Pls am a bit confused here, I quite know how much my partner worth
in terms of his salary, so i am wondering , Is It not good to know ones partner
take home parkage.cos i got into some discussion with my colleaques at work recently,
and all of them were sayin that it is not good.

Pls, whats your take on these?,

It all depends on the level of communication the both of you have attained within the relationship. And also direction the relationship is going.

When you say 'partner' what you mean by that?

boyfriend?NO.hubby?maybe yes

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FOR SECURITY REASONS, NO

FOR LOVE SAKE, YES

depends on your priority level. ^{security or love}

A lot of Nigerian couples, even married ones, keep their earnings secret from each other, which I find really sad.

Is money that important to them, more than their marriage? A wealthy man / woman with a broken down marriage, who puts money before all else, will be a very sad, lonely person, albeit a rich one.

If you can't share your wealth or good fortune with your wife / husband, then you've got nothing. You might as well get buried with your money, because at that rate, you'll have no offsprings to leave it to.

Very sad. It depicts greed, materialism and distrust.

NaJa HaJe:

It all depends on the level of communication the both of you have attained within the relationship. And also direction the relationship is going.

When you say 'partner' what you mean by that?

What i actually mean by partner is my husband,
Thankz

bondxie:

What i actually mean by partner is my husband,
Thankz

If he's your husband, then IGNORE your work mates, saying it's not good to know what each other brings home!

They sound like a bunch of greedy, grasping conniving vultures to me.

bondxie:

What i actually mean by partner is my husband,
Thankz

Then YES! It is good to know.

Finance is a big /crucial part of a marriage. The couple would need to know how much is coming in every month in order to plan effectively. If they both can't talk money then there's a big problem.

bondxie:

What i actually mean by partner is my husband,
Thankz

Fine then, i don't see any reasons she shouldn't know my take home package.