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| My Girl Friend Confessed To Have Cheated On Me by liloelawwal(m): 8:18am On May 18, 2013 |
Pls nairalanders,i am dire need of,a sincere advice.am a confused and heart broken guy. My girl friend of 3years,whom i trust and love so much confessed to have cheated on me.she said it was a mistake though n she has being begging since she confessed to me last week. It happened in school n she told me when she got home Am confused cos i love her,i cant leave her and i find it difficult to forgive her. I need ur honest advice pls |
| Re: My Girl Friend Confessed To Have Cheated On Me by WackyJ1(m): 8:44am On May 18, 2013 |
liloelawwal: Pls nairalanders,i am dire need of,a sincere advice.am a confused and heart broken guy.1. Do you have a backup? if yes then this is the time to the girl to be promoted to a main chic. 2. The girl does not love you as much as she claimed she did. Reason why? Cheating does not just start from nowhere, it takes a series of conscious actions to bring you that point and except you're willing to admit that your girlfriend is a complete idiot then you must acknowledge the fact that she was aware of where her actions with the guy could lead to and she did not a. inform you b. Try to stop herself. You must know that she was enjoying herself while she was doing the basic things with the guy (calling him, spending time with him, Visiting him in his crib with just two of them alone (Emotional cheating starts before Physical cheating) 3. do not be deceived that perhaps she loved you that is why she confessed, my guy prevention is better than cure. Resisting is easier than confessing. 4. Once a cheat is always a cheat. if three years wasn't enough to stop her from doing it with another guy then there is nothing stopping her from repeating the same mistake again. If you think she is really sorry then look at the past, look at how you thought everything was good then she still cheated and then ask yourself "what evidence do i have now? what has she shown me that will prove that she will not do it again" this evidence must be a big as the 3 years she has violated. Bottom line, leave the girl and give yourself time to heal and focus on other things 6 Likes |
| Re: My Girl Friend Confessed To Have Cheated On Me by 190: 8:58am On May 18, 2013 |
Was she Nigerian  1 Like |
| Re: My Girl Friend Confessed To Have Cheated On Me by Nobody: 9:30am On May 18, 2013 |
If you truely love her don't leave her. You should teach her what love is. That girl loves you and thats why she couldnt stand the guilt. |
| Re: My Girl Friend Confessed To Have Cheated On Me by WackyJ1(m): 9:58am On May 18, 2013 |
emmydeep: If you truely love her don't leave her. You should teach her what love is. That girl loves you and thats why she couldnt stand the guilt.Biggest Lie 4 Likes |
| Re: My Girl Friend Confessed To Have Cheated On Me by Nobody: 11:08am On May 18, 2013 |
Is it all ladies that cheat these days? What's with the everybody cheating on each other? I thought it's only guys that think with their something. Ladies, pls tell me we're not starting to think with something else apart from brain too.  Or all these guys just make these stories up? 1 Like |
| Re: My Girl Friend Confessed To Have Cheated On Me by Nobody: 11:35am On May 18, 2013 |
emmydeep: If you truely love her don't leave her. You should teach her what love is. That girl loves you and thats why she couldnt stand the guilt. ^^^^ Even satan doesn't lie this much 1 Like |
| Re: My Girl Friend Confessed To Have Cheated On Me by DigitalSignal(m): 11:55am On May 18, 2013 |
liloelawwal: Pls nairalanders,i am dire need of,a sincere advice.am a confused and heart broken guy. What made her to confess? She just came back and started confessing? |
| Re: My Girl Friend Confessed To Have Cheated On Me by overdrive(m): 12:22pm On May 18, 2013 |
Yes did u catch her in d act or she confessed out of guilt if d former then u are good to drop her but if d latter then relax cos u are in safe hands forgive her and move on with her cos if she had kept mute u wldnt hv found out. |
| Re: My Girl Friend Confessed To Have Cheated On Me by WackyJ1(m): 12:25pm On May 18, 2013 |
alutacontinua: Is it all ladies that cheat these days?Ehen now you're seeing what were saying. Ladies are now misbehaving |
| Re: My Girl Friend Confessed To Have Cheated On Me by haitto99(m): 1:20pm On May 18, 2013 |
alutacontinua: Is it all ladies that cheat these days?aluta if a guy takes a relationship serious den itz for real,guys rarely commit but once we do na die o,dats y we gat guys with heartbreaks,y u ladies get more unserious dis days,itz difficult to see a lady dating just one guy dis days,maga must dey,even wen dey love their bf,by d time d maga asks for sex dey gat no choice |
| Re: My Girl Friend Confessed To Have Cheated On Me by firetrap(m): 2:30pm On May 18, 2013 |
190: Was she Nigerian [size=21pt]190 abeg wetin Nigerian girls do you[/size] |
| Re: My Girl Friend Confessed To Have Cheated On Me by 190: 3:16pm On May 18, 2013 |
firetrap: Ermmm Nothing its just a polite question  |
| Re: My Girl Friend Confessed To Have Cheated On Me by Nobody: 3:26pm On May 18, 2013 |
190: Waddup?  |
| Re: My Girl Friend Confessed To Have Cheated On Me by 190: 3:33pm On May 18, 2013 |
alutacontinua: free me am angry with you |
| Re: My Girl Friend Confessed To Have Cheated On Me by firetrap(m): 3:55pm On May 18, 2013 |
190: given, naija gals dey eff up die but abeg dey way when u dey carry am for head na hin I know understand |
| Re: My Girl Friend Confessed To Have Cheated On Me by clemz85(m): 4:09pm On May 18, 2013 |
what ever U wannu do, 4giv her first then take Ur action |
| Re: My Girl Friend Confessed To Have Cheated On Me by Nobody: 7:46pm On May 18, 2013 |
190: wetin I do you again  |
| Re: My Girl Friend Confessed To Have Cheated On Me by dasparrow: 8:04pm On May 18, 2013 |
liloelawwal: Pls nairalanders,i am dire need of,a sincere advice.am a confused and heart broken guy. Sorry to hear of your dilemma. Your girlfriend probably learnt from the best considering that she lives in a society like Nigeria where sleeping around like dogs on heat is the norm and not the exception. By the way, you and your girlfriend ought not to be sleeping with each other anyway because you both are not married. The average Nigerian has too much of a fornication spirit yet when Sunday comes, you all crowd into your respective churches to praise a no-nonsense Jehovah God who has made it clear that neither adulterers nor fornicators will inherit His kingdom. Anyways, sorry for your plight. If you cannot find it in your heart to forgive her, then its best you both go your separate ways. Shikena! 1 Like |
| Re: My Girl Friend Confessed To Have Cheated On Me by 190: 8:21pm On May 18, 2013 |
firetrap: Rotfl  |
| Re: My Girl Friend Confessed To Have Cheated On Me by 190: 8:21pm On May 18, 2013 |
alutacontinua: wheres my pm |
| Re: My Girl Friend Confessed To Have Cheated On Me by Nobody: 8:53pm On May 18, 2013 |
emmydeep: If you truely love her don't leave her. You should teach her what love is. That girl loves you and thats why she couldnt stand the guilt.wow such a simpleton. Cheats are liars i don't (never have) cheat because i respect my babe. all that post up there are pure BS. |
| Re: My Girl Friend Confessed To Have Cheated On Me by Nobody: 9:35pm On May 18, 2013 |
190: I told you i'm restricted to nairaland.  No pm for ya |
| Re: My Girl Friend Confessed To Have Cheated On Me by Ucheosefoh(m): 10:20pm On May 18, 2013 |
190: |
| Re: My Girl Friend Confessed To Have Cheated On Me by Ucheosefoh(m): 10:22pm On May 18, 2013 |
alutacontinua: |
| Re: My Girl Friend Confessed To Have Cheated On Me by Nobody: 11:12pm On May 18, 2013 |
^ ^ ^ who be this?  |
| Re: My Girl Friend Confessed To Have Cheated On Me by Decryptor(m): 11:13am On May 19, 2013 |
alutacontinua: Is it all ladies that cheat these days?Toto too dey scratch una dese days! |
| Re: My Girl Friend Confessed To Have Cheated On Me by Ucheosefoh(m): 3:58pm On May 19, 2013 |
alutacontinua: ^ ^ ^ who be this?See Jamb question |
| Re: My Girl Friend Confessed To Have Cheated On Me by dBard: 6:34pm On May 19, 2013 |
alutacontinua: Is it all ladies that cheat these days? They're not. Used t wonder as well until it hit close t home. The rate right now is scary.. |
| Re: My Girl Friend Confessed To Have Cheated On Me by 190theclown: 9:24pm On May 19, 2013 |
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| Re: My Girl Friend Confessed To Have Cheated On Me by Exponental(m): 7:12am On May 20, 2013 |
If u cant leave her, forgive her. If u cant forgive her, leave her. If u cant leave or forgive, kill urself. |
| Re: My Girl Friend Confessed To Have Cheated On Me by ochallo: 8:17am On May 20, 2013 |
In this case , i think you have to understand why cheaters cheat. Read this post http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/04/why-cheaters-cheat.html |
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