jolly@t.a.s:
i'm 30 years old woman from atagba ogun state married to a 35years old man from abeokuta.....not to write much, we are both living in spain. i've been so honest to him even when he was away for some months before i later joined him,and i have never caught him in the act of humanising.
i did all i could including giving him everything dat has to do with me(passwords,account details and every other information) just for him to trust me. but i noticed cos of the informations that were giving to him before we got married about nigerian ladies. he lost trust in me.
1.he uses every little gist we make against me when we have misunderstanding
2. because of me, he dsrespet my family member.
3. we are both working hard to make a better future, using the same account,though i have the accounts informations but he never allowed me to send money to my families back at home and he does almost every 2,2 months
4. he wont allow me to call my people when he is not there. and for this reason he asked me to buy a local line.
5. he goes angry when any of my family members calls me from home. wanting to know why they are calling.
6. when i was pregnant with our first daughter, he beats me althrough the 9month pains i had and he made me work extra at home. even when i was in pains, he never cared.
7. now, he want me to have another baby.
pls, i need your help. i found it difficult to feel happy when i see him coming home. he never allowed me to make friends, i met a nigerian lady some weeks back whom i explained my self to, she gave me 3.advice
1. divorce and have peace of the mind in other to feel relax before re choosing another man
2. tell him you need to go back to nigeria even if he want you to be pregnant
3. stay with him and pray for his change while you enjoy the pains
please what do i do? i love him despite the way he is treating me, i still love him. i dont want to divorce him, i dnt want to live in nigeria as a single mother. and yet this pain is too much...............

Double27: If you are sure about your love for him pls don't leave. I believe there is a reason for the change in attitude towards you.
Humbly talk to him about the whole situation and ask him what you did wrong. Ask forgiveness. Don't rush him if he refuses to talk.
Get someone he listens to to interceed for you. I believe he will he change.
Wish you the best.

dasparrow:

@Bolded

You are a hypocrite. You believe he will change? Do you know her husband personally? How are you so sure he will change? Tomorrow now, if he kills her, you will come back here with your hypocritical self and start asking why she chose to remain in an abusive marriage and why she did not choose to leave when she could. Most Nigerians are no good. Many of you speak from both sides of your mouth as it suits you.

@Post

Go and see if there is an organization that can help you there in Spain. This is why many of you ladies are advised to look before you leap into marriage but you people never listen. You people's desperation to get married is the cause of why many of you marry these abusive animals in human skin. Don't end up like Titi Arowolo the late banker who got butchered by her husband and left behind a cute 2 year old daughter. Be wise before we begin to read your obituary and remember to stay prayerful while you plan your exit from that hell you call a marriage.

Wizee: You still love him despite all the smackin and hitin? You need to wake up, look @d brighter side. U need to see a concillor

Kanwulia: * adjusting me bouncy curls under my hair-dryer . . . .peep out from under the scorching heat . . . . . *


OP! You say WETIN?

Soooooooooo tired of reading about all these TYPICAL-NIGERIAN-DYSFUNCTIONAL-DIS-UNIONS!!!!

Do you actually call this a MARRIAGE?

serinavagz:

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dayokanu: My own post is simple

OP can you google these two words "Titilayo Arowolo"

Read the story and made your own decision

dasparrow:

@Bolded

You are a hypocrite. You believe he will change? Do you know her husband personally? How are you so sure he will change? Tomorrow now, if he kills her, you will come back here with your hypocritical self and start asking why she chose to remain in an abusive marriage and why she did not choose to leave when she could. Most Nigerians are no good. Many of you speak from both sides of your mouth as it suits you.

@Post

Go and see if there is an organization that can help you there in Spain. This is why many of you ladies are advised to look before you leap into marriage but you people never listen. You people's desperation to get married is the cause of why many of you marry these abusive animals in human skin. Don't end up like Titi Arowolo the late banker who got butchered by her husband and left behind a cute 2 year old daughter. Be wise before we begin to read your obituary and remember to stay prayerful while you plan your exit from that hell you call a marriage.

jennykadry: @kulyie

Baby girl I see your blood dey hot for that inlaw thread. Dong go back there again ejo

kulyie: ok i wont.yes ma.so hows mr kandry and little kandries my love to them o :* hope youre enjoying naija sun

Kanwulia: Spell-caster ko, ADEBOYE-caster ni!
Love na by force o!
Mu Che Che Che Che che

OGUN STATE MARRIED TO OGUN STATE!!!!!
Only DEATH will WOUND YOU PART!!! For real!!!

Hey!!!! E don happen and IT IS APOCALYPTO!!!!