1.become genuinely interested in other people.
publilius syrus said'we are interested in others when they are interested in us
2.smile...it cost nothing but creates much
3.remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language
4.be a good listener.encourage others to talk about themselves
5.talk in terms of the other person's interest
some great men go to the extent of reading about the person they want to,overnight
6.make the other person feel important_and do it sincerely
talk to people about themselvesand they will listen for hours