lotsa bile? definitely.

but men also get the short end of the stick too. there are women who marry men so they can divorce him 3 yrs later. during that 3 yrs, their only contribution to his income would have been shopping sprees and expensive vacations. unfortunately for the guy, he is usually head over heels for her.

what's good for the goose is good for the gander. women have no right to go around spewing rubbish about things they are also guilty of doing. i take exception in cases where the woman has been abused outrightly, especially because by virtue of the fact that she is a woman (and therefore physically weaker) she cannot defend herself. not mind games. trust me, women play mind games better than anyone else.

so hotfunmi dont ask men to be gentlemen if we women are not prepared to be ladies. publish names of wife beaters? YES! robbers at large? YES!! playas?? no need. cos she just got played. thassall. stuff happens

funmi,please how old are u?

send all the players over! men who play games havent met people like me

well, i dont think its fair for the ladies in the site to finish my Nigerian brothers like that. well shit happens and they could move on to better men. the site is interesting though. my only issues with some guys is they never want to disclose that they are married and even if they eventually do, the lie that they are not happy in their relationships.

another thing is, here in England alot of women love Nigerian men and find them irresistible, my problem is i spend my time consoling someone hurt by them all the time and i feel bad for the ladies but it doesnt stop. compared to other african men, Nigerian men are smooth talkers and african girls fall for everything they say.

so i would say let them be, its not a nice thing to hurt people but people do it anyway. as for me I am in the Game and i always love a challenge from a Player.

This is outrageous

NubianQ:

another thing is, here in England alot of women love Nigerian men and find them irresistible, my problem is i spend my time consoling someone hurt by them all the time and i feel bad for the ladies but it doesnt stop. compared to other african men, Nigerian men are smooth talkers and african girls fall for everything they say.

and they have no problem spending all their money on ladies compared to other african brothers. Thats why those african girls love them

i dont think its a very good idea,if you as a gurl found your name on a nigerian site saying you r promiscous how wud you feel and how would your partner/husband feel?also how would you confirm the guy is really a player and not some gurl out for revenge?if they start one for guys im sure very soon another one will come up for girls and then the shit will hit the fan, its not a good idea either for the guys or girls

lucabrasi:

i don't think its a very good idea,if you as a girl found your name on a nigerian site saying you r promiscous how would you feel and how would your partner/husband feel?also how would you confirm the guy is really a player and not some girl out for revenge?if they start one for guys im sure very soon another one will come up for girls and then the shit will hit the fan, its not a good idea either for the guys or girls

I think the idea is very good and we should also have Dontdateherboy.com where all the guys can put pics and information of all the promiscous girls out there

@Poster

Yeah i remember this site.

Some heifer i dated few years ago had me on there. She wasn't even a date, it was just a fling. She got mad 'cause i told her i was tired of the mess. She got mad claiming i used her and put me on there. My co-workers saw me on the site and told me. I threatened her with a lawsuit and slander before she removed my name. I think there is one for men too. Don'tdateher.com or something like that. i know 2 guys on that site as of last year.

The truth about this site is most of these women still want the guy back and they go to this site when all their efforts fail. In my own case, the girl was my boss and she just came out of a relationship. She was the one even stalking and blowing up my phone. Until i changed my number and the job. That's when she went to this site. I all of a sudden became a user, a cheat etc. After i told her that i felt like she needed to go back to her ex because he still wants her. I never wanted the fling but she seduced me into it. Guys, watch out for die hard women. And if you find yourself on this site, threaten her with a lawsuit and i bet she will remove it.

Its a great idea for Thieves, conmen, wife beaters, married men, DL brothers.

If someone is a player they will usually give off signs, which are ignored by the woman. There are many bastards out there, its just dating. its up to the woman to sift through the chaff.

I don't think just because someone two timed you, or isn't as committed as he told you he was, its a valid reason to put his name or picture up.

It would rather be a better resource to give women tips on what to look for if they think they may be dating a lying cheating toad. They will just fall victim to someone else if they don't learn how to recognise the signs.

@Poster

Yeah i remember this site.

Some heifer i dated few years ago had me on there. She wasn't even a date, it was just a fling. She got mad 'cause i told her i was tired of the mess. She got mad claiming i used her and put me on there. My co-workers saw me on the site and told me. I threatened her with a lawsuit and slander before she removed my name. I think there is one for men too. Don'tdateher.com or something like that. i know 2 guys on that site as of last year.

The truth about this site is most of these women still want the guy back and they go to this site when all their efforts fail. In my own case, the girl was my boss and she just came out of a relationship. She was the one even stalking and blowing up my phone. Until i changed my number and the job. That's when she went to this site. I all of a sudden became a user, a cheat etc. After i told her that i felt like she needed to go back to her ex because he still wants her. I never wanted the fling but she seduced me into it. Guys, watch out for die hard women. And if you find yourself on this site, threaten her with a lawsuit and i bet she will remove it.

Pele. Just don't take advantage of women when they are in their lowest point again. Women always leave their guards open whenever they are going through emotional hell. Be warned!

Its a great idea for Thieves, conmen, wife beaters, married men, DL brothers.

The idea is this, why put up fraudsters on a website and turn around to forgive those that do emotional 419? Someone here said that whatever is good for the goose is also good for the gander.

OsunAmazon:

@Poster

Pele. Just don't take advantage of women when they are in their lowest point again. Women always leave their guards open whenever they are going through emotional hell. Be warned!

You make it sound like women are helpless,braindead and down right pitiful
Next time you'll be talking of equality and asserting your rights
which one is it?

OsunAmazon:


The idea is this, why put up fraudsters on a website and turn around to forgive those that do emotional 419? Someone here said that whatever is good for the goose is also good for the gander.

Its not about forgiving anyone. My opinion is that when it comes to emotions, some women ignore the signs.
I would rather people who are actually committing crimes targetted at women and through relationships should be outted. I think some things are about the individual. There are people who tell you what they know you want to hear, and some people fall for it. We already have the tools to safeguard ourselves from that. I think some people there are just disgruntled ex's.

A frauster and a person who committs physical assaults on women, are actually breaking the law, someone who is a player isn't.

@Sheniqua, props on your last post

You make it sound like women are helpless, braindead and down right pitiful
Next time you'll be talking of equality and asserting your rights
which one is it?

Yeah right, women are angels and men are evil puhlease.

Sadly a lot of women play the victim when their actions leave them embarrassed.

i still dey wonder if na only yoruba men dey US,abeg make dem change both home and abroad.

Huhhhhhhhhhhh, "Hell definitely hath no fury like a woman scorned",. ,  . . .  ,   

i still dey wonder if na only yoruba men dey US,abeg make them change both home and abroad

Must everything on this site turn to a tribal war? What kind of people are you?.

I think Ladies should simply have this in mind when they get approached by a chap.

If it sounds too good to be true, then it is too good to be true.

There is no need for a website.

I think Ladies should simply have this in mind when they get approached by a chap.

If it sounds too good to be true, then it is too good to be true.

There is no need for a website.

I just hope it's that easy. Smooth talkingg cassanovas use what you really want to get into your pants. Must women in north America are in dire need of emotional support and smooth talkers easily offer that to get access to your veejay. i just hope that women should be less greedy, reduce their high expectations to a considerable height and try as much as possible to be real sometimes. We can be our own worst enemies sometimes.

You make it sound like women are helpless,braindead and down right pitiful

Not at all! women are weak emotionally and Nigerian men are capitalising on that to ruin their lives. Accept it or live it. Morever, giving women certain extra priviledges because they are oppressed in our society does not mean that there should be unequal rights for both genders. We pay the same taxes, don't we? As a matter of fact, i think that women should be given a little tax break because of the rrough roads they have to travel just to measure up to their male counterparts.

Just names and no pics ? Then what is the use when i can always change my name .
I think there should also be www.dontdateher.com too.

proo212:

@Sheniqua, props on your last post


Yeah right, women are angels and men are evil puhlease.

Sadly a lot of women play the victim when their actions leave them embarrassed.

nice one,im getting the feeling what the poster actually wants is to bash men yet again as the evil demon seeking innocent ,faint hearted,emotionally weak women to devour,
@poster
women want equality in everything which we men in the western world have gotten used to,now when its convenient for them suddenly they are the weaker sex and not equal to the man anymore, both men and women have equal brains and ability to discern evil or mildly put a playa so a woman that gets taken advantage of should just lick her wounds and be more careful next time same as a guy would do, theres no need for the whole internet thing cause the woman will suffer it more especially in our kind of nigerian culture

Look ladies, if all a man has to do is to tell you what you want to hear and you jump into bed, there is nothing a website can do to change that.

Perhaps you shouldn't be dating in that state.

We all have brains, we all have will, we all have intuition. If a man didn't rape you, then you consented. If you consented, you will have to bear some responsibility.

I think many people just dont live in the real world. Dont you know there are men and women who will seek out your insecurities and exploit them? Its up to you not to leave yourself open.

We are all human, sometimes we get played, take it on the chin and learn the lesson in the experience.

What happens the next time you run into a man who isn't on that site, but plays you the same way?, Is it ALWAYS going to totally be the fault of the other person?

sheniqua:

You make it sound like women are helpless,braindead and down right pitiful
Next time you'll be talking of equality and asserting your rights
which one is it?

True True.