elari: so u were sent to do ur nysc and instead of facing d service, u were just spoiling all my Tiv sisters and ended up falling in love with one abi? bros u no try at all o. u been no c all d corpers and single sisters from makurdi to Gboko?

Hahahaha...you are so funny. First, I didn't serve in Benue State. I only said she is from Benue State. Second, I never messed myself up with any lady during my service year and I said in my first post that the lady in question is still a virgin. Is Tiv the only tribe in Benue? But fortunately the lady is a Tiv by tribe. I would like to know you. Where do you live? I live in Oyo State.

alutacontinua: Has she secured the admission yet? It depends on the life-goals of the two of you. If you're both determined to make it, with proper planning and focus, you definitely can. I know of a couple who did same, in this case, the lady was the graduate and the guy a secondary school leaver. But they were both smart enough to know what they want and planned properly for it. It wasn't easy but the guy is now a lawyer, almost done with his masters and doing just fine.

Note: all these happened after they got married.
So, my point: if you're ready to spend the rest of your life with her and you love her enough to go through the rough road, all you need is proper planning and you will both get there. GOOD LUCK!

Solid advice!

Lol. I have a job now. So finance may really not be challenge. Since u hv a job I don't tink its necessary 4 u to wait till she's in sch,all dat mata's is d lov u peeps hv 4 each oda nd u said she's in her early 20's so I don't tink she's too young to knw wat she want in life,d most important tin is dat u hv a job nd u wuld b able to cater 4 her,so go ahead nd marry her,wish u luck

owk! Introduction. I am a Tiv man from Benue state. am currently serving in Delta. Don't mind all those stories about Tiv people having the highest number of Hiv n Aids as these are just government propaganda looking for a way to get money from UNAIDS, UN e.t.c. go for her bro, u truly deserve her. But wait o! how ddi u know she was a Virgin? Bros ehh! u sef.

@milky doll, thanks so much. @ elari, there are somethings I want us to discuss. Pls 4ward ur fon nuba 2: contactkismo@gmail.com. Thanks.

No time Bruv! Settle 4 wah u heart desires,if sh*it hapens on d long run,learn hw 2 flush it out n move,if I were u,God forbid,I wud roll d r/ship ball by kipin a close check n mking her knw I'm damn serz

I appreciate everyone who has contributed in any way. I also thank those who just viewed without commenting.

man u have got to get your priorities right. re you worried that about her academic status or about the distance btw you two. think a good way to start is to open up to her and you guys talk about it like every mature couple would....

addictiv: man u have got to get your priorities right. re you worried that about her academic status or about the distance btw you two. think a good way to start is to open up to her and you guys talk about it like every mature couple would....

Thanks so much. I will do just that.

Uwc