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A Note To My Ex: Vee by chukxy44(m): 12:36pm On Jul 07, 2013
Recently I have seen so many post as regards ones Ex, most of them make us look right while our ex are painted as the looser simply because it didn't work out, the truth is some of else were the reason it didn't work out and the ultimate looser and not our Ex. I have seen. Notes/ letters to future husband/wife and even kids and I got inspired by 2face latest Hit-Rainbow to write a note to my Ex.

I was wrong and she was right not the other way round.

Here it is:

Hi Vee,
 
I just want you to know that I have not forgotten u or forgiven myself for breaking up with you. Ever since I left u, life is fast becoming meaningless,I'm sorry Vee for putting us through all these pain and sadness.

So much has changed. Some of the things we asked God for, He has finally granted, even though some are yet to come through but I'm much more closer today to getting them resolved than I was yesterday.
I have made so many mistakes, some of which I wish really never happened but none can be compared to the mistake of letting you go. It is a mistake that hunts me day and night. If I could have you back I would readily move mountains to see it happen. Vee, I'm still far from where I'm supposed to be, but am working on it. I still think of you each day and night, I guess it id more like I miss u more each moment.
 
In a few weeks I would be adding another year, I still remember the one spent with u. It was like a fairy tale, I have finally printed some of those pictures we took, thanks for d foot wears, the clothes the wine and all the gifts that u showered on me with (u certainly went all out) they remind me so about you, this days when I remember how life was with you. I wonder how I had managed to survive so far without u. These days I get angry for no reason, I hate my self, I have been trying to put my mind to work, been extra busy at work, been open to investment and business ideas, just as u have always advised. Some have already started paying off, while some didn't really turnout as planned. It has been difficult to go through each day without thoughts of you. Vee I'm still trying to figure out one thing that I have achieved since u left but all that fills my heart is the thought of how to live the next day without u. It is sad dear, things have not been the same, and will never be same without u. I am weak dear, I am helpless and I am sad and I can’t help it because my heart is heavy with thoughts of u. I am yet to find someone who has come close to loving me the way u did. I guess never will I have found that person.
 
Then I couldn't wait to see u move on. I really wanted you to move on. Yes, I thought it was the best thing to do. I wasn't ready to get married but you so much wanted to and I didn't want to stop you when I wasn't even sure if I would make it worth your while in the end. I know you might not believe it but I miss you and honestly love u much more than I would have even made u believe. It has been so lonely  and cold without u. I wasn't surprised when you chose to change all your lines and even deleted your facebook account, I even felt relived when I heard you had gotten married and had relocated with your husband. The worst part is I can’t call, can’t text, and can’t see u again except heaven would have mercy on me and allow our parts cut cross just one more time, even if it is just for a minute to hug u and tell u how sorry I am. I know one day we would meet again, I don’t know when or how but it is certain that I would someday look u in the eye and tell you I am sorry and that I can never love another.

I was so blind to see that I was throwing away God's best gift to me. I was so crazy about building a career and the life that I thought was best instead of caring for you or planning a future with u. I should have followed your wish and believed in you that all would be well. Baby I am sorry for everything, if you do get to see this please send a text, an email or a call. I just want to say it to you that you are the best thing I could ever have and that I am sorry I lost you.

Vee, Life has been hell without u, notwithstanding, I want you to be truly happy and I know your husband is indeed blessed to have you. I am certain you would make a fine wife and a great mom. I can't wait to see your kids (secretly still wish they were ours), I still remember the names you said you would love your kids to bear. I so miss u so much dear. Chy you will always be my angel.

I still love you Vee n will always do

cryChukxy.

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Re: A Note To My Ex: Vee by chukxy44(m): 7:10pm On Jul 10, 2013
Vee, I really wish u get to read this.
Re: A Note To My Ex: Vee by Nobody: 7:34pm On Jul 10, 2013
chukxy44: Vee, I really wish u get to read this.
Pray she's on Nairaland, else all of this na wetin, na wash. Anyway, I encourage people to forget their jerky ex's. So if she hasn't moved on and you are truly repentant, she could give you another chance. But if she has, na your cup of tea be that.
Re: A Note To My Ex: Vee by angelseddy(f): 7:50pm On Jul 10, 2013
Hmmmm, what a touching write up. I just wonder why people choose to repent when they regret. You had your chance to treat her right but failed to. I advise u leave all this emotional tinz n I hope she moves on without looking back.
Re: A Note To My Ex: Vee by Dovahkiin(m): 8:45am On Jul 11, 2013
drop vees details bb pin number address etc here so we can re direct her here op sounds btch-made tho smiley
Re: A Note To My Ex: Vee by Cholls(m): 1:57pm On Jul 11, 2013
Guys are now sounding loffy loffy o...anyways am still on my hustle 2 make that cash...no too much talk talk

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Re: A Note To My Ex: Vee by Nobody: 2:19pm On Jul 11, 2013
Boss, you have to forgive yourself and move on. She's gone already and there's absolutely nothing you can do about that. From your write-up, i believe you did what you thought was right for her at the moment. Even though the action was wrong, the INTENT would always be right and she would realise that one day, if she hasn't yet. Stop beating yourself up over it, forgive yourself and mingle with other ladies. There are a thousand and one ladies out there who can make you happier than Vee. Just hope and pray that wherever she is, she finds true happiness. THAT'S ALL!
Re: A Note To My Ex: Vee by chukxy44(m): 7:22pm On Jul 11, 2013
sexkillz: Pray she's on Nairaland, else all of this na wetin, na wash. Anyway, I encourage people to forget their jerky ex's. So if she hasn't moved on and you are truly repentant, she could give you another chance. But if she has, na your cup of tea be that.

She used to be on Nairaland ( dat I was sure of) Usually we talk of topics dat we read here but we kept our I'd's to our selves. I strongly believe she still visit or even post here.

alutacontinua: Boss, you have to forgive yourself and move on. She's gone already and there's absolutely nothing you can do about that. From your write-up, i believe you did what you thought was right for her at the moment. Even though the action was wrong, the INTENT would always be right and she would realise that one day, if she hasn't yet. Stop beating yourself up over it, forgive yourself and mingle with other ladies. There are a thousand and one ladies out there who can make you happier than Vee. Just hope and pray that wherever she is, she finds true happiness. THAT'S ALL!

Honestly, I just hope she sees this, atlest it might help change the perception she has about me not loving her or breaking up because I got tired of her.
Dovahkiin: drop vees details bb pin number address etc here so we can re direct her here op sounds btch-made tho smiley

I wish I had her pin or contact. Right now am hoping she reads this.
Re: A Note To My Ex: Vee by Idowuogbo(f): 7:34pm On Jul 11, 2013
Ogbeni chuks, d chiquito don marry mehn... Let d married woman b! U had ur chance but u were busy forming I never ready she? Now u wan hug? If I back hand u? Nonsense! C'mon Gerrout! Vee abi na Veronica dey h-enjoy her lawful wedded blokos o! Stop harrasing d Mrs o! Hian! angry

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Re: A Note To My Ex: Vee by Smartiegurl(f): 8:09pm On Jul 11, 2013
Don't worry dear, i have forgiven you!! Is all bygone now right?

Yours truly,
Vee.
Re: A Note To My Ex: Vee by chukxy44(m): 8:19pm On Jul 11, 2013
Idowuogbo: Ogbeni chuks, d chiquito don marry mehn... Let d married woman b! U had ur chance but u were busy forming I never ready she? Now u wan hug? If I back hand u? Nonsense! C'mon Gerrout! Vee abi na Veronica dey h-enjoy her lawful wedded blokos o! Stop harrasing d Mrs o! Hian! angry

Sincerely this is the impression I want to correct. I love her much more than she could ever imagine, U think it was easy for me too, not at all. I really wish she is truly happy.

Smartie gurl: Don't worry dear, i have forgiven you!! Is all bygone now right?

Yours truly,
Vee.

Thanks I appreciate but Vee wouldn't use does words. Certainly she way too emotional than this.
Re: A Note To My Ex: Vee by Smartiegurl(f): 8:33pm On Jul 11, 2013
chukxy44:

Sincerely this is the impression I want to correct. I love her much more than she could ever imagine, U think it was easy for me too, not at all. I really wish she is truly happy.



Thanks I appreciate but Vee wouldn't use does words. Certainly she way too emotional than this.
lolzz!! Things change sweet, I'm not the same anymore....is been years now remember.
Re: A Note To My Ex: Vee by cityhood: 9:48pm On Jul 11, 2013
chukxy44: Recently I have seen so many post as regards ones Ex, most of them make us look right while our ex are painted as the looser simply because it didn't work out, the truth is some of else were the reason it didn't work out and the ultimate looser and not our Ex. I have seen. Notes/ letters to future husband/wife and even kids and I got inspired by 2face latest Hit-Rainbow to write a note to my Ex.

I was wrong and she was right not the other way round.

Here it is:

Hi Vee,
 
I just want you to know that I have not forgotten u or forgiven myself for breaking up with you. Ever since I left u, life is fast becoming meaningless,I'm sorry Vee for putting us through all these pain and sadness.

So much has changed. Some of the things we asked God for, He has finally granted, even though some are yet to come through but I'm much more closer today to getting them resolved than I was yesterday.
I have made so many mistakes, some of which I wish really never happened but none can be compared to the mistake of letting you go. It is a mistake that hunts me day and night. If I could have you back I would readily move mountains to see it happen. Vee, I'm still far from where I'm supposed to be, but am working on it. I still think of you each day and night, I guess it id more like I miss u more each moment.
 
In a few weeks I would be adding another year, I still remember the one spent with u. It was like a fairy tale, I have finally printed some of those pictures we took, thanks for d foot wears, the clothes the wine and all the gifts that u showered on me with (u certainly went all out) they remind me so about you, this days when I remember how life was with you. I wonder how I had managed to survive so far without u. These days I get angry for no reason, I hate my self, I have been trying to put my mind to work, been extra busy at work, been open to investment and business ideas, just as u have always advised. Some have already started paying off, while some didn't really turnout as planned. It has been difficult to go through each day without thoughts of you. Vee I'm still trying to figure out one thing that I have achieved since u left but all that fills my heart is the thought of how to live the next day without u. It is sad dear, things have not been the same, and will never be same without u. I am weak dear, I am helpless and I am sad and I can’t help it because my heart is heavy with thoughts of u. I am yet to find someone who has come close to loving me the way u did. I guess never will I have found that person.
 
Then I couldn't wait to see u move on. I really wanted you to move on. Yes, I thought it was the best thing to do. I wasn't ready to get married but you so much wanted to and I didn't want to stop you when I wasn't even sure if I would make it worth your while in the end. I know you might not believe it but I miss you and honestly love u much more than I would have even made u believe. It has been so lonely  and cold without u. I wasn't surprised when you chose to change all your lines and even deleted your facebook account, I even felt relived when I heard you had gotten married and had relocated with your husband. The worst part is I can’t call, can’t text, and can’t see u again except heaven would have mercy on me and allow our parts cut cross just one more time, even if it is just for a minute to hug u and tell u how sorry I am. I know one day we would meet again, I don’t know when or how but it is certain that I would someday look u in the eye and tell you I am sorry and that I can never love another.

I was so blind to see that I was throwing away God's best gift to me. I was so crazy about building a career and the life that I thought was best instead of caring for you or planning a future with u. I should have followed your wish and believed in you that all would be well. Baby I am sorry for everything, if you do get to see this please send a text, an email or a call. I just want to say it to you that you are the best thing I could ever have and that I am sorry I lost you.

Vee, Life has been hell without u, notwithstanding, I want you to be truly happy and I know your husband is indeed blessed to have you. I am certain you would make a fine wife and a great mom. I can't wait to see your kids (secretly still wish they were ours), I still remember the names you said you would love your kids to bear. I so miss u so much dear. Chy you will always be my angel.

I still love you Vee n will always do

cryChukxy.
Re: A Note To My Ex: Vee by chukxy44(m): 9:50pm On Jul 11, 2013
Smartie gurl: lolzz!! Things change sweet, I'm not the same anymore....is been years now remember.
Very funny, had to run through ur profile n past post just doesn't jive, almost fell for it though. Honestly thanks
Re: A Note To My Ex: Vee by Nobody: 12:49am On Jul 12, 2013
Awww, what a sweet and touching letter. It's great you took the time to write down your feelings. I think it'll help you heal. Idk what I could say to make you feel better sad. Take heart.
Re: A Note To My Ex: Vee by 190: 5:02am On Jul 12, 2013
who tha phuck is VEE

is it for valerie or V-i-r-g-i-n-t-y angry angry

am sure vee could either be modella, adaobi or that unrepentant yield or aluta continua


Glad you broke their heart angry angry

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Re: A Note To My Ex: Vee by Nobody: 5:04am On Jul 12, 2013
undecided tongue
Re: A Note To My Ex: Vee by 190: 5:05am On Jul 12, 2013
^dont u sleep

its 4am in the UK see as you siddon on top nairaland with those your eyes wen be like Pumpkin seeds angry angry
Re: A Note To My Ex: Vee by Nobody: 5:07am On Jul 12, 2013
190: ^dont u sleep

its 4am in the UK see as you siddon on top nairaland with those your eyes wen be like Pumpkin seeds angry angry

angry

I went to bed early
Re: A Note To My Ex: Vee by 190: 5:09am On Jul 12, 2013
adaobi123:

angry

I went to bed early

so thats why you should seatdown on nairaland gazzing at the site with your torchlike eyes angry

Hmmm - we'l talk much later lemme go look for some trouble elsewhere wifey cheesy
Re: A Note To My Ex: Vee by Nobody: 5:10am On Jul 12, 2013
190:

so thats why you should seatdown on nairaland gazzing at the site with your torchlike eyes angry

Hmmm - we'l talk much later lemme go look for some trouble elsewhere wifey cheesy

tongue embarassed
Re: A Note To My Ex: Vee by 190: 5:28am On Jul 12, 2013
adaobi123:

tongue embarassed

okay imma be nice to u since sleep nor gree catch u undecided
Re: A Note To My Ex: Vee by Nobody: 5:29am On Jul 12, 2013
190:

okay imma be nice to u since sleep nor gree catch u undecided

smiley smiley
Re: A Note To My Ex: Vee by Smartiegurl(f): 6:10am On Jul 12, 2013
chukxy44:
Very funny, had to run through ur profile n past post just doesn't jive, almost fell for it though. Honestly thanks
Lmao.......dnt mind me dear. Not to worry, vee will come across this someday.
Re: A Note To My Ex: Vee by Nobody: 6:52am On Jul 12, 2013
WTF
Re: A Note To My Ex: Vee by Nobody: 7:43am On Jul 12, 2013
190: who tha phuck is VEE

is it for valerie or V-i-r-g-i-n-t-y angry angry

am sure vee could either be modella, adaobi or that unrepentant yield or aluta continua


Glad you broke their heart angry angry

Are you okay?
as in cool?
Stop mentioning my name. angry angry
Re: A Note To My Ex: Vee by AbuMikey(m): 10:15am On Jul 12, 2013
Idowuogbo: Ogbeni chuks, d chiquito don marry mehn... Let d married woman b! U had ur chance but u were busy forming I never ready she? Now u wan hug? If I back hand u? Nonsense! C'mon Gerrout! Vee abi na Veronica dey h-enjoy her lawful wedded blokos o! Stop harrasing d Mrs o! Hian! angry
ROTFLMAO gringrin
Re: A Note To My Ex: Vee by AbuMikey(m): 10:21am On Jul 12, 2013
This is the Most Heart Touching Story I ever read on Romance Section!!!! My Bro,Heaven knows I feel for you!!!..........



Buh,wait!!......what's Vee's real name?,[s]I've heard a gurl say something about a certain Chucks cool her ex!![/s] I could help you meet her tho!
Re: A Note To My Ex: Vee by chukxy44(m): 7:22pm On Jul 12, 2013
Smartie gurl: Lmao.......dnt mind me dear. Not to worry, vee will come across this someday.

Thanks a lot dear, really hope she does.
Abu Mikey: This is the Most Heart Touching Story I ever read on Romance Section!!!! My Bro,Heaven knows I feel for you!!!..........



Buh,wait!!......what's Vee's real name?,[s]I've heard a gurl say something about a certain Chucks cool her ex!![/s] I could help you meet her tho!

Wow, am interested, would readily appreciate any and every help. Her name is Vanessa Chinenye. Would have to leave out her surname. Am sure if she is d one both names wud suffice.

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