Gone were those days when love was still love and feelings were still real.When people marry only for the sake of love.When Blackberry and Apple were just name of fruits.When every parent knows the importance of raising their kids well to prepare them for their matrimonial journey of life.When people don't have to be afraid of settling down as husband and wife.Because every parents in that time has trained and bring up their kids to become a responsible husbands and wives to whoever they choose to marry in their journey of life.The only things that is constant in life is change.Ts 21st century and the story of love has changed.Divorce rate is very high while the marriage rates declines.Love is not what it used to be.The desperate wants for material things has changed the story of love.Ts unbelievable what many young ladies do these days to live and maintain a fake life of make belief.Dating and marriage is never the same.Dating can be temporary but marriage should be for life.Dating is the initial stage of marriage.The reason why we date is to study and understand the type of person we are bringing into our life.Most young women go into relationship for many reasons very far from love that's why many couples are divorced before their wedding day.Some young women goes into relationship because they are lonely, some because they Hot, some because they are sad, some because of age and family pressure, some go into relationship with a guy just because he's tall and cute, some because the guy is rich.Some women will do anything just to date or even get married to a guy because he's famous and well known in life.Some women date for benefit.You can date a guy for any reason
But never ever marry a guy for any primary reason apart from love.Many young ladies got married to a complete stranger and wonder why there marriage never lasts for life.They look at temporary things in man to measure his love for them.When the foundation is bad collapse is inevitable.

Most parents are the reasons their daughters won't settle down on time in life.A failed parenthood will produce nothing but a failed husband or wife.
How you raise your kids determines what she will turn out to be in future.Most parents thinks the best legacy you can give your children is education.Some says the greatest sacrifice you can ever make for your kids is to make them a citizen of foreign countries.What makes U a good parent is never in American or British citizen.Its never in holding a Canadian or Australian passport.Great parenting is not only about sending your kids to Harvard or Cambridge to study in life.The best and the greatest education is the upbringing you give your kids.Knowledge and wisdom is not the same.Education informs your daughter about life but HOME TRAINING teaches her how to live life.Ts 100 times better to have common sense without education than to have education without common sense.How well you raise your kids can determine how good she becomes as wife.It doesn't matter where you raised your kids or which passport she holds.No man will want a woman that lacks the qualities of a wife.If your 26yrs old daughter doesn't know how to cook or clean the house,then many things are wrong.The greatest education is the home training you give your daughter at home.Never be too busy to be active in your daughter,s life.Your peace at old age depends on how well you raise your kids.Raise your children the ways of GOD.A child that has GOD in his\her life has got everything in life.Every child needs good home training but a female child is more likely to get hurt in a relationship than a boy,because when a woman truly love,she loves with all her heart.Teach your daughters about sex education.Its more miserable and more dangerous if she has to find out herself. Let her know all that is good and bad side of sex.Let her know that early sex has ruined the life of many young ladies while many are living with the consequences till the end of their life.Be close and friendly with your daughter,if you win her trust then you have won her confidence.if she has confidence in you means she will confide in you and talk to you about anything and everything that's happening and bothering her life.If you can't have conversation with her when she was 8, don't expect her to listen to you when she's 18 or 28.Divorce has its effect on kids never add to it.Never feed your kids with hatred and revenge.Saying bad things about your partner to your kids can affect their confidencve and self esteem.
Most parents encourage their daughter to ruin their life.When a jobless daughter becomes an overnight breadwinner, instead of questioning her source of income,some parents will still go to church and mosque to give testimony for the miracle of GOD.forgetting that miracle and magic is never the same.

Relationship is not a job while marriage is not career.Any lady who turns relationship to a source of income must be ready to let go of a her dignity and respect.A woman without dignity becomes ordinanry with regards.The greatest mistake your daughter can make is to say she falls in love with a married man. Ts funny when young women say married men makes them more happy and gives them rest of mind.Your happiness does not belong to anyone.In a relationship,the easiest way to put your life on hold in a relationshp is to date a married man.He will never leave his family because of you.A relationship between a young lady and a married man is like a favor, whereby the woman can't have a say.You can never see him when you want.And you can't talk to him whenever you want.You will be forced to work with his own times-table,his conditions and his terms.Your movement with him will be restricted because he doesn't want people to know something is going on between you two .Unimaginable is the lie of some married men just to take another woman to bed.If he is not happy in his marriage, tell him to get a divorce or marry you in the right channel. A man who marry you as a second wife might wake up one day and bring a new wife, and you become an old wife of yesterday.Love will turn to misery when you have to fight and beg for attention of the man you love.A man that can't be satsified by many women will never be satisfied my any woman.Men can lie to you but don't deceive yourself.Never think it in your mind that you can change a man,unless he's ready to change.A man that abandon his wife and kids just to be with you may also abandon you and your kids to move on with another woman when your time is up.......................

nice one, charity begins at home