it easy. E hard?

which question are you askng me?
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation? by dmcdad: 12:56pm On May 14, 2013
Mynd_44:
Half the time, ladies need to sort out their lives and not wait until they want to make a decisiom to sort it out.

If your life is complicated, make it easy. E hard?
What does she even mean by sort out their lives? Ohh! I get it. Their lives are always complicated as a result of them being confused all the time.. Is that it?
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation? by Omonjoe(m): 12:57pm On May 14, 2013
Thank U̶̲̥̅̊ all 4 ur comments...d thing į̸̸̨§ dat SHE Į̸̸̨§ NOT ASKING ME TO WAIT jst dat she said she does not know if her present relationship į̸̸̨§ a serious one and she does give M̶̲̥̅Ƹ attention
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation? by Nnekacherry: 12:59pm On May 14, 2013
Omonjoe: Thanks dude....d thing į̸̸̨§ dat she į̸̸̨§ not telling M̶̲̥̅Ƹ to waite but she gives M̶̲̥̅Ƹ attention.

Dude write properly..
Na only you get bb?? Or you just started using one recently??
Look at what you wrote, now everybody is misunderstanding you..
@Topic
She told you not to wait because she doesn't want to waste your time..
And the attention she is giving you shows that she likes you..
So the choice is now yours to make..
Whether to stay or to walk away...
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation? by Monicasque(f): 1:31pm On May 14, 2013
okay okay okay we get it. lv her alone then. go get a new girl
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation? by Mynd44: 1:40pm On May 14, 2013
dmcdad:
What does she even mean by sort out their lives? Ohh! I get it. Their lives are always complicated as a result of them being confused all the time.. Is that it?
You dey mind am? They always come up with concepts that make little sense
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation? by Kslib(m): 1:56pm On May 14, 2013
Omonjoe: Meeting a girl and telling her your intention she said she has a boyfriend but when asked if they are serious she said she doesn't know if the guy is serious but she can't tell M̶̲̥̅Ƹ to waite. I actually love this girl and want to be serious with her. What should I do? И̲̮̣̥̅̊ό̲̣̣̣̥ insult please!
**shaking my head*** @op,be careful,this girl is too wise for you and you sound like a MUGU(no offense)... WOMEN!! WOMEN!! WOMEN!! How many times did i call you? You people are just confused abi na greedy i go call am.. Why not just tell the guy to back off cos you have a bf or tell him you are interested.. You like tasting both worlds..
99.9999% of women have "ASSISTING BOYFRIEND" and "ACTING BOYFRIEND" but from the way the OP reasons,he aint even qualified to be an assiting boyfriend perhaps he might end up being an EMERGENCY BOYFRIEND.....
Oga wake up!!! I just feel sorry for guys who ladies use to wipe their asss!!!
Re: What Should I Do In This Situation? by Nnekacherry: 2:16pm On May 14, 2013
Kslib:
**shaking my head*** @op,be careful,this girl is too wise for you and you sound like a MUGU(no offense)... WOMEN!! WOMEN!! WOMEN!! How many times did i call you? You people are just confused abi na greedy i go call am.. Why not just tell the guy to back off cos you have a bf or tell him you are interested.. You like tasting both worlds..
99.9999% of women have "ASSISTING BOYFRIEND" and "ACTING BOYFRIEND" but from the way the OP reasons,he aint even qualified to be an assiting boyfriend perhaps he might end up being an EMERGENCY BOYFRIEND.....
Oga wake up!!! I just feel sorry for guys who ladies use to wipe their asss!!!

Hahahahaha
Oh my days!!!
Please be nice to the OP na...

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