As a matter of fact i dont c anything wrong in Gal asking a guy out, but not in a country like nigeria because if anything should go wrong in the future,the gal will B humiliated by the guy because he wount hesitate 2 tell his friends and others that she is the one that wooed him.But my advice 2 any lady that have 2 do such a thing is that they should come 2 be friendly(without sleeping with him) with the guy 4 sometimes (probably days,weeks or even month) By so doing the guy might have known her better and will not call her a cheap thing or something.LUV U ALL!!!

They've started already.

lovely_S:

As a matter of fact i don't c anything wrong in Gal asking a guy out, but not in a country like nigeria because if anything should go wrong in the future,the girl will B humiliated by the guy because he wount hesitate 2 tell his friends and others that she is the one that wooed him.But my advice 2 any lady that have 2 do such a thing is that they should come 2 be friendly(without sleeping with him) with the guy 4 sometimes (probably days,weeks or even month) By so doing the guy might have known her better and will not call her a cheap thing or something.LUV U ALL!!!

I'm not sure why anyone would ask out a guy like that in the first place. If I notice a guy is closed minded like that, I'm not even attracted to them, talk less of asking them out. I prefer my men to be open minded.

NO MATTER HOW THIS WORLD TURNS , I WILL NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER ASK A MAN OUT , NEVER.

I can see the thread was started sometime in 2005.
I'm pretty sure the poster won't ask this same question now!!

babymine:

They've started already.

You can say that again.

cos guys talk too much
girls wuld stop u and ask u out d moment u stop dem gossip and side comments

When we change our mentality.

it is against  african culture for a girl to ask a guy out.

@poster it has started

But u are the last on the list

Had an experience many years back.

She had a crush and somehow managed to convey the message to me.
Didnt like her much at 1st but some time later, the friendship grew.

No other has come my way since, i think its a cool phenomenon but dont think
it will manifest fully in Nija any time soon. Its quite prevalent in the Uk, _{hooked up with a jamaican gal 2 yrs ago in london when she wlked by and heard me say "i love you" 2 na gal in Nija.
She waited 4 me to end the call then walked over and said "Its so nice to know that guyz can astill love gals-- and she wouldnt mind me showing a lil love here since i was only visiting}

celestine7:

it is against african culture for a girl to ask a guy out.

What constitution supports that? But it's African culture for girls to love for money.

until an orange grows beard abi until the moon fall from the sky

rily wen will this actually happen, u say guys dont treat a gurl gud wen she say she likes a guy, u forget wat gurls do wen u say u like her, if u've ever herd of FRONTIN & FORMIN OF D HIGHEST LEVEL, datz wat a broda gets, anyway d world is short of guys so gurls beta start luvin up, most especially naija chics, ur formin no be am, life is too short, so gurl make u no dull urself dey front  

rily wen will this actually happen, u say guys dont treat a gurl gud wen she say she likes a guy, u forget wat gurls do wen u say u like her, if u've ever herd of FRONTIN & FORMIN OF D HIGHEST LEVEL, datz wat a broda gets, anyway d world is short of guys so gurls beta start luvin up, most especially naija chics, ur formin no be am, life is too short, so gurl make u no dull urself dey front  

2008

When the little chick am rearing matures into a cock and grows strong white teeth!
Trust me, I'll ask you out then.

tumzy:

rily when will this actually happen, u say guys don't treat a girl good when she say she likes a guy, u forget what girls do when u say u like her, if u've ever herd of FRONTIN & FORMIN OF D HIGHEST LEVEL, datz what a brother gets, anyway d world is short of guys so girls beta start loving up, most especially naija chics, your formin no be am, life is too short, so girl make u no dull yourself dey front

so u want us to front at the end of the day u go come call them craps abi, wait we go soon ask u out bt na until snake get legs

to all my female folks keep forming, no dulling and no clinching

dear nairalanders,
i really appreciate all your comments, actually girls have started doing that because so many men are shying away from that, but the truth is our ladies will feel more comfortable when the attitude in our society changes.

a girl can see a guy she really likes and determines she will sleep with this guy and he spending the money, at the end of the scenario the guy comes out bragging saying he used the girl, LIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! FAT LIE. if it was the girl that came after the guy and they decide to call it quits in my opinion the guy has been used by her, but we will never see that in this part of the earth because we have been born, bred and made to believe that a man is always a winner.

i have had opportunities of sleeping with some girls but i never did because i will feel used most especially when they initiated the stuff and probably me spending my money.

omo no forming o! girls got to tell guys if they feel them. i respect it wen they do that. but i must admit it that i have taken advantage of the fact that a girl liked me and i started treating her like shit. we didnt talk for like a year and we are only just rebuilding the friendship.had to apologise profusely.i guess it was immaturity.

sylvex:

so u want us to front at the end of the day u go come call them craps abi, wait we go soon ask u out bt na until snake get legs

to all my female folks keep forming, no dulling and no clinching

shey na im make u still dey form for me do like say you no see my posts? ^{yes o! i follow you reaxh hear from there.}

When men stop asking them out

@zignor
see sylvex o!!! she no gree answer me since. at least na me dey ask am out no be she dey ask me! wetin make i do now?

When u have a well paid Job with a minimun of 7 figure

rockiedink:

@zignor
see sylvex o!!! she no gree answer me since. at least na me dey ask am out no be she dey ask me! wetin make i do now?

deary, jump in2 the lagoon then i will succumb to ur wish

it is not the right thing to do.
Its a job meant for the guys and so ladies should not think of it at all cos the outcome is always embarrassing.

I'm looking for a girfriend based in lagos nigeria you, you can meet me on the yahoo i'm wale_soulja @ yahoo . com

..okay ..this might be a little late .. But seriously I usually wonder when girls would start asking the guys out ...a guy up there typed something which I think is partially true .. I guess when we the guys stop going to them, they'd wise up or should I type take over the responsibility .. Lol .. Well I don't see it as any gender's responsibity ... From my opinion I think its the kind of mentality we have here .. And I keep telling it ... We need to upgrade this mentality ... About the girl typing we guys do take them for granted when they do the approach ..well for that I think those particular guys are doing that for payback from the forming and hard to get they have gotten from other females ..

pasuma:
When Will Nigerian Girls Start Asking Bobos Out ?

One thing I've come to notice in Nigeria is that you can hardly find a babe walk up to a guy she likes so much and say "hello, excuse me, you know I've got this felling for you" or "men I'm having a crush on you men".

They've got hubris, they will never admit to what they want. You barely know when they want you inside them if you can't be Aristotle or Plato or maybe Freud.

Babes you know what you want know, so why not go 4 it like MTN'S "achieve what you want to achieve"

PASO LOMO (NA ME BE DAT)

my broda,I taya for these our girls oo

Greatpeter:
Pasuma, I have had the experience before.
A sister in my particular Church came to visit me and said "Bro. Peter I have this feeling for you but I don't know whether it's a lust I just say I should tell you so that you can pray with me.

I picked up a bible and this sister collected this bible and flinged it and started crying.

As I moved closer to calm her down before I know it she started romancing me I saw hell that day but I won't the rest of the story.

I discarded her friendship after that day. We still have them around but they are scarce.

But there are ones which satan planted just to make you fall.
Watch out brother.

The youth and singles president is currently eyeing me and I know it so I give a wild berth.

K'olorun gbami, make God deliever me.

this the same question I asked last week I know why I did but the response I got especially from men,was discouraging and I gave up

Greatpeter:
Pasuma, I have had the experience before.
A sister in my particular Church came to visit me and said "Bro. Peter I have this feeling for you but I don't know whether it's a lust I just say I should tell you so that you can pray with me.

I picked up a bible and this sister collected this bible and flinged it and started crying.

As I moved closer to calm her down before I know it she started romancing me I saw hell that day but I won't the rest of the story.

I discarded her friendship after that day. We still have them around but they are scarce.

But there are ones which satan planted just to make you fall.
Watch out brother.

The youth and singles president is currently eyeing me and I know it so I give a wild berth.

K'olorun gbami, make God deliever me.

this the same question I asked last week I know why I did but the response I got especially from men,was discouraging and I gave up and I went back to my shell but thankGod it came up again but still,i cant go back to what I have vomited

Greatpeter:
Pasuma, I have had the experience before.
A sister in my particular Church came to visit me and said "Bro. Peter I have this feeling for you but I don't know whether it's a lust I just say I should tell you so that you can pray with me.

I picked up a bible and this sister collected this bible and flinged it and started crying.

As I moved closer to calm her down before I know it she started romancing me I saw hell that day but I won't the rest of the story.

I discarded her friendship after that day. We still have them around but they are scarce.

But there are ones which satan planted just to make you fall.
Watch out brother.

The youth and singles president is currently eyeing me and I know it so I give a wild berth.

K'olorun gbami, make God deliever me.

this the same question I asked last week I know why I did but the response I got especially from men,was discouraging and I gave up and I went back to my shell but thankGod it came up again but still,i cant go back to what I have vomitted