MRbrownJAY: Brotha Jeremiah, let me be the bearer of bad news......only a criminal or some very insane lady would be interested in the very little you wrote......i mean, the only thing you said about yourself is that you are desperate 30yrs old.

but dont despair, here is MBJ help for you:
FIRST you should write about yourself, like height (you know them gal dont like short guys), figure (abeg no pot belly), skin "complexion", eye color etc

SECOND you should write about where you from because the better the area, the bigger your chances. we all know that living in banana island is better viewed than living in Makoko.

THIRD you should let the girl know about your education/occupation (or better yet, what you have achieved in your 30yrs long life) as no gal want to settle with some broke aaassss illiterate donkey. the higher the better. if you are a vulcanizer then your chances will be limited, while if you are a doctor/architect/lawyer etc then your chances will be greater (sadly the fact that you came to advertise on NL points to the former).

FOURTH you should let the ladies know about your personality. like what you like, your attributes, if you are cheerful or sad, funny or boring, generous or stingy, sincere or a lying bastard, outgoing or shy etc

FIFTH you should now let the ladies know the TYPE OF WOMAN you are looking for. having no criteria whatsoever (but female gender) will simply show the state of desperation you find yourself into. you also have to have some criteria because a lady would feel offended if she takes pride in her look/attributes, while you couldnt care less how she look. do you want slim or chubby (maybe even fat)? tall or short? dark skin or albino? highly educated or illiterate? young or old? working or unemployed? sexy or plain looking etc

and LAST BUT NOT LEAST, to have any chance of success in attracting REAL women, and not scammer and criminals (and also show the ladies out there that you are serious about your claim) you should post a pic of yourself. not posting a pic would show that you are possibly shy, some would even think you are ugly (they would think:"a cute guy wouldnt come on NL begging for romance", and the majority will say that you aint got balls big enough to be proud and stand for what you firmly want, thus not man enough.

so the ball is in your court playa, and good luck with whoever will reply to you!
btw: you should have left a contact email or phone # so that Cinderella could contact you, as we all know that replying to such thread is not too private.