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Important to have a relationship with your kids. Giving birth does not make you a parent, make time for your kids. As busy as you sometimes get, you still have to ensure you stay connected to them . Living in the same house or clothing/feeding them does not make you a parent. Let them know that they are a very important part of your existence and their value to you is priceless. As a parent, you should be "a safe haven" for your children, the one they run to if anything ails them.

Pay attention if/when they start acting out, it's a common sign of abuse which could even be from their father/mother, siblings or other people in the neighborhood. Abused people who don't get/have help eventually become a nuisance to society because their psychological wounds never heal.

Who looks after your child is also very important. Some day home providers are there for the money only

Frankly, it is the duty of everyone, whether you have kids or not, to try to prevent peeeedophilia