Here are the few things that a man would hate in a future wife. Take it or leave it, but here's what most of us really do dislike:

1. A high-maintenance woman.

It might be okay to be a little bit of a gold digger, but high maintenance means that nothing is ever good enough. You buy her something that costs $1,000 dollars, she barely says thank you. She might also be the kind of emotional black hole who is never satisfied or happy no matter what he says or does to make things better. That's draining for men, and flat out horrible.

2. A woman who is bad with kids.

A woman's beauty is captured in her ability to nurture. The woman who says "I hate kids" is seen as less of a woman in the eyes of a lot of men. It also makes her look selfish.

3. A woman who doesn't support you.

If a man is going through things, he wants to believe his woman has his back through thick and thin. You want to feel beautiful; he wants to feel like a king. If he's ridiculed or his dreams aren't supported, then he will probably gravitate toward the woman who helps boost his ego, listens to him and encourages him, just like his mother used to do.

4. A woman who emasculates you or doesn't respect gender roles:

Feminism is nice, but a lot of hardcore feminists are either gay or single. You can have power in your household and still allow the man to be a man. If you're constantly ordering him around or not respecting his manhood, then he will feel that you don't need him. So, the strong, independent woman who "don't need no man" may lose her man because he is convinced that she "don't need him" just like she said.

5. Bad in the bedroom.

If you ask a man what time it is, he's probably going to say, "It's sexx o'clock." Men are physical creatures, and good loving can make a man do pretty much whatever you want. But being frigid, disinterested, unenthusiastic or not concerned about his physical needs will make other women look that much more inviting. He definitely won't want to lock himself into a relationship with you, that's for sure. It would be miserable for him.

6. Doesn't get along with your family.

No man wants to bring home a woman that his family hates; she becomes like a virus. Smile, be nice, be helpful, try to get along with everyone if you can and that makes him envision you as a regular visitor to his family gatherings. If you can't do that, then find another man with a better family.

7. Really mean and overly moody/b_tchy.

Most of my friends hate women who don't smile or are always mad about everything. It sucks. A smiling woman who listens to his problems, tells him that he's special, has his back and drops it ferociously in the bedroom can get him hooked. You want to be that woman.

Take it or leave it, this is what we said. What you do with this information is entirely up to you.

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Sanboy25: 8. The pressure, disapproval of his parents/peers.

Why do u want to spoil the thread already

Sanboy25:
Isn't it the truth ?

Duh, like u women are not the champions of it

spikes C:

Why do u want to spoil the thread already

I don't think she's trying 2 spoil d thread lyk you said, she's just trying to contribute to it! Btw, tis bin a yl spikes!

Sanboy is aggrieved. I biliv she is talkin from experience.

KINGwax: Sanboy is aggrieved. I biliv she is talkin from experience.

Didn't -Mr.Cork's parents approve of their union?

Lovely tips, just that it will give room for guyz to bragg!

Lists again!

Sanboy25:
Please let's not derail this front-page worth thread...

Hmmm, no b u start am

Stegomiah:

I don't think she's trying 2 spoil d thread lyk you said, she's just trying to contribute to it! Btw, tis bin a yl spikes!

Contribute ni? Ok u're now siding for her

And no, it's been more than a while

badoist: Lovely tips, just that it will give room for guyz to bragg!

Brag about their wife

badoist:

Concurring on almost everything.....

No 7 on point. Once u can do dat i blieve others won't b a problem and moreover she wud maintain her youthfulness and youngness for a long time with smiling. Hmmm!! Wudn't want sthing dat just looking at her face irritates cos i wud want to drill my wife with the urge with which i met her at 20s at her age of 40s

Pedro JP: No 7 on point. Once u can do dat i blieve others won't b a problem and moreover she wud maintain her youthfulness and youngness for a long time with smiling. Hmmm!! Wudn't want sthing dat just looking at her face irritates cos i wud want to drill my wife with the urge with which i met her at 20s at her age of 40s

Hmmn, †нªηкs! 4 contributing.

Op u no add if she put on excess weight

lefulefu: Op u no add if she put on excess weight

Good point, but it is different tastes 4 different folks, i know of a guy that loves fat girls, some like skinny women, some like them moderate in weight, aldo i think most men do not like women with excess weight, just like you just said which i personally agree with and btw, i wasn't the one who composed it, but i agree with you