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"Can Sex Make A Man Surrender"....? by Nobody: 6:34pm On Jul 03, 2013 |
I'm going to break this question down using a straightforward analysis and also tell you why I think men act the way they do when it comes to sex. No need to pretend, it's all natural. Sex, plays an essential role in every relationship/marriage and regardless of how one kicks it down the road, it has in so many cases broke homes, relationships, and marriages alike. So let's get started: Each person has a certain balance of masculine and feminine "energy." Obviously, men have more masculine and women have more feminine. The feminine energy grows with connection and love, and with "surrender" to all kinds of joyful experiences. This is often why women feel a sense of connection and surrendering with sexx, and often have deeper feelings for a man afterwards. But the masculine energy doesn't work this way. The masculine energy seeks CHALLENGE and a feeling of "emptiness" and "freedom." This "freedom" or emptiness is actually the masculine MEANS of surrender and fulfillment. Have you ever noticed that lots of men fall right to sleep or act like they're off somewhere else after sexx? It's because the tension of reaching their "challenge" is released, and now they feel a sense of emptiness and freedom from that tension, which means surrendering is still miles away. What the sexx actually did to him was to free him from his shackles and not necessarily make him want to surrender to the woman. Furthermore, you notice that a man could spend months chasing just one girl but the minute he gets SEX, you would have been expecting the emotions that lead in the chase to continue but it doesn't, rather he starts seeking for another challenge. So what is it that actually challenges a MAN to surrender or make him grow into a great lover and partner to a woman if SEX isn't? A man surrenders ONLY when he has those intense strong feelings that make him feel physically and EMOTIONALLY CONNECTED to you which could include how great you make him feel when he's around you (I'm not referring to the sex type of feelings) or how you challenge his intellects or personality (you may want to think of stuffs outside your physique and beauty as they're no where close to it) With sex, a man doesn't automatically "surrender" to love and connection the way a woman does... unless he LEARNS to. www.flaubertajiero.com |
Re: "Can Sex Make A Man Surrender"....? by mecussey(m): 8:31pm On Jul 03, 2013 |
Not true... I fell in love with someone who was better intimately. |
Re: "Can Sex Make A Man Surrender"....? by MrCork: 12:08am On Jul 04, 2013 |
..OOOOO yesss...i once walked 20 miles for a kiss |
Re: "Can Sex Make A Man Surrender"....? by 50calibre(m): 12:36am On Jul 04, 2013 |
-Mr Cork-: Mugu |
Re: "Can Sex Make A Man Surrender"....? by DollyParton1(f): 12:43am On Jul 04, 2013 |
-Mr Cork-:Mr Cork never disappoints. |
Re: "Can Sex Make A Man Surrender"....? by Nobody: 12:48am On Jul 04, 2013 |
-Mr Cork-: 20 miles? you mean 20/5? thats only 4 miles my friend.... |
Re: "Can Sex Make A Man Surrender"....? by lyfe(m): 1:25am On Jul 04, 2013 |
I kinda relate to what OP has said. Men's love tend to depreciate after that first climax, while it is the other way round for women. They become more clingy and seeking. 1 Like |
Re: "Can Sex Make A Man Surrender"....? by 190: 1:29am On Jul 04, 2013 |
lyfe: I kinda relate to what OP has said. Men's love tend to depreciate after that first climax, while it is the other way round for women. They become more clingy and seeking. No wonder she tie me with wrapper after I sexed her 2 Likes |
Re: "Can Sex Make A Man Surrender"....? by dBard: 3:47am On Jul 04, 2013 |
190:no handcuffs available |
Re: "Can Sex Make A Man Surrender"....? by Nobody: 5:49am On Jul 04, 2013 |
If you are broke, let us see if the woman will be clingy. |
Re: "Can Sex Make A Man Surrender"....? by tpia5: 6:02am On Jul 04, 2013 |
sex is overrated. |
Re: "Can Sex Make A Man Surrender"....? by jmoore(m): 6:57am On Jul 04, 2013 |
Most people are in lust and not in love. Sex is not love. |
Re: "Can Sex Make A Man Surrender"....? by Mynd44: 7:05am On Jul 04, 2013 |
Hmmmm. This is so insightful...... Old news |
Re: "Can Sex Make A Man Surrender"....? by Popowaa: 8:42am On Jul 04, 2013 |
Lmao 190: |
Re: "Can Sex Make A Man Surrender"....? by LabourParty(m): 3:08pm On Jul 04, 2013 |
If she's a good cook, that will do just fine for me. |
Re: "Can Sex Make A Man Surrender"....? by mecussey(m): 3:36pm On Jul 04, 2013 |
tpia@: but it is good |
Re: "Can Sex Make A Man Surrender"....? by Lovetinz(m): 5:54pm On Jul 05, 2013 |
tpia@: It is not. What is underrated is the importance of sex. Nothing will happen without it. 1 Like |
Re: "Can Sex Make A Man Surrender"....? by 190: 1:15am On Jul 06, 2013 |
Popowaa: Lmao |
Re: "Can Sex Make A Man Surrender"....? by Nobody: 1:19am On Jul 06, 2013 |
could 'surrender to love' sound any cheesier |
Re: "Can Sex Make A Man Surrender"....? by sweettease(f): 1:51am On Jul 06, 2013 |
Lovetinz: And the boldened brings us back to this tpia@: |
Re: "Can Sex Make A Man Surrender"....? by Cholls(m): 3:04am On Jul 06, 2013 |
Who need sex when I food |
Re: "Can Sex Make A Man Surrender"....? by Nobody: 5:09am On Jul 06, 2013 |
It depends on who's pusssy, brand, how tight, clean and sweet it is |
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