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Guys,have You Ever "failed" A Woman's Romantic Test? by datemax: 5:52pm On May 01, 2008 |
Have You Ever "Failed" A Woman's Romantic TEST? "WHY WOMEN TEST MEN, AND WHAT TO DO WHEN IT HAPPENS TO YOU, " Women test men. That's the reality of the situation. Women test men RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING, and they keep on testing FOREVER. If you don't know how to deal with the tests that women throw at you, you have VERY LITTLE chance of improving your success in the dating world. HOW DO WOMEN TEST MEN? For most guys, the concept of a woman "testing" them seems a little strange. Why would a woman WANT to test a man? What could she possibly gain from it? The answer: A LOT. By testing a man, a woman can learn THE MOST IMPORTANT thing about him, And I'll share what that is a little bit later on in this newsletter. TEST: A DEFINITION Definition of the word "test". 1. A series of questions, problems, or physical responses designed to determine knowledge, intelligence, or ability. So back to my earlier question, Why do women test men in the first place? BECAUSE THEY HAVE TO. If you walk up to a man and say "Hey, how much money do you make?" he can LIE. If you ask him if he is good in bed, he can LIE. If you ask him if he's strong enough to deal with the challenges of life, support a family, and reach his goals, he can LIE. Are you with me here? In other words, if you get to the end of one of your college courses, the teacher COULD just ask you if you have a comprehensive understanding of the material you learned during the course. But you could LIE. So the teacher gives you a TEST to see if you REALLY know what's going on. Well, in the same way that teachers test students, women test MEN. And that means YOU, Sparky. But there's one LITTLE difference between the kinds of tests that women give you and the kinds of tests that teachers give you, Women don't tell you first, that they're going to test you! And they don't teach you what you need to know BEFORE they test you. They just do it. Right when they meet you. Within the first few seconds, actually. Why? Because women don't have the TIME to deal with all the guys who are interested in them. And they're not interested in getting together with a man who doesn't "get it" in the first place. Beautiful women aren't looking for a guy to TRAIN. And the tests don't stop, by the way. If you meet an attractive, interesting, emotionally healthy woman, you can expect to be tested until either: 1) The relationship ends. 2) You or she DIES. WHAT WOMEN ARE TESTING FOR Now, women will test men for ALL KINDS of things. Some women will test to see if you have money. Some will test to see if you'll SPEND your money on them. Some will test to see if you're intelligent. And some will test to see if you're loyal. But BY FAR, in my experience, more women will test you initially to see if you're a WUSSY! ( an ass kissing, submissive guy who has no confidence, and always trying to impress her) That's right, The VERY FIRST thing a woman wants to "know" about you is whether or not you're a submissive, ass-kissing boy who has no balls. And if you ARE, then you might as well throw in the towel. If you are a Wussy, and you fail the "Wussy Tests" that she throws at you, then you stand very little chance succeeding with the woman who is testing you. Of course, MOST men fail with MOST women, MOST of the time. THESE TESTS ARE VERY SUBTLE Probably the most interesting thing about tests from women is that they're not OBVIOUS. At least not to most men. In fact, I'd say that 99% of all the tests that women use on men FLY BELOW RADAR. They're right out in the open, obvious to other women (and a few men), but for the most part, they go COMPLETELY UNDETECTED. For instance, let's say that you're standing at a bar talking to some friends, and you make eye contact with the cute girl standing six feet away from you. What do most guys do? They look away. And they do it FAST. Of course, most guys will LOOK AGAIN within a few seconds. But it's already too late. TEST FAILED. Here's another, Let's say you're at a bar talking to a girl, and she says "Hey, buy me a drink". You say "Great, what do you want?". Guess what? She just told you what to do, and you went for it without a second thought. Or maybe you've started a conversation with a group of girls at a coffee shop. One of them says that she doesn't like your shoes. You say "Oh, well I wasn't planning on seeing anyone important today, I just put on whatever I could find". In other words, you MAKE AN EXCUSE for yourself. As you can probably guess, that's a BAD IDEA. In that moment, you have just failed the test with flying colors. THIS HAS HAPPENED TO YOU If you think back in your life about all of the situations with women that went BAD, you'll probably find that you were TESTED, and you FAILED. In one way or another, you probably missed some VITAL clue that you were being tested, and you wound up failing. RESULT: She hit the road. And before I give you some tips on handling tests from women, I want to say AGAIN: If you find yourself failing tests from women on a CONSISTENT basis, then you should get yourself some "in- depth" reprogramming on a DEEP level. HOW TO DEAL WITH TESTS If you're going to successfully deal with tests from women, you first need to "get it". To say it differently, you need to learn how to RECOGNIZE tests quickly, and know when they're happening. What's the best way to know when you're being tested? Well, one way that I KNOW I'm being tested is my GUT. Your gut doesn't lie. In fact, if we guys would just learn to use this amazing "test detector" called our GUTS, then we'd live happier lives. Here's how it works, Next time you're interacting with a woman and she does or says something that makes your gut tense up, you're probably being tested. Now, I can't go into all the aspects of how to deal with tests from women, because that would take me several hours. But I will say that the most IMPORTANT thing to do is EXPECT tests, and then pay close attention to how you're responding to them. Most of the things we do with women are NOT CONSCIOUS. When a woman looks at you, and you look away, it wasn't a "conscious decision". It just HAPPENS. All of a sudden, you're feeling butterflies and glancing away. It happens in an instant. So you first need to recognize when it's happening to you. When a woman tells you what to do, she's testing you. When a woman tries to change plans or cancel at the last minute, she's testing you. When a woman asks you to buy her something, she's testing you. When a woman nags, whines, or complains, she's testing you. Learn to SPOT IT when it's happening. Next, notice how you respond. You've failed a million tests with women already, so don't worry about ten more. Just notice how you respond. Most men respond by trying to win the woman's approval. If she tries to cancel plans at the last minute, you'll say "Oh, no problem". If she complains about something, you'll say "I'm sorry, let me fix it". You know what I'm saying. Again, just notice what's going on when you respond. Finally, learn how to PAUSE before you respond, and then UNDERSTAND how you need to respond to each test. Most tests will be tests to see if you'll allow her to CONTROL YOU. If you DO allow a woman to CONTROL you, you will lose. And you can take that one to the bank. You will lose in one way or another, almost guaranteed. Women don't want men that they can control. So make sure you pass those tests first. The more you pay close attention, the more you'll see the subtle tests that women are using with you. And the more of these tests you pass, the more success you'll have. YOU MUST GO BEYOND THE TEST If you REALLY want to have success with women, you need to learn how to deal with tests even BEFORE THEY HAPPEN. And by FAR, the most important of these things is to make a woman feel ATTRACTION for you. Sure, you can show her that you're a great leader, or self-confident, or that you won't kiss up to her before she tests you for it. As you probably know by now, Attraction Isn't A Choice. Women don't go through a logical process to decide if they're going to feel ATTRACTION. It just HAPPENS. But it doesn't happen very OFTEN. If you're one of those rare men who knows how to use your body language, voice tone, and other communication to make women feel ATTRACTION, then you will have the kind of success that most men only dream of. And you'll deal with far fewer tests from women. Success with Women and the idea of making women feel ATTRACTION. It's something that no one talks about. It's something that most men don’t understands. Learning this particular skill can make ALL THE DIFFERENCE in your life. cheers for more Visit: www.datemax..com |
Re: Guys,have You Ever "failed" A Woman's Romantic Test? by lucabrasi(m): 6:37pm On May 01, 2008 |
why would a woman test me,im not that desperate and personally i think our relationship wont last from the moment i know she tested me because i think its immature |
Re: Guys,have You Ever "failed" A Woman's Romantic Test? by chistiana(f): 7:39pm On May 02, 2008 |
@ POSTER u right, women test men, but not just any man. they test them to know if they have the same feeling towards each other, or if the guy truly love them, may be my guy as been cheating on me, the best way for me to prove that is to give him an exam, not even a test, so if he fails so be it. |
Re: Guys,have You Ever "failed" A Woman's Romantic Test? by winch(m): 10:40am On May 03, 2008 |
I think i need help here,im good at noticing things like that,but im naturaly rebelious,i hate impressing ppl,wat do u think |
Re: Guys,have You Ever "failed" A Woman's Romantic Test? by Seun(m): 11:12am On May 03, 2008 |
The first reply is spot-on. It's childish. If he 'fails' you won't dump him. You'll try again later. |
Re: Guys,have You Ever "failed" A Woman's Romantic Test? by Nobody: 4:48pm On May 03, 2008 |
l kind of agree with datemax there is this girl l want to get with in between she has asked some questions that has got me wondering what the heck is going on seriously |
Re: Guys,have You Ever "failed" A Woman's Romantic Test? by Eclairs: 7:01am On May 04, 2008 |
Good luck in your test |
Re: Guys,have You Ever "failed" A Woman's Romantic Test? by PRYNXLEX(m): 1:46pm On May 06, 2008 |
THIS GUY IS OFF THA HOOK, IT WAS LIKE I WAS HAVING MY WHOLE LIFE BEING ROLLED B4 MY EYES. LET ME SHARE THIS WITH ALL LANDERS, THERE IS THIS GUL I HAVE ASKED OUT AND I HAVNT HAD MY REPLY YET BUT I GOT A TEST FROM HER YESTERDAY. WEN I CALLED HER SHE SAID SHE WASNT OK AND THAT SHE HAD A HEAD ACHE TRUST A NAIJA NIGGA NOW I SWUNG INTO ACTION AND PLAYED DR. GREY AND GAVE ALL THE GIST THAT I COULD GIVE TO SHO THAT AT LEAST I CARE. I CALLED HER AGAIN THIS MORNING AND SHE SAID "WHEN NXT ARE WE GOINA SEE", DID I PASS THE TST, HALLA BACK LANDERS |
Re: Guys,have You Ever "failed" A Woman's Romantic Test? by Busta(f): 2:24pm On May 06, 2008 |
1. too long to read 2. wat is the essence of this test? maybe someone that read it all and understands it can help me out. |
Re: Guys,have You Ever "failed" A Woman's Romantic Test? by enque(f): 3:29pm On May 06, 2008 |
PRYNXLEX: TIME WILL TELL, SO DONT START REJOICIN YET |
Re: Guys,have You Ever "failed" A Woman's Romantic Test? by PRYNXLEX(m): 3:44pm On May 06, 2008 |
ENQUE, AS I SAW UR POST MY MIND FLY WETIN NA. I WAS HAPPY BUT AFTER UR POST I HAD A SECOND TOT AS U SAID DONT BE HAPPY YET TIME WILL TELL. SO MY DEAR FROM A WOMAN'S VIEW WETIN I GO DO. TRY CALM ME DOWN ABEG , NO VEX. REPLY THIS POST
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Re: Guys,have You Ever "failed" A Woman's Romantic Test? by enque(f): 3:52pm On May 06, 2008 |
PRYNXLEX: Bros o! u dint av to upload ur pix for me to see na, am not d girl in question, neither do i know her nor am i related to her. so take chill pills abeg. i just meant, dont push ur luck too far so u dont get disappointed. she prolly is just appreciative of ur assistance wen she was down n just wants to say thanks. WHO KNOWS SEF, she fit don gree for u o. so just be urself n enjoy ur date ok. |
Re: Guys,have You Ever "failed" A Woman's Romantic Test? by tngtech(m): 3:53pm On May 06, 2008 |
Busta: exaclty |
Re: Guys,have You Ever "failed" A Woman's Romantic Test? by tngtech(m): 3:55pm On May 06, 2008 |
PRYNXLEX: you mustn't put your picture on a post na. |
Re: Guys,have You Ever "failed" A Woman's Romantic Test? by PRYNXLEX(m): 4:02pm On May 06, 2008 |
enque these chill pills really helped. thanks and as for the picture i was just testing the stuff. i did not know that it will turn out this big no vex |
Re: Guys,have You Ever "failed" A Woman's Romantic Test? by enque(f): 4:03pm On May 06, 2008 |
PRYNXLEX: oya remove it naaaaaaaaa! we don c am tire |
Re: Guys,have You Ever "failed" A Woman's Romantic Test? by princeonx: 4:14pm On May 06, 2008 |
Can anyone guess how many times that word "TEST" was used in this topic? even as I type that shit is still ringing in my head! I remember this girl that claim I don't love her because I failed her simple test! watin be the test? out of no where in the middle of a whole diff topic she asked me her cell number (just about a week after we started talking). That thing vex me na like tissue I drop her! test ko! tester ni!! |
Re: Guys,have You Ever "failed" A Woman's Romantic Test? by princeonx: 4:15pm On May 06, 2008 |
God is wonderful Ohhhhhhh how that tiny neck take carry that BIG head for that picture |
Re: Guys,have You Ever "failed" A Woman's Romantic Test? by Busta(f): 4:55pm On May 06, 2008 |
prince_onx: LAMOOOOOOOOOOOOO |
Re: Guys,have You Ever "failed" A Woman's Romantic Test? by SweetT1: 4:58pm On May 06, 2008 |
That is some head !!! That's all i got to say. @Busta Your Jiggling Busta. that is some rum roast you got there on that picture. Something white girls wish they have!!! KEEP UP THE BAD WORK. |
Re: Guys,have You Ever "failed" A Woman's Romantic Test? by Busta(f): 5:02pm On May 06, 2008 |
@sweet T, thx but no stalk me oh |
Re: Guys,have You Ever "failed" A Woman's Romantic Test? by SweetT1: 5:05pm On May 06, 2008 |
@Busta You dont have to worry about stalking. I'm already at your door. That is something you got back there. Make a brother wanna say, HALLELUYAH !!! |
Re: Guys,have You Ever "failed" A Woman's Romantic Test? by bawomolo(m): 5:11pm On May 06, 2008 |
damm yall are cruel, that head can probably seal the holes in the ozone layer |
Re: Guys,have You Ever "failed" A Woman's Romantic Test? by PRYNXLEX(m): 5:16pm On May 06, 2008 |
ITS MY MISTAKE, I DID NOT KNOW THE PICTURE WILL GO THAT WAY OK. AT LEAST AS ONE DUDE SAID IT CAN HELP THE OZONE. THATS A USE I WISH I CULD TAKE THAT OFF. WELL GO ON SAY ALL YOU CAN, TALK SOME MORE, ITS FUN ISNT IT |
Re: Guys,have You Ever "failed" A Woman's Romantic Test? by sleekymag(m): 5:20pm On May 06, 2008 |
Is it only women that give guys romantic test? Do guys not give ladies test too? To me, the more you try to go by the theories and principles, the more cofused you may find yourself. People are different (not all ladies are the same, not all guys are the same). What works for A might not work for B. I think you just have to be natural; what's yours is urs; you dont have to go chykin all d ladies to assert dat u're truly d man in control! |
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