she is always arguing and expressing her intellectual prowess even when its obvious she is not making sense....how can a man cope with a lady with a domineering attitude,very un-submissive and annoying just because she has an excellent career profile....mature replies pls

youngalex: she is always arguing and expressing her intellectual prowess even when its obvious she is not making sense....how can a man cope with a lady with a domineering attitude,very un-submissive and annoying just because she has an excellent career profile....mature replies pls

Plant a kiss on her lips yl shes arguing, n aked her n lie her on d bed, den bleep heaven n earth out of her, dress up, walk away for good. Never come bk. Tenk

If she has an excellent career profile as you said it is most likely she is making sense, it maybe that you cannot keep up with her , if you are not married yet, it may be something to think about, you may want to look for 'one of your own'

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Are you guys married? If not, may be you both are not intellectually compartible so I will advice not to marry, but it seems you both are married. Or may be newly married.

If you are newly married, you will both get to a point where you both understand how you want to live together. If you guys truely love each other then those things will die out. By the time you have two or three kids and in-laws and outlaws to deal with then you will both begin to reason together. You will both realise that one person cannot be right all the time. You will realise that there is more than one way of doing anything and that there is more than one right answers to a question - it depends on who is answering. You both will learn compromise. You may argue alot in the beginning, but as you mature in marriage you both will understand that lots of those arguements are meaningless and benefits nobody.

Shinatu: If she has an excellent career profile as you said it is most likely she is making sense, it maybe that you cannot keep up with her , if you are not married yet, it may be something to think about, you may want to look for 'one of your own'

LOL, you are exactly right. They are not intellectually compatible. This kind of arrangement is more frustrating for the smarter person. Just in case you didnt know OP. It is like trying to penetrate through a brickwall with your eyes to her when your argument doesnt make sense.

Well we re still dating,maybe she feels she is very idependent financially,on the basis of intellect we re @ par am just unfortunate to hav not gotten a better job all dis while...guess I hav to quit before I mace her am very gentle but hot tempered

If your need for her submission is based on biblical injunction, then you probably need to show you are also in submission to God. No Christian woman should submit herself without seeing such.

I also want to ask if you are doing well in your chosen career. You need to be sure you are not transferring aggression.

I am also curious to know if she displayed this during courtship (if there was one)

youngalex: Well we re still dating,maybe she feels she is very idependent financially,on the basis of intellect we re @ par am just unfortunate to hav not gotten a better job all dis while...guess I hav to quit before I mace her am very gentle but hot tempered

Honestly the best thing is to quit this relationship and go and upgrade yourself intellectually

Your written English is so poor that its shocking you can claim to have any form of intellectual prowess

The truth is your wife is smarter and more intelligent than you. And you want her to dumb down to your level because you are the man who is still without a good job.

Let me ask, How did you convince her to date you?

Its better you quit with your agidi talaka mentality. You are poor intellectually instead of seeking knowledge, you have a hot temper to go with it

Find your own size among other babes especially Paraga sellers.

Let your girl find someone who matches her intellect

dayokanu:

Honestly the best thing is to quit this relationship and go and upgrade yourself intellectually

Your written English is so poor that its shocking you can claim to have any form of intellectual prowess

The truth is your wife is smarter and more intelligent than you. And you want her to dumb down to your level because you are the man who is still without a good job.

Let me ask, How did you convince her to date you?

Its better you quit with your agidi talaka mentality you are poor intellectually instead of seeking knowledge, you have a hot temper to go with it

Find your own size among other babes especially Paraga sellers.

Let your girl find someone who matches her intellect

*dies laughing* ROTFLMAO.

^paraga sellers...lmfao

youngalex: Well we re still dating,maybe she feels she is very idependent financially,on the basis of intellect we re @ par am just unfortunate to hav not gotten a better job all dis while...guess I hav to quit before I mace her am very gentle but hot tempered

Please dont take Dayo's comments seriously but the message is clear. Do not marry that girl before you become the wife in the house. She may not respect you and because you are hot tempered, you will surely hit her. So please no need for any marriage. Just look for a good way to break up with her.

dayokanu:

Honestly the best thing is to quit this relationship and go and upgrade yourself intellectually

Your written English is so poor that its shocking you can claim to have any form of intellectual prowess

The truth is your wife is smarter and more intelligent than you. And you want her to dumb down to your level because you are the man who is still without a good job.

Let me ask, How did you convince her to date you?

Its better you quit with your agidi talaka mentality. You are poor intellectually instead of seeking knowledge, you have a hot temper to go with it

Find your own size among other babes especially Paraga sellers.

Let your girl find someone who matches her intellect

Harsh , but the bottom line is very true. Just spare each other the drama and break up now.

@ dayokanu its obvious ur response is quite immature,dis is a social media u don't expect me to fine tune my english here,based on job levels we all know naija I secured a good job late(few months ago)while she has spent years on a plum job,qualification wise she has a masters degree with other certifications and I have same so what's the stress,its just dis idea of women empowerment and gender equality...guess I have to give her a break

youngalex: @ dayokanu its obvious ur response is quite immature,dis is a social media u don't expect me to fine tune my english here,based on job levels we all know naija I secured a good job late(few months ago)while she has spent years on a plum job,qualification wise she has a masters degree with other certifications and I have same so what's the stress,its just dis idea of women empowerment and gender equality...guess I have to give her a break

Find someone with a secondary school certificate who you feel you are better than. That is what you need. You dont need someone that will intellectually stimulate you are help you attain greater heights. You dont want someone that will tell you how she feels or that she should have an opinion. That is just who you are. Find someone that will boost your ego everyday. A woman who her parents took pain and time to educate will never become an id*iot. Even paraga sellers no dey gree these days.

@Baby_123...am a very flexible person when it comes to making decisions so am not the issue here even her sisters do complain of dis uncompromising attitude so I guess she is just the rigid type

youngalex: @Baby_123...am a very flexible person when it comes to making decisions so am not the issue here even her sisters do complain of dis uncompromising attitude so I guess she is just the rigid type

Give an example... Of what you are trying to say. How is she rigid? You know both of you are not married yet. You should not be expecting her to do things that will not favour her. Look at it now, you are willing to quit the relationship. if she compromised to what you want, what is her gain after you leave her? Also, if you say she is smart. She will definitely analyze whatever decisions you want to take, most especially if it affects her.

Is u people married?

dayokanu:

Honestly the best thing is to quit this relationship and go and upgrade yourself intellectually

Your written English is so poor that its shocking you can claim to have any form of intellectual prowess

The truth is your wife is smarter and more intelligent than you. And you want her to dumb down to your level because you are the man who is still without a good job.

Let me ask, How did you convince her to date you?

Its better you quit with your agidi talaka mentality. You are poor intellectually instead of seeking knowledge, you have a hot temper to go with it

Find your own size among other babes especially Paraga sellers.

Let your girl find someone who matches her intellect

Dead!!!

Not married yet..

^^ Leave he and find your size. A woman who doesnt argue, WHo isnt of too high intellect, Who doesnt have a top paying job and who wont question your authority.

There are about millions of single girls in Nigeria

@ Dayokanu abi guess I need to refine my search dis time attitude comes first before career or intellect

Maybe u think she's unsubmissive cos she earns more than u do....well tell her how u feel about her unsubmissiveness .

baby_123:

Find someone with a secondary school certificate who you feel you are better than. That is what you need. You dont need someone that will intellectually stimulate you are help you attain greater heights. You dont want someone that will tell you how she feels or that she should have an opinion. That is just who you are. Find someone that will boost your ego everyday. A woman who her parents took pain and time to educate will never become an id*iot. Even paraga sellers no dey gree these days.

you no go kill me with laughter. Please OP you need to deal with your temperament first. If your easily angered attitude is not checked, your future marriage may recieve the hot coal and this will be dangerous. Concerning your fiancee, is not always a good idea to marry a woman who earns more than you for "he who pays the pipa dictates the tune". Between, do you love her? Why do you love her? Because of her achievements, career, physical beauty, her spendings? If any of these reasons is what made you love her then you are not yet ready for marriage unless you are telling me that you will be humble enough to let her have her way all the thing. Re-evaluate your self.

@ youngalex, could it be that she's just highly opinionated? I don't understand know how you'll be able to effectively measure submission in a b/g friend relationship anyways.
See, my hubby in the early years of marriage used to say I wasn't submissive and all I did then was to ask him to point at any major issue where I either took a decision without his consent or where I totally ignored his instruction or counsel on any major issue, of course there wasn't anyone So. I told him to slack off if I don't share his political view on issues. Fast forward to eight years after and the same guy will now complain that I don't critique or give analysis on a business plan or idea like I used to and I'll say Oga, what exactly do you wan sef!
I'll have to agree with 123 and kanu here, leave the poor girl alone and date someone who Is totally uncompliant with the contemporary society; that way you'll have someone in a lower intelectual class than you who will probably worship you and will not be able to even contribute to discussions talk less of now arguing. You'll miss this your girlfriend at some timme in the future sha!

Princess zoe: you no go kill me with laughter. Please OP you need to deal with your temperament first. If your easily angered attitude is not checked, your future marriage may recieve the hot coal and this will be dangerous. Concerning your fiancee, is not always a good idea to marry a woman who earns more than you for "he who pays the pipa dictates the tune". Between, do you love her? Why do you love her? Because of her achievements, career, physical beauty, her spendings? If any of these reasons is what made you love her then you are not yet ready for marriage unless you are telling me that you will be humble enough to let her have her way all the thing. Re-evaluate your self.

Question we should be asking OP is why now he has to dump her after just getting a job. Is it that he just got a big boost in ego? And it is causing problems between them? Maybe the shakara she has been making for you when you were still struggling, you are now giving her a dose of her own medicine. LOL.

dayo will not kill me with laff...
I think op is just a typical 1820 kinda man. Nd as Dayo pointed out, his IQ might be on the not-too-high side too. It's not by having masters oo, op!

Let her go jor.

Look for another lady.

Okay guyz....ease up on the poster please!!
I understand ur feelings & how much ur ego has been bruised!!!
A wealthy chic....got more education than you...probably the same age too....yea yea....and very stubborn & a feminist right?
Well, u need to give her a break!!!
Build up yourself.....make some money to boost ur confidence....train urself to be more opened & less temperamental.!!!
U don't need to fight her, u only need to communicate with her on these issues!!
If her siblings agreed that she is very obstinate & argumentative, then just give her some time to sort herself out....if after a while she doesn't show signs of letting go of such confrontational attitudes, move on Sir!!!
Life is too sweet to be bitter!!!
Cheers brov!

dayokanu:

Honestly the best thing is to quit this relationship and go and upgrade yourself intellectually

Your written English is so poor that its shocking you can claim to have any form of intellectual prowess

The truth is your wife is smarter and more intelligent than you. And you want her to dumb down to your level because you are the man who is still without a good job.

Let me ask, How did you convince her to date you?

Its better you quit with your agidi talaka mentality. You are poor intellectually instead of seeking knowledge, you have a hot temper to go with it

Find your own size among other babes especially Paraga sellers.

Let your girl find someone who matches her intellect

gbam. You have said it all

I think you guys are not compatible intellectually and I suggest you end the relationship for your own good because if you still marry her and she argues and you can't take it any longer,you won't know when you will become a murderer this one that you are bragging that you have hot temper as if its a virtue to be proud of



Secondly she most likely might be more intelligent than you and earns more hence cause resentment,jealousy and anger.you appear to have ego.she appears to be self confident in whatever she does ,omo that combo no good before una stab yourselves for house



Thirdly upgrade yourself

Ignore her. As long as she does not make you look stupid or deliberately hurt your feelings with her opinion, be proud of her intelligence.

If it bothers you that much, talk to her. Breaking up with someone because they're more or less intelligent is stup!d IMO.